Woah....didn't expect to derail the thread.
But I caught up to the last few pages. I guess some get it some don't. It aint for everybody. This could take some explaining so long read ahead...but here's how I see it
This thread has harped on about how women can be manipulative by nature. but they are most familiar with manipulation toward them
have you ever wondered why women hate simps? we always see it from our side...nikkas pouring their hearts out, showering her with gifts and compliments, yet at some point the women shyts on them with such malice
Well I think it's because simps are manipulators. poor ones. they try to buy p*ssy with money or favors, try to manipulate her feelings ("making her feel special" ) or "earn" their way into p*ssy by sticking around or being an emotional tampon. And females see right thru it.
on the other hand the average a$$hole doesn't really give a fukk and treats her AT MOST like any ol person. (and it's only downhill from there) The rapper/baller/athlete see's 100 bad chicks daily and is desensitized to them so much they probably just treat them like shyt. And women love these men
western media brought women this current pedestal position while feminism made society sex crazed. The result it has on dudes is guys treating just a conversation with any ol bop like a fukkin job interview. answering questions dutifully, brown nosing n shyt.
nikkas forgot that women were people in the quest for p*ssy. they treat the woman as a whole as just some sort of cerberus, a bytchy gatekeeper they have to disarm to gain access to the pink gates of p*ssyhalla. qualifying in general subcommunicates this behavior and this is why women are so disgusted by it secretly.
Good [mind]frame for women is to treat them like kids. or treat them how you would as a kid. don't really take shyt they say seriously, cuz most times they just talkin just to talk. and why not? they hate responsibility and all things adult anyway. I treat them the way they want to be treated. AND IT'S AWESOME. chicks are fun cause you can pull pranks one em, preform wrestling moves on em
, pull their hair and just be a charming jerk. And they love it. just be plain playful. That's what talkin shyt is. Just banter. and it can be fun too
like, imagine a Jahmal date.
nikka be lookin at his phone's Quick lil Gems pdf. file under the table like "
oh yea reincar said to screen her, lemme ask this list of questions"
a date of grillin the chick with questions? that sounds like some shyt gold digger chicks do. that shyt doesn't sound like it would be any fun for her or you
I think most of this thread is stuck at intermediate game....we have our heads on straight and know not to be simpy fakkits but don't really have improvements with their interactions with women. that's where the money is fellas. it starts with mindframe and is carried by subcommunication.
In my other post I see most either glossed over or flat out ignored this quote. but it's my fault for not emphasizing because it's arguably the most important part of the success of the whole "texting randomly" thing that's being so furiously debated. If any part of this is game, this section would be the lion's share of it
- don't try to start conversations every time yall text. just say some drive by comment or funny shyt (steer away from opinion shyt doe). even if she tries to extend it. if she can't even reply to shyt like this then she might as well be chalked.
To elaborate, say something and SAY NOTHING BACK. don't even check your phone if you have to. the subcommunication
is that her reply never mattered. You were just saying what you want/what you thought/saying whatever the fukk you want. To a chick, among all the simps in her phone desperately trying to string together conversation or the stoic ass nikkas trying to not-text their way into her pants, there you are, the cheeky fukk who said he saw a pit bull that looked like her and ignored her laughing/whats up text/simp test/ attempt to keep the conversation going.
If you don't text back you:
- Run no risk of becoming her emotional tampon. you'd have to converse to do that
-see where her head is at. if she cant reply to a simple text like that then she's already gone
Now on to the rebuttals
lettuce ask sniper how fa r has this always texting first and being the emotional tampon got you?
I don't "text first". that shyt don't exist in my world bruh. I text when i want to. if she don't reply or even text back late it doesn't matter because I don't want to talk to them anymore then. Especially if she text back late, I wont reply. I don't interact on her terms, I interact on mine.
As far as the whole text thing working for me, it's a lot better than you'd think. As long as you can do it without a ounce of tryhard in it results are positive. Depending on the quality of the text itself you even start getting back to back replies.
Some personal examples
Me: good day to listen to erykah badu in the shower
Her: Yesss what song?
I didn't reply. not even gamey or charming, i just happened to jam to Mama's gun while gettin ready for work and told someone about it. When I chilled with her (this past week) she went thru her phone and showed me that text and said "Why did you say this?
" I replied "I was listening to Erykah badu in the shower
"
among all the simps in her phone telegraphing intent (wassup how u doin, what u doin, what do u do for fun) she spent all that time wondering about a 8 word text I sent while dryin my nuts after a shower. that! is swagger
Here is another one I used....it's money. and a little more gamey. if you're having trouble with conveying sexual intent this is a good one. try it on a chick you already got a comfortable vibe with. under no circumstances do you reply to her no matter what she says
Me: idc where you are, grab ur left boob for me
her: huh? (shyt test)
her 21 minutes later: why?
I never replied. texts me out the blue a few days later
same line on a diff chick
her: ok now you come down here and grab the right one (it's a trap!)
her 30 something minutes later: lol i guess not....
The above is probably the most favorable scenario cause she not only went along, but set a trap any thirst nikka or simp would've jumped on. I hit it the next time I saw her
women love having a bunch of dudes texting her she is always entertained, just like how these chicks be having 3,000 male friends etc. all for attention.
if your fine being this man then by all means
You nikkas is so worried about this army of simps in her phone, but in that sea of numbers there are numbers of SOMEONE WHO IS fukkING THEM. It might as well be me. women don't like simps. they only use them for favors or quick lil ego boosts. For every woman with dozens of nikkas in their phone there is someone who managed to stand out and fukk her. Then there is another someone. and another. next thing you know they're whores.
simps are a dime a dozen and being able to stand out from them is easy. just don't simp. you nikkas are backwards rationalizing any somewhat positive interaction toward women as simping
i don't believe his interest was just talkin to a bytch
i agree that if this is actually a part of his "game" he should and re-evaluate
but if he just havin fun out here
Just havin fun out there. If you make your interactions with women fun then your "I don't give a fukk" aura is genuine. her manipulations on your emotions don't work, her thirst traps don't work and her lies don't matter. because im just amusing myself. even if you're sort of a a$$hole, it's still attractive to them. think of it like sour patch kids
this is what women mean when they say "Just be yourself". if you're acting within your own interests she can't shake your frame with any manipulation. in turn this makes them like you more. It takes strength of character, congruence, self actualization and a control over your body/hormones. That in itself makes a high value individual. Sometimes the powerful game is knowing when to not play the game at all.