Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

Ain't nothing wrong with having 'female friends' as long as you realize they will never be like your male road dogs. You got to come in with the realization that as soon as they get a man, most likely they will disappear.

How you befriend the woman is what matters. If it was someone you tried to get at, but she wasn't feeling you and you are hanging around as her 'friend', that's one thing... but if it's just a cool female that you happened to talk to one day, and you might not be all that attracted to her, but you just like her conversation, that's another.

In fact, one of the things about having female friends is that you just get a lot more comfortable talking to females in general since you are always having conversations with one, so you aren't going through that 'dry spell' in your conversation when you don't have any interested ladies you're getting at.

Just make sure that you don't allow her to turn you into a 'favor buddy' or a 'complaint buddy'.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

You did a good thing breh! I think you may need to be a little more stern during your interactions with her... Just so she begins to associate you with being a person who shouldn't be disrespected, a lot of men tolerate disrespect from a female so maybe she thought she could come at you like that... Just be more "strictly business" towards her But still be respectful. No need for her thinking she got under your skin and she has power over you...



I feel you breh I had you on ignore too but took you off a while ago. While using some of the advice in this thread It got to a point with me where I was like "damn I don't wanna be mad anymore". Dudes ain't even dropping jewels anymore just posting horror stories about SOME trifling women and tales of their mysoginistic revenge conquests... One breh I can say always been on point tho is brother @kevm3 his posts have no malice behind them and it's clear he still respects women and ain't another scourned negro(men shouldn't get scourned only women ). Ima make sure to buy a few copies of his book he working on just to show some support to a positive righteous brother we need more like him in the world!


BE RIGHTEOUS BREHS

Yeah I hear that. I'm not trying to bitter. We should be out here doing good for ourselves and taking things as they come. As many shytty women there is there is shytty men. It's not a one sided thing, good men and good women. I'm trying to be a good man. fukk pointing out the negatives all the time, how about we post some good examples of good women. Like our mothers.

 

[MikelArteta]

@kevm3 breh.. Seems like allot of the advice giving to these going brothers is geared to the modern black male courting a black female


NEWSFLASH

fellas.. Go white lol.. Most white women are submissive and obedient to their men. That doesn't excuse general female tendencies (hoeish behavior) but they are some of the most loyal women to brothers

Adapt with the times

:playoffs:
i';ve probably dated more white women than anyone in this thread trust me they are not these submissive great creatures you are talking about

 

[MikelArteta]

i feel you breh, alot of nikkas in here forgot that women are people too



nikkas really in here tryna go at sniper cuz he's fine with being friends with a few bytches



a real nikka once told me you can't be tryna smash/get into a relationship with every broad you met, some of em can be friends that can look out for you just like ya nikkas do AND they can help you out when you havin woman problems...




but these nikkas are either team #HardonHoes or they on some scorned shyt, posts readin like a Tyler Perry script

nikkas just as extreme as the feminists they complain about

actually no, no one is attacking etc. everyone can live the way the way they want to and give their opinion and so can the other side.


lettuce ask sniper how fa r has this always texting first and being the emotional tampon got you?

:mugabe:

women love having a bunch of dudes texting her she is always entertained, just like how these chicks be having 3,000 male friends etc. all for attention.

if your fine being this man then by all means

 

[Mofongo]

That sounded like epic rap lyrics

That went threw my head too. Like kanye had said that line before.

 

[IronFist]

actually no, no one is attacking etc. everyone can live the way the way they want to and give their opinion and so can the other side.


lettuce ask sniper how fa r has this always texting first and being the emotional tampon got you?

:mugabe:

women love having a bunch of dudes texting her she is always entertained, just like how these chicks be having 3,000 male friends etc. all for attention.

if your fine being this man then by all means

on point been notice it alot to. been having a cold heart lately a it comes with a couple of females

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

on point been notice it alot to. been having a cold heart lately a it comes with a couple of females

If it bothers you so much that she has male friends, then maybe you're insecure?

 

[IronFist]

If it bothers you so much that she has male friends, then maybe you're insecure?

nah it not that, its just that in the past ive played the nice guy role. but im starting to develop a stigma if you will. im not insecure though

 

[T-K-G]

actually no, no one is attacking etc. everyone can live the way the way they want to and give their opinion and so can the other side.


lettuce ask sniper how fa r has this always texting first and being the emotional tampon got you?

:mugabe:

women love having a bunch of dudes texting her she is always entertained, just like how these chicks be having 3,000 male friends etc. all for attention.

if your fine being this man then by all means

because just talking to a bytch automatically makes you an emotional tampon right?



you nikkas mane

 

[My neck and my back]

because just talking to a bytch automatically makes you an emotional tampon right?



you nikkas mane

i don't believe his interest was just talkin to a bytch

 

[T-K-G]

i don't believe his interest was just talkin to a bytch

i agree that if this is actually a part of his "game" he should and re-evaluate



but if he just havin fun out here




i just always find it funny how it's only those two extremes in here, you either controlling a bytch mind on some jedi mind tricks shyt with her being completely submissive, or you're an "emotionall tampon"



i've been in and out of this thread since day one and i still think that most of the best stuff was in the first few pages, kev be the only one dropping consistent gems without coming off as bitter imo

 

[Atlrocafella]

I don't think the majority of this thread is at 2 extremes. People are giving their experiences and suggestions as it relates to the approach and dealings with women.

 

[My neck and my back]

i agree that if this is actually a part of his "game" he should and re-evaluate



but if he just havin fun out here




i just always find it funny how it's only those two extremes in here, you either controlling a bytch mind on some jedi mind tricks shyt with her being completely submissive, or you're an "emotionall tampon"



i've been in and out of this thread since day one and i still think that most of the best stuff was in the first few pages, kev be the only one dropping consistent gems without coming off as bitter imo

most of us are coming off bitter to a certain extent cuz we're speaking about experiences where we failed and what we learned from those experiences...you got dudes who've been stuck in that limbo talking to women and they've been flaked on, friend zoned, and etc so of course they aren't going to be accepting of just talking or texting because they know where that path leads to...honesty will never fail so if dude intentions are only having convo with bytches then there's nothing wrong with that but he should NOT just accept convo cuz that's all they're willing to give him when he has other interests in mind

 

[MikelArteta]

i may disagree with some of y';all but

we brehs

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

get out the thread if it aint for you breh this will go down in the coli hall of fame
you better respect it