lemme put you guys up on something. if you wanna avoid dinner whores try to schedule your dates later in the night. be like "Hey lets get up at 8 or 9." It's too late eat dinner then.
i've been known to hit chicks with "I got some leftovers I need to eat before it goes bad. let's meet up at 8 tho." or "I'm grabbing wings at happy hour with the homies, let's get up after that"
they be mad but what are they gonna do? vocally complain? lol. I remember my last gf showed up to my house mad as fukk with some takeout. she was maaad she had to pay for her meal. I was like
dont be taking these new chicks out to classy restaurants unless you're really interested. i think ruby Tuesday's or applebee's is an acceptable first date spot. then after that i'll try to cook at home or get them to cook and see where i want it to go from there. even if you got the money its still not a good look to take chicks to fancy restaurants. It reinforces the wrong behavior and sets expectations going forward. you will never hear the end of "how come you don't take me out to The Cheesecake Factory like you used to?" I'm tellin you brehs... these trickin ass nikkas gonna learn one way or another. i just had a girl cancel on a guy who she said "is the perfect guy" to go grab drinks with me. LMAO. I'm not even paying.

i have NEVER had a chick deny me vagina due to where we ate dinner man. NEVER