Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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also through experience i used to be that nice guy whod be like damn your short on rent here, its raining outside and you need groceries sure ill be right there, were going out on a date, allright ill drive up there so you dont have to drive long

now i think before i do anything what im getting out of this?

my never sacrificng anythign for a woman unless its family has been working out good for me

struggling and short on rent?

ask your parents, borrow off your visa
raining and you need groceries? well take a cab and buy chicken instead of steak

going out on a date? yeah you can meet me halfway

tbh im always available to help people out but its only those who are there for me as well the rest get hit with the :rudy:
 

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mind of reincar pt 7 or is it 6 shrugs

on this mothers day I give this post to my mom

The one woman in my life who has never let me down and has been there for me in thick and thin. I';ve had many women in my life who have told me they would be there, that they loved me, that they would never hurt me only to let me down. And in all those occasions there was one women there breh :to: to lift my spirtis, to let me know it would be ok,when i felt ugly to call me handsome, always encouraging me, even when i failed in certain situations never judged me and always was proud to call me her son.

so today i salute my mommy, and if its my Gods will i get marry or date again i pray that cchick has my mom characteristics.

I'm blessed that God gave me this woman to be my mom, my mom is so great, get this brehs every girl i have ever dated that had met my mom, when we break up either i dump them or they dump me they always bring up how they are going to miss my mom.

brehs salute your moms, cherish your moms
 

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also through experience i used to be that nice guy whod be like damn your short on rent here, its raining outside and you need groceries sure ill be right there, were going out on a date, allright ill drive up there so you dont have to drive long

now i think before i do anything what im getting out of this?

my never sacrificng anythign for a woman unless its family has been working out good for me

struggling and short on rent?

ask your parents, borrow off your visa
raining and you need groceries? well take a cab and buy chicken instead of steak

going out on a date? yeah you can meet me halfway


:ohhh:
 

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also through experience i used to be that nice guy whod be like damn your short on rent here, its raining outside and you need groceries sure ill be right there, were going out on a date, allright ill drive up there so you dont have to drive long

now i think before i do anything what im getting out of this?

my never sacrificng anythign for a woman unless its family has been working out good for me

struggling and short on rent?

ask your parents, borrow off your visa
raining and you need groceries? well take a cab and buy chicken instead of steak

going out on a date? yeah you can meet me halfway

ditto
 

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Word up breh I know we had a few disagreements in the past but I know u not a bad poster... I agreed with sniper's advice too about just being funny and texting randomly to spark interest but not be thirsty to chill then disappear for a while to make her wanna be around you... nikkas in here talking about I text her once and ask when we chillin :childplease: You can tell these nikkas is just trynna portray the celebrities(who naturally have better luck with women due to their status) that they have in their Avatars... "Hard on hoes" How about "Hard and alone" for most of these dudes. Then put some crazy off the wall shyt like "Don't have children brehs" in their titles:why:... This is a thread for DEALING WITH WOMEN! NOT PUNISHING THEM FOR OTHERS MISTAKES IN THE PAST AND SCARING THEM AWAY...

I gotta be honest, I don't see the problem with just asking a chick whether she wants to chill or not instead of all the niceties. I don't give a fukk how her day was, why should I pretend to? :yeshrug:
 

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Some chick at work pulled this on me and she been on ignore status since. They were talking about her pants and everybody was saying how they look good on her. So, I was like yeah she gonna have to wear it again cuz I like it too. Mind you that's a female who jokes with me all the time. SHe then blew off like " You not my bf to tell me such Mr. Go find your wife to tell her such". I then replied "Sorry that I used to address you cuz I thought you were more mature even though you act like you still in HS" Then all the girls got on her like he was just complimenting you, why u came at him like that ? She was like "oh if he don't like it, oh well. He too sensitive then"

So I haven't talked to her in 2 weeks and she grabbed my arm like "are we cool now ?" I said "Yeah. We are exactly where we supposed to be at. Let's work cuz that's what we're here for "


Well, she tried to get in my car and I told her "hell NAH!"huhldup:

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also through experience i used to be that nice guy whod be like damn your short on rent here, its raining outside and you need groceries sure ill be right there, were going out on a date, allright ill drive up there so you dont have to drive long

now i think before i do anything what im getting out of this?

my never sacrificng anythign for a woman unless its family has been working out good for me

struggling and short on rent?

ask your parents, borrow off your visa
raining and you need groceries? well take a cab and buy chicken instead of steak

going out on a date? yeah you can meet me halfway

I was with you till you got here. Nothing wrong with paying for a date if you're the one who asked her out. But I don't play that paying for everything shyt, for every two dates I pay for she's paying for one :birdman:
 

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I was with you till you got here. Nothing wrong with paying for a date if you're the one who asked her out. But I don't play that paying for everything shyt, for every two dates I pay for she's paying for one :birdman:

nah i meant in terms of location, example a girl lives a hour away, back in the day id drive a hour down there and choose a spot close to her.

Now meet me half way, ill pick a spot thats close to both of us
 

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I advise all of my fellow brethren to take the Myers Briggs Personality Test.

What I love about this test asides from the fact that it's accurate, is that it tells you how you view life. It explains your personality type... your strengths and weaknesses. Since I've discovered this exam, every girl I've dated I have given this exam, and it never steered me wrong.

When this test tells you what personality types you are and are not compatible with, believe it.

If you want to take the test, do it here

Personality test based on C. Jung and I. Briggs Myers type theory


and then if you want a description of your type click here (just change the letters)

INTJ personality | 16 Personality Types



It definitely saves time when it comes to women.
 

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I advise all of my fellow brethren to take the Myers Briggs Personality Test.

What I love about this test asides from the fact that it's accurate, is that it tells you how you view life. It explains your personality type... your strengths and weaknesses. Since I've discovered this exam, every girl I've dated I have given this exam, and it never steered me wrong.

When this test tells you what personality types you are and are not compatible with, believe it.

If you want to take the test, do it here

Personality test based on C. Jung and I. Briggs Myers type theory


and then if you want a description of your type click here (just change the letters)

INTJ personality | 16 Personality Types



It definitely saves time when it comes to women.





:shaq2: gotta be some bs
 

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The thing with a woman is "Change up". Think of yourself as a major league baseball pitcher,you got to change up your game every now and then.Throw her a curve to challenge her.Throw a seam,a breaker,a slider etc... In other words come at her in different angles.By curve I mean challenge her.If you want to meet up at 8 and babygirl says no lets do 7,you say i can only meet at 8 because I got stuff to do.You got to be blunt and practically offer ultimateum (sp?). Kevm3 said it best,you show too much emotion or care too much its gonna backfire. Women want toughness,they want you to disagree with them,they want a challenge or mystery. (Im not sayin be a jerk to them).As for the friend zone....a man and a woman can be friends if thats what they want.However thats equivalent to wanting to sit on a bench and not playing in a game.You can be friends with her but expect to hear about her men,ATL Housewives,Whats on Sale at TJ Maxx and other woman stuff.If you feelin a woman and you get rejected dont settle for any friend zone,keep it moving...
 

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Woah....didn't expect to derail the thread.

But I caught up to the last few pages. I guess some get it some don't. It aint for everybody. This could take some explaining so long read ahead...but here's how I see it

This thread has harped on about how women can be manipulative by nature. but they are most familiar with manipulation toward them

have you ever wondered why women hate simps? we always see it from our side...nikkas pouring their hearts out, showering her with gifts and compliments, yet at some point the women shyts on them with such malice :wow:

Well I think it's because simps are manipulators. poor ones. they try to buy p*ssy with money or favors, try to manipulate her feelings ("making her feel special" ) or "earn" their way into p*ssy by sticking around or being an emotional tampon. And females see right thru it.

on the other hand the average a$$hole doesn't really give a fukk and treats her AT MOST like any ol person. (and it's only downhill from there) The rapper/baller/athlete see's 100 bad chicks daily and is desensitized to them so much they probably just treat them like shyt. And women love these men

western media brought women this current pedestal position while feminism made society sex crazed. The result it has on dudes is guys treating just a conversation with any ol bop like a fukkin job interview. answering questions dutifully, brown nosing n shyt. :snoop: nikkas forgot that women were people in the quest for p*ssy. they treat the woman as a whole as just some sort of cerberus, a bytchy gatekeeper they have to disarm to gain access to the pink gates of p*ssyhalla. qualifying in general subcommunicates this behavior and this is why women are so disgusted by it secretly.

Good [mind]frame for women is to treat them like kids. or treat them how you would as a kid. don't really take shyt they say seriously, cuz most times they just talkin just to talk. and why not? they hate responsibility and all things adult anyway. I treat them the way they want to be treated. AND IT'S AWESOME. chicks are fun cause you can pull pranks one em, preform wrestling moves on em :ahh:, pull their hair and just be a charming jerk. And they love it. just be plain playful. That's what talkin shyt is. Just banter. and it can be fun too

like, imagine a Jahmal date. :bryan: nikka be lookin at his phone's Quick lil Gems pdf. file under the table like ":guilty: oh yea reincar said to screen her, lemme ask this list of questions"

a date of grillin the chick with questions? that sounds like some shyt gold digger chicks do. that shyt doesn't sound like it would be any fun for her or you

I think most of this thread is stuck at intermediate game....we have our heads on straight and know not to be simpy fakkits but don't really have improvements with their interactions with women. that's where the money is fellas. it starts with mindframe and is carried by subcommunication.

In my other post I see most either glossed over or flat out ignored this quote. but it's my fault for not emphasizing because it's arguably the most important part of the success of the whole "texting randomly" thing that's being so furiously debated. If any part of this is game, this section would be the lion's share of it
- don't try to start conversations every time yall text. just say some drive by comment or funny shyt (steer away from opinion shyt doe). even if she tries to extend it. if she can't even reply to shyt like this then she might as well be chalked.

To elaborate, say something and SAY NOTHING BACK. don't even check your phone if you have to. the subcommunication is that her reply never mattered. You were just saying what you want/what you thought/saying whatever the fukk you want. To a chick, among all the simps in her phone desperately trying to string together conversation or the stoic ass nikkas trying to not-text their way into her pants, there you are, the cheeky fukk who said he saw a pit bull that looked like her and ignored her laughing/whats up text/simp test/ attempt to keep the conversation going. :wtf:

If you don't text back you:
- Run no risk of becoming her emotional tampon. you'd have to converse to do that
-see where her head is at. if she cant reply to a simple text like that then she's already gone



Now on to the rebuttals
lettuce ask sniper how fa r has this always texting first and being the emotional tampon got you?

I don't "text first". that shyt don't exist in my world bruh. I text when i want to. if she don't reply or even text back late it doesn't matter because I don't want to talk to them anymore then. Especially if she text back late, I wont reply. I don't interact on her terms, I interact on mine.

As far as the whole text thing working for me, it's a lot better than you'd think. As long as you can do it without a ounce of tryhard in it results are positive. Depending on the quality of the text itself you even start getting back to back replies.

Some personal examples

Me: good day to listen to erykah badu in the shower
Her: Yesss what song?

I didn't reply. not even gamey or charming, i just happened to jam to Mama's gun while gettin ready for work and told someone about it. When I chilled with her (this past week) she went thru her phone and showed me that text and said "Why did you say this? :dwillhuh:" I replied "I was listening to Erykah badu in the shower :manny:"

among all the simps in her phone telegraphing intent (wassup how u doin, what u doin, what do u do for fun) she spent all that time wondering about a 8 word text I sent while dryin my nuts after a shower. that! is swagger

Here is another one I used....it's money. and a little more gamey. if you're having trouble with conveying sexual intent this is a good one. try it on a chick you already got a comfortable vibe with. under no circumstances do you reply to her no matter what she says

Me: idc where you are, grab ur left boob for me
her: huh? (shyt test)
her 21 minutes later: why?

I never replied. texts me out the blue a few days later

same line on a diff chick

her: ok now you come down here and grab the right one (it's a trap!)
her 30 something minutes later: lol i guess not....

The above is probably the most favorable scenario cause she not only went along, but set a trap any thirst nikka or simp would've jumped on. I hit it the next time I saw her

women love having a bunch of dudes texting her she is always entertained, just like how these chicks be having 3,000 male friends etc. all for attention.

if your fine being this man then by all means

You nikkas is so worried about this army of simps in her phone, but in that sea of numbers there are numbers of SOMEONE WHO IS fukkING THEM. It might as well be me. women don't like simps. they only use them for favors or quick lil ego boosts. For every woman with dozens of nikkas in their phone there is someone who managed to stand out and fukk her. Then there is another someone. and another. next thing you know they're whores.

simps are a dime a dozen and being able to stand out from them is easy. just don't simp. you nikkas are backwards rationalizing any somewhat positive interaction toward women as simping:mindblown:

i don't believe his interest was just talkin to a bytch

i agree that if this is actually a part of his "game" he should and re-evaluate



but if he just havin fun out here

Just havin fun out there. If you make your interactions with women fun then your "I don't give a fukk" aura is genuine. her manipulations on your emotions don't work, her thirst traps don't work and her lies don't matter. because im just amusing myself. even if you're sort of a a$$hole, it's still attractive to them. think of it like sour patch kids



this is what women mean when they say "Just be yourself". if you're acting within your own interests she can't shake your frame with any manipulation. in turn this makes them like you more. It takes strength of character, congruence, self actualization and a control over your body/hormones. That in itself makes a high value individual. Sometimes the powerful game is knowing when to not play the game at all. :mj:
 
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