Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[T-K-G]

most of us are coming off bitter to a certain extent cuz we're speaking about experiences where we failed and what we learned from those experiences...you got dudes who've been stuck in that limbo talking to women and they've been flaked on, friend zoned, and etc so of course they aren't going to be accepting of just talking or texting because they know where that path leads to...honesty will never fail so if dude intentions are only having convo with bytches then there's nothing wrong with that but he should NOT just accept convo cuz that's all they're willing to give him when he has other interests in mind

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get out the thread if it aint for you breh this will go down in the coli hall of fame
you better respect it

nikka i've prolly contributed more to this thread that you fall back

 

[IronFist]

question for the brehs in here. how do you develop the i dont give a fukk mentality, cause i im starting to give to much of a damn...................maybe @His_Excellence_Reincar

 

[Kartel13]

question for the brehs in here. how do you develop the i dont give a fukk mentality, cause i im starting to give to much of a damn...................maybe @His_Excellence_Reincar

Have you had your heart broken? Because that's how people normally get it.

 

[IronFist]

Have you had your heart broken? Because that's how people normally get it.

a couple of times. shyt might be more than most. shyt is a gift and a curse somewhat was thinking about this chick that hit me up again on facebook out of the blue i use to fool with talking about how she miss me. been thru some shyt with her and thru it all i still somewhat have feelings.

 

[Mad Good Dro]

what yall thoughts on these online dating steeze?

 

[MikelArteta]

question for the brehs in here. how do you develop the i dont give a fukk mentality, cause i im starting to give to much of a damn...................maybe @His_Excellence_Reincar

I still care sometimes I just don't show it.

But through experience, after getting lied to, cheated on, played by people I trusted.
The only woman whose love for you will never change is your mom.

Your sister may get married and will love her husband more than you and her kids.

Your wife may suddenly stop or cheat on you

Your girl can leave at the drop of a hat.

The amount of women who have told me they loved me couldn't Iive without me, are out there living life telling those words to n another guy.




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[Mr Hate Coffee]

I see nikkas have been going at it recently.

I always say different strokes for different folks. I do things differently than some of yall, but I know what works for me. For instance, I'm prone to play into the games a little bit in the beginning with a female because I know she doesn't know why I'm so great... and why should she? But I have my limits and I don't tolerate disrespect or rudeness.

Ironically, all of my good relationships started with me having to prove to the girl I was worth dealing with. But that's partly because the women I chose were good women and would obviously screen me to make sure I wasn't on the BS. But we dealt with each other with mutual respect and once the guard was lowered we could get into some real shyt.

I urge you brothers not to be bitter about what you can't change (i.e. women). Find what works for you, that's part of becoming a man. It's cool to ask for advice tho but realize your mileage may vary. You can't really expect to live your life by a couple of bullet points you read on a message board. I think the vibe in here is generally a supportive one tho.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I still care sometimes I just don't show it.

But through experience, after getting lied to, cheated on, played by people I trusted.
The only woman whose love for you will never change is your mom.

Your sister may get married and will love her husband more than you and her kids.

Your wife may suddenly stop or cheat on you

Your girl can leave at the drop of a hat.

The amount of women who have told me they loved me couldn't Iive without me, are out there living life telling those words to n another guy.




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Just to prove what I just talked about... I grew up not being able to trust my mom or my sister. So there's no general rule of thumb for every situation. Me and moms are cool now but everybody's situation is different.

 

[MikelArteta]

what yall thoughts on these online dating steeze?

Free Old sucks for males, although if all you want is a nut and wade through horrible women then

Thing Is these women have numerous numerous guys at their whim. Imagine taking a girl out you met old go on a few dates you feeling her and she still signing in every day.


Even avg looking broads get like 100msgs a day, for a guy your lucky to get one a week.

Now I've eaten off these sites okcupid, pof. But at this stage in my life I would not.



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[George Gooney]

i may disagree with some of y';all but

we brehs

I'll never lose respect for you breh... Your blueprint helped me piece myself back together after tragedy with these females























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I wanna love

 

[Soundbwoy]

question for the brehs in here. how do you develop the i dont give a fukk mentality, cause i im starting to give to much of a damn...................maybe @His_Excellence_Reincar

you have to condition yourself not to give a shyt, my mentality is that there is a billion of chick out there so im not gonna waste my time with someone who doesnt respect me or is playing game no matter how good she looks and whatnot. I did this with a couple of chick at work and goddamn there real selves came out quick and now theyre bitter as fukk while im the calm one keeping it moving

 

[IronFist]

you have to condition yourself not to give a shyt, my mentality is that there is a billion of chick out there so im not gonna waste my time with someone who doesnt respect me or is playing game no matter how good she looks and whatnot. I did this with a couple of chick at work and goddamn there real selves came out quick and now theyre bitter as fukk while im the calm one keeping it moving

You have a point brodee thats a realization of have come in terms with. you have to develop a stone heart, some chemistry i had with some women is like memories but certain instances i was place in make me not even want to go down that route.....or be friends. kinda ironic this chick hit me up on mothers day guess she looking for sympathy.

for me it certain chicks i treat like that, but the ones i'm feeling i have this difficult time with and i shouldnt but i do.

 

[Soundbwoy]

You have a point brodee thats a realization of have come in terms with. you have to develop a stone heart, some chemistry i had with some women is like memories but certain instances i was place in make me not even want to go down that route.....or be friends. kinda ironic this chick hit me up on mothers day guess she looking for sympathy.

for me it certain chicks i treat like that, but the ones i'm feeling i have this difficult time with and i shouldnt but i do.

its those chicks you have to practice that with

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

nah it not that, its just that in the past ive played the nice guy role. but im starting to develop a stigma if you will. im not insecure though

Well don't you think that's your mistake right there? You played a "role" don't try to be Someone that you're not for p*ssy man.

 

[MikelArteta]

you have to condition yourself not to give a shyt, my mentality is that there is a billion of chick out there so im not gonna waste my time with someone who doesnt respect me or is playing game no matter how good she looks and whatnot. I did this with a couple of chick at work and goddamn there real selves came out quick and now theyre bitter as fukk while im the calm one keeping it moving

also through experience i used to be that nice guy whod be like damn your short on rent here, its raining outside and you need groceries sure ill be right there, were going out on a date, allright ill drive up there so you dont have to drive long

now i think before i do anything what im getting out of this?

my never sacrificng anythign for a woman unless its family has been working out good for me

struggling and short on rent?

ask your parents, borrow off your visa
raining and you need groceries? well take a cab and buy chicken instead of steak

going out on a date? yeah you can meet me halfway