Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Rocket Scientist]

Cats can drive themselves crazy with the calling back and texting game.This is why im for deleting #'s.Alot of people may say it doesnt take all that,yes it does.Let me break it down. In this day and age you barely get long MEANINGFUL coversation im talking about the hey how are you doing?Have you read anything meaningful?Im just checkin on you to make sure your ok etc...People have your #'s but when you give it to them,they already categorized you.They either want a favor or wont contact you at all.I say this if your in my phone and i havent heard from you in over 3 months (minimum) then whats the point?Yes everybody has lives but a simple how are you?Glad your alive and well Takes 3 seconds out of a 24 hr day.These women out here will hit you up on some favor tip. I had a friend who I havent talk to in months and before this year haevent seen in a decade, hit me up on some "Can I borrow some money".I tell you brothas you control your phonebook.Babygirl acts funny and hits you with "k" texts and one word answers,delete her.Real women communicate effectively.After 1 text and 1 phone call you will know the real deal and if a date isnt secured by then...move on

 

[MikelArteta]

take. Bold bytch to ask for 1700 bucks.

i wouldnt even ask my mom for 1700

 

[Malikthegod]

Been thinking about the ex who screwed me over a lot lately
I'm not going to hit her up or anything, but just the fact that she is on my mind bothers me. Specially when I know she don give to shyts. I need to be colder

 

[MikelArteta]

Been thinking about the ex who screwed me over a lot lately
I'm not going to hit her up or anything, but just the fact that she is on my mind bothers me. Specially when I know she don give to shyts. I need to be colder

time is the greatest equalizer

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

I need some advice from the fellow members around here.

Ever since I got completely shytted on by the chic that I used to be cool with a couple of years ago, I been working on myself and learning how to deal with women. During this time, I seen or experience all of the flakiness, emotional games, double standard, etc and it has made me very leary when I'm dealing with women now.

A couple of weeks ago, I got this number from the PAWG at a bar and we going to meet up later on tonight to get to know each other more. It been a minute since I been on a date, espically with a chic who I find attractive. Back during my sucker/simp days, I would be excited about the opportunity for this but now I just feel cold going into the date. Is this normal how some guys feel when they are dating again after a bad experience with a woman or two? I'm not trying to make myself look like a sucker for love or a simp again over a woman. I not really looking for a relationship or love because I'm trying to move to California soon but a part of me would like to have some type of female companionship ever now and then. A man get tired of going to the movies or bars by his lonesome from time to time. Any feedback would be greatly appreicated. Thanks

 

[Jahmal]

The point? to set a precedent as a person who communicates with her who DOESN'T WANT ANYTHING FROM HER. In her mind, this makes you different from the 99% of dudes who she thinks all want her p*ssy. That's the best thing about women man. they're people you can prank, talk stupid shyt with and generally not take seriously and they LOVE YOU for it

Women have 20 Simps messaging them at any given time talking about nothing. Randomly texting them about nothing is a sure way to end up in the "gay buddy" friendzone. we are grown azz men here. Why waste time texting a women about idle bullsh1t. If she aint trying to meet up then her number is getting thrown in the bushes.

 

[Kenny West]

Women have 20 Simps messaging them at any given time talking about nothing. Randomly texting them about nothing is a sure way to end up in the "gay buddy" friendzone. we are grown azz men here. Why waste time texting a women about idle bullsh1t. If she aint trying to meet up then her number is getting thrown in the bushes.

And all 20 simps are doing the same thing you're doing: pushing for a meet up. Regardless of who else is in her phone, that phone is the only means of communication between you and her until said meet up. And they're ALWAYS in their phone. Doesn't mean you can't stand out. You can talk about bullshyt in text because that's all it's for. Save everything else for face to face convo

And nothin should put you in any friendzone area if you know how to fukkin flirt. only people who get friendzoned are simps who can't turn her on and nikkas who try too hard to be super cool and stoic and never convey any sexual intent.

Again you set the tone for your interactions with women

 

[Jack Martinez]

Just be nonchalant on a bytch, they'll neva leave.

 

[Jahmal]

And all 20 simps are doing the same thing you're doing: pushing for a meet up. Regardless of who else is in her phone, that phone is the only means of communication between you and her until said meet up. And they're ALWAYS in their phone. Doesn't mean you can't stand out. You can talk about bullshyt in text because that's all it's for. Save everything else for face to face convo

And nothin should put you in any friendzone area if you know how to fukkin flirt. only people who get friendzoned are simps who can't turn her on and nikkas who try too hard to be super cool and stoic and never convey any sexual intent.

Again you set the tone for your interactions with women

You stand out with your game. If she aint feeling you then you move on. If I meet a chick I call her, chop it up with her and then have her tell me a good time to meet up. If she starts saying is she is busy and making extra excuses then I move on. I'm not going to waste my time randomly texting chicks and pretending I dont want something from her.

 

[Kenny West]

You stand out with your game. If she aint feeling you then you move on. If I meet a chick I call her, chop it up with her and then have her tell me a good time to meet up. If she starts saying is she is busy and making extra excuses then I move on. I'm not going to waste my time randomly texting chicks and pretending I dont want something from her.

Pretending....I guess that's the difference. I do it cuz I really don't care and I can enjoy women as people regardless of the fukkery that they have.

I think the problem with a lot of dudes is that they put so much value and importance on sex that they forget to just enjoy themselves. I'm like just havin fun out there.

Edit: lol @ the wasting my time part. bruh it's a text. it's a low committal form of communication that takes two seconds. use it as just that

 

[Jack Martinez]

Why all tha complicated advice?

Treat a bytch like she DAMN LUCKY that she fukkin' wit you.

 

[Jahmal]

Why all tha complicated advice?

Treat a bytch like she DAMN LUCKY that she fukkin' wit you.

Exactly. This is a Man's World!

 

[MikelArteta]

Why all tha complicated advice?

Treat a bytch like she DAMN LUCKY that she fukkin' wit you.

out of all the rapists, criminals, child molesters, unemloyed, uneducated, ugly az dudes

women should feel privileged to frollick with a king

 

[MikelArteta]

Pretending....I guess that's the difference. I do it cuz I really don't care and I can enjoy women as people regardless of the fukkery that they have.

I think the problem with a lot of dudes is that they put so much value and importance on sex that they forget to just enjoy themselves. I'm like just havin fun out there.

Edit: lol @ the wasting my time part. bruh it's a text. it's a low committal form of communication that takes two seconds. use it as just that

well enjoy being in the friendzone breh

and actually i dont care about sex, ive been celibate the past two years, i just refuse to be some text buddy emotional tampon

 

[MikelArteta]

I need some advice from the fellow members around here.

Ever since I got completely shytted on by the chic that I used to be cool with a couple of years ago, I been working on myself and learning how to deal with women. During this time, I seen or experience all of the flakiness, emotional games, double standard, etc and it has made me very leary when I'm dealing with women now.

A couple of weeks ago, I got this number from the PAWG at a bar and we going to meet up later on tonight to get to know each other more. It been a minute since I been on a date, espically with a chic who I find attractive. Back during my sucker/simp days, I would be excited about the opportunity for this but now I just feel cold going into the date. Is this normal how some guys feel when they are dating again after a bad experience with a woman or two? I'm not trying to make myself look like a sucker for love or a simp again over a woman. I not really looking for a relationship or love because I'm trying to move to California soon but a part of me would like to have some type of female companionship ever now and then. A man get tired of going to the movies or bars by his lonesome from time to time. Any feedback would be greatly appreicated. Thanks

i had the same experience went on a chill session like lsat month, chick was banging. Back in the day id be a nervous wreck trying not to mess it up that night i was like

I think the best thing is just to take it as just a date, maybe you will see her again after that maybe not who cares you aint marrying her, just go enjoy yourself and call it like that