So the consensus on always having to initiate sh!t first is to just move on to the next one?
if she isnt cute becaue of the acne, that can be fixed, what else makes her unattractive
attractiveness is subjective, so you are going to have to feel right about being with her. not because of what others think, but more like what you think about her before any changes have to occur to her.
one thing I will say, is dont take her if all that you want to do is upgrade her. if you need to tweak and change things around to like her, its not worth it.
once a woman gets upgraded, she thinks "if I can get a man to do this for me when I looked like that, imagine what I can get now that Im lookin' like this!"
if you like her, then take her as she is. you might get her cleaned up a bit, but dont go blowing cash or a serious putting energy into improving her.
if whats bothering you is minor and not too bad, then learn to like her for her, then look beyond those minor things. you should have your own treshold and standards in play. do not choose her based on what changes you have to do to tolerate her.
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Hungout with a chick yesterday. Eh it was cool, she's younger than me so idk it feels like if things progress I might have to teach her right from wrong and shyt. Shes alright, just moved to the area from Hawaii. Only thing that kind of bothers me is after we hungout she's like "text me when you get home so I know your safe" I drove home and didn't text her so instead she texted me. Ah I'll see how things go and report back later. Sorry I haven't been in here much lately lads, trying to get away from my phone and technology a bit more.
Btw has anyone ever pressed you for your alone time? My friend hit me up Sunday like "lets go to the bar" I tell him I'm hanging out with my cousin so he says "come on dont be gay" I'm like I can't, he's like "you never want to kick it anymore" which annoyed me because we just had coffee on Sunday so I explained to him that I want to focus on school. But he disregards my requests for alone time and still hits me up on Monday and Tuesday to hangout. It's like come on, respect my mind. Damn.
Hungout with a chick yesterday. Eh it was cool, she's younger than me so idk it feels like if things progress I might have to teach her right from wrong and shyt. Shes alright, just moved to the area from Hawaii. Only thing that kind of bothers me is after we hungout she's like "text me when you get home so I know your safe" I drove home and didn't text her so instead she texted me. Ah I'll see how things go and report back later.
Yeah that's what I'm thinking, and with me getting my AA in the summer and getting ready to figure out how to transfer I really don't want anything to do with his ass or most people on the weekday. I'm trying to sort my shyt out and have some alone time.People are different. Some don't understand the value of being home and out of the public eye, at least once in while.
Sometimes you have to make yourself scarce. You don't want to over-saturate the market with your presence.
If you are around too much, it brings your value down.
Also, you re-find your essence when you spend time by yourself.
Yeah and that's what I clocked as soon as she said it, I was like alright green light. And that's funny because she says that us northwesterners are rude in comparison to her Hawaiians.A woman who says,
Text me when you get home okay?
10 times out of 12, its a sincere gesture, yet a subconscious one from the lady as she is showing concern because she values your companionship. Its nothing for a woman to ask a simple request to give her a peace of mind that you made it to the crib-stock okay zonday.
Another reason why she wants you to text her safe in the home-base plate status is to imply future outing; its her way of saying, Hope his studly self makes it to the domicile safely, because I do plan on seeing the boy again. Cant do that when hes in the hospital with femur dents or crashed the whip doing a buck 80 hydroplaning!
In gist, its just displaying interest and by reciprocating, means you feel likewise.
She's Hawaiian, naturally she possesses that islander hospitality so its in her culture to be courteous like that.
Considering that she thought about you enough to text you to affirm your safety before you did - tells me you ain't "that" in to her.
Just don't get married, browskeigh.
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Is loneliness a disease that necessitates a cure? If men could be made to believe so, think of the potential profit to be made from, and the potential for manipulation of, men. The real test for a man is how he lives with himself, alone. Precious few men ever truly allow themselves to be alone and learn real independence and self-reliance. The vast majority of guys (see Betas), particularly in western culture, tend to transition from mother to wife with little or no intermission between.