Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Man, there are some heated discussions on this board about gender politics. I like it, but some people get really salty when you even suggest that people try and avoid things like marriage, reject feminism, or treat women equally, like men.

Anyway, this question is something that I pose to you guys: How do you try and reestablish contact with a girl from many years ago? I've done it successfully a couple of times in the past and I think that I can contribute. I usually wait until they post something on Facebook that gets lots of attention, privately messaging them with something along the lines of, "Hey, I see you're having fun lately, [name]. How ya been?" Something kinda bland, but still enough to get a response.

Any answers and criticism are welcome.

if you dont agree with the whole marriage, kids, picket fence your a misognyst, your bitter, your jaded etc. etc.

TO reestablish contact, add to facebook, if already added then just wait till they post something a new pic anything and just comment and bring out the hey how are you doing, then want to get coffee or something to catch up?

so basically what your doing. When I had facebook I had a bunch of girls from hs on my page, id just hit them up like hey i see your working at say the mall ill be there for lunch want to catch up? just ish like that

 

[young3000]

Why is it that the women I meet with kids are more interesting than the ones without

The game is fukked up

 

[Jahmal]

Why is it that the women I meet with kids are more interesting than the ones without

The game is fukked up

You can save those Single Moms Breh!

 

[kevm3]

if you dont agree with the whole marriage, kids, picket fence your a misognyst, your bitter, your jaded etc. etc.

TO reestablish contact, add to facebook, if already added then just wait till they post something a new pic anything and just comment and bring out the hey how are you doing, then want to get coffee or something to catch up?

so basically what your doing. When I had facebook I had a bunch of girls from hs on my page, id just hit them up like hey i see your working at say the mall ill be there for lunch want to catch up? just ish like that

Because they realize now that they actually have to bring something to the table in order to keep the attention of a man. She probably ain't tripping about cooking either. Cool conversation and some cooking to draw you in, but she very well might flip once she gets you locked in as new daddy.

 

[My neck and my back]

Why is it that the women I meet with kids are more interesting than the ones without

The game is fukked up

more life experience and basically forced into some maturity...also they understand that they're at a disadvantage compared to other women with no children so they've actually took the time out to develop themselves in other areas to even their value on the dating market

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Yeah, me and the fellas planned it - so as long as the driver doesn't back out, i'll be there (lady friend is out of town so i def. feel like i need to do something lol).


Fountaine Bleu is 'posed to be the "IT" place this Sat and odds are i'll be there like a jackson 5 record. Will be in town from Saturday and bounce sunday.


We can def. throw some thangs, meet some ladies, get some truck food, etc.


Hoping that it stays nice though.


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Definitely, I'll PM you my number.

@LegendNas you're cool and all but you over think shyt and you're giving these hoes too much control over your mind. It ain't that big of a deal, and damn sure aint important enough to go on a huge rant about it. You say they're bytches and they'll wish they choose you or some shyt, might be true, but they ain't going to want to keep your ass when you overreacting and shyt.

You don't love them
You have no relation to them
They don't owe you anything
Etc. you have no connection so they're meaningless and will continue to be until you give them meaning like you're doing right now, you're allowing them to take over your mind. Like Soul II Soul said, "keep on movin, don't stop like the hands of time"

 

[MikelArteta]

Why is it that the women I meet with kids are more interesting than the ones without

The game is fukked up

they are not, they know they are at a disadvantage so they play the game well to draw you in and think you got a good one, why would anyone leave her and her beautiful child.

the only reason she doesnt club is because there is no one to watch junior on weekends.

 

[MikelArteta]

more life experience and basically forced into some maturity...also they understand that they're at a disadvantage compared to other women with no children so they've actually took the time out to develop themselves in other areas to even their value on the dating market

nah its just a game, its basically like if your a fat broad to even get a man you have to have a bubbly personality, you adapt to your surroundings. Although the fat woman is still a b8tch she will be the sweetest most humble thing when she draws a man in. Same with a single mom.

if she was so great baby dad would have stuck around.

 

[young3000]

You can save those Single Moms Breh!

never

I might dip my hand in that cookie jar from time to time though

 

[FLASH]

A woman has to be fearful of losing you. She has to know that if she ever messes up, to the bushes she goes. A man is usually in this position when they are truly confident in who they are and continue to improve upon themselves on the daily basis.

You will continue to live your life with or without her. She will feel this and will be less likely to stray.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Because they realize now that they actually have to bring something to the table in order to keep the attention of a man. She probably ain't tripping about cooking either. Cool conversation and some cooking to draw you in, but she very well might flip once she gets you locked in as new daddy.

This..although it seems that a child usually tames a woman much more.

 

[MikelArteta]

This..although it seems that a child usually tames a woman much more.

not really, the ones that are "tamed": im telling you, if they could get someone to watch their kid they would be in the club all scandalous grinding up on dudes.

they are tamed because being a single mom with a young kid is like a 24/7 job.

dudes see a 22 year old chick
shes out clubbing every week getting drunk, sleeping around etc.

then he sees a 22 year old single mom
shes a home body, doesnt club or drink, doesn't sleep around, wow shes a good one eh.

Um no, the reason she doesnt club every week there is no one to watch her seed, she doesnt drink cuz she has to buy formula, and baby food and diapers. She doesnt sleep around, because most single moms arent dumb enough to have random dudes over her spot with a young child.

But best believe if grandma or bby dad takes the little kid for the weekend she will be at the club, she will be drunk, and you will see random nikkas cars parked in front of her spot overnight.

The thing many folks who get caught up with single mom's forget is that she is not different she just does not have the freedom or opportunity.



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[kevm3]

The key, take your focus off of these women and focus on handling your business. As you naturally improve yourself and start being about your business, you will naturally be the guy that just attracts women. Your business comes first. When you are so enthralled with life, you will naturally be a guy that doesn't put up with nonsense from women because you don't want them disturbing the life you are enjoying so much. You are naturally going to be the guy that isn't trying to worry about not calling them too often because your life will TRULY be occupied with activities and you will genuinely be busy. Don't try to project. BE and it will really project off of you.

 

[sixsixtwo]

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[Atlrocafella]

The key, take your focus off of these women and focus on handling your business. As you naturally improve yourself and start being about your business, you will naturally be the guy that just attracts women. Your business comes first. When you are so enthralled with life, you will naturally be a guy that doesn't put up with nonsense from women because you don't want them disturbing the life you are enjoying so much. You are naturally going to be the guy that isn't trying to worry about not calling them too often because your life will TRULY be occupied with activities and you will genuinely be busy. Don't try to project. BE and it will really project off of you.

I just keep learning so much