Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yeah and that's what I clocked as soon as she said it, I was like alright green light. And that's funny because she says that us northwesterners are rude in comparison to her Hawaiians.

No, that's wrong. I'm into her, I just have to drive like 30 minutes to get home so after going to class for an hour+, then heading down there and walking around Portland for almost 2 hours, I was kinda wore out and wanted to visit with my family and clean up before I picked my phone up again.

I think I'm just bothered by her being 18, since I'm 21 and the fact that I met her on that tinder app. I mean she's a cool girl, plus she just moved from Hawaii to Portland for university so I can understand it. I guess I'm just being cautious



Nice. I'ma be in El Rose City this weekend for pre-bday celebraciones.


Portland is a haven for single, attractive, ambitious women because of the job market and bevy of educational institutions.

If she thinks northwesters are rude, wait ‘til she heads out to the bEast Coast, Midwest or So-Cal. Haha.

Hee hee.

Hee hee hee.

Hee hee hee hee.

Yeah, if anything, bowf of y’all are still young so just have thug-fun with it, cuz at this moment of time, the only thing you should be investing is your money for school and ensuring you get your shiit paid, such as your telephone bills, insurance bills, text book bills, tuition bills, healf bills…


...and automo-bills.



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Women are delusional yo. Peep the profile of these chicks that's tryna get at me

-33 year old with a toddler (deadbeat dad)
-34 year old with a 12 year old daughter and no job :heh:
-23 year old tatted up chick with a toddler (deadbeat dat)
-27 year old with two kids

:mindblown:

I got a LOT of things going for me, in world do these women live in where I would settle for that?
 

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Women are delusional yo. Peep the profile of these chicks that's tryna get at me

-33 year old with a toddler (deadbeat dad)
-34 year old with a 12 year old daughter and no job :heh:
-23 year old tatted up chick with a toddler (deadbeat dat)
-27 year old with two kids

:mindblown:

I got a LOT of things going for me, in world do these women live in where I would settle for that?

A real man would step up and raise them kids
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:beli:


It amazes me how entitled some wkmnn think they are


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A real man would step up and raise them kids
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:beli:


It amazes me how entitled some wkmnn think they are


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apologies in advance for the following long ass story i posted in another thread:

Let me tell you....i come across two like this on my campus at least two times a week.....even worse BOTH of them are TWINS....who act exactly the same......

Both are native born Jamaicans who just recently came up to America for College and are both 18...

I know we have alot of posts up in the Gems on Dealing with women thread........but you may remember me talking about these two girls at one point...

Let me tell you god damn I have never come across two women in my entire life who are so damn annoying with their big mouths and the shyt they say behind their supposed "Friends' to their other 'friends" instead of talking out about it....

But to go to the main story, they had annoyed me in the past before because as I have stated before on here, I am EXTREMELYYYYY good at reading people. You know those type of people(lets be honest its mainly loud ass women) who do the "Hi" routine ....but not in a way that is generous or that they are interested in having an actual conversation?

But the type to expect you to say something back other than hi or bye like they are some Queen or something special? Well yeah this girl and her twin are both like this. Also the type to talk about not being into a guy a but how they can be their friend.....and constantly talking about how evil and disgusting men are and acting like women are victims....

Also got the laughable hypocrisy of "Being God Fearing' down to a pact......One of the twins and this Nigerian girl(her friend) who seems to be submissive and in some ways opposite to her but still friends with her......both closed their eyes and started a prayer together .


After the Jamaican girl and her twin spend all these days talking about any and every friend who leaves the room. About how evil this one guy they know is because he flirts with girls and supposedly "uses" them when the guy is pretty much a version of Will Smith with his corniness.

The main story though is that I am still seething at how these loud ass hoes pissed me off. THat same study room where I go in about 2 times a week and often they are in there acting like loud ass dumbasses and having no self control.....We all know the type like that.....The type of broad that will just start singing randomly in a place supposed to be quiet because "I am expressing myself.....that isn't a crime' "You guys are just spoil sports".

Both the twins and the light skinned Nigerian girl who as I said with her accent and tone of speaking she is not as loud as the other two but anyway all of them started singing loud and although I should have said ages before when i first met these loud ass twins to shut the fukk up.....I have a bad habit and need to learn to adodress people more like that.....Its just that I dislike making scenes.

Anyway Nigerian girl says excuse me sir ....I turn around and look and broad asks if "Are we bothering you/Being too loud"(paraphrasing because i don't remember the exact line" but anyway I made this look with my face and just turned my head to the side like you see how Fiddy does in interviews



Girl talks to the Jamaican girl about how she is surprised I did that and says something like "did you see that look he gave...." and "I was just being considerate" yeah your being considerate by having no self control :birdman:
These two Jamaican bytches.....they both then start talking at the other table like I am not even in the room about everything from how he is always in the room like them but how i don't talk to them or anything......

bytch am I suppose to say something else to you besides "Hi" and "Bye' when you showed to me numerous times with your loud ass mouth how you have no self control and do not act like a woman and are constantly cursing and "expressing yourself'.

Sitting across from two men in a closed study room talking and asking your friends about what their panty line is like and if ____has a pink panty, how _____is a fukkING!!!___idiot, opening your mouth about any and everything.


Nevermind the fact that the Nigerian girl did not start coming to the study room until Monday of this week....Now it is late in the semester and they are gonna talk to her and say those things and make it seem like im a bad dude to her......

I love how these ungrateful hoes leave out the fact that on more than one occassion in the past........they asked me to watch their stuff when they left.....that was like earlier on in the semester....but now they act like it never happened and want to make me seem like some bad dude.....


After I responded to when they were continuing to talk.....after one of these SMART ASS HOES started laughing when she was talking about "Yeah one time when i was disturbing him....." ....and i said "So why are you laughing?".....

There was a pause and the two Jamaican girls just started laughing and didn't answer me or say anything else.......

Like I said before I feel bad

PS.

THat "Are We Disturbing/bothering you/being too loud" shyt people love to do.....especially women.....really needs to stop......shyt is getting annoying as hell...

Like I said before I feel bad about how i handled the situation with the NIgerian girl...but as "nice" as she appears compared to the other girls......your in a closed door study room area and your asking a retarded question....

:upsetfavre:

She seems like a very nice girl(the light skinned Nigerian girl) has a softer spoken voice.....but i GUARANTEEE GUARANTEE GUARANTEE all of you right now that if after the semester ends they still are friends with each other......they will Americanize the girl and start feminizing her by saying she needs to stand up for herself by being stronger and leading men.....

Now I did not say they would be feminize her by telling her to stand up.....because everyone whould always stand up for themselves........I am saying....they are gonna corrupt this girl I get that feeling.


These dumb hoes are only 18 years old and they are already acting like this.

Another notes:

One of them was talking about how their friend "Sarah" seems to have low self esteem and gets jealous easily and how she was jealous when she saw another guy was with her flirting with her.....then started talking about how friends should not be like that and if you are a friend you should be happy a guy is flirting with her.....

NOt disagreeing with that.....the Feminized Jamaican Hoe actually has a great point.....but the issue is that her two faced self talks behind her back to the other person to Strangers like myself who she does not know.....who could go online and tell the story.....instead of talking it out with her friend....

She wants to "Report" this male friend they have ....the same dark skinned cornball version of Will Smith I was talking about earlier.......for him stealing " Potato Chips" in the past......and also stealing "Paper from the Printer" in the past

:upsetfavre:

Yes you heard me right......She wants to do this because of a situation both are involved in....supposedly the guy lost his laptop after he left her with it....and she is talking about how she has to be responsible for it.....and possibly they will go to court about it

Some simp who does not even seem to be her boyfriend started talking about how she should "Tell that nikka to suck your dikk" and do something like buy a cheap laptop off ebay that doesn't work and give it to him...


God damn man......this shyt fukked up my day.......I could have possibly had an interesting conversation with this Nigerian girl who seems to be grounded.....


man i gotta get my minds of women like these.....really fukked up my day.......making me seem like a villian to that other broad all because of their instigation.


God this is really making me start to get annoyed with Jamaican women..

@Majestyx im starting to believe this is every city......with all my experiences with these jamaican broads.....there is no way all of them who acted like this .....all were from only big cities.....

give it a rest....we get it your loud......shut the fukk up!!!

Have you ever heard a conversation between Jamaican women by the way? Very good conversationalists and good orators.....but god damn......they are the TOKEN Examples of "Smart-Dumb Niccas"

and its strange because its not like they aren't kept in check.......Jamaican men are still generally masculine ....but its like even with that.....they are still SO FAR GONE and unable to be saved.......

its getting to the point where enough is enough.....

this is exactly why the West Indies gets a bad reputation.....
 
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The other day I was in the library in a private room by myself and this black girl comes in quietly and sits across and says "can i sit here..."

Thought for a second she wasn't a stereotypical loud mouth because of how she asked but then out of nowhere bytch opens up her laptop and starts talking to someone on skype loud as hell and as the day went on more and more people came in(most her friends) and she kept being loud.

Extroverted people say they dont get quiet people but at least we mind our own business. I dont get how can someone honestly talk about someone literally every single minute......not even exaggerating

How can someone talk so much every literal minute
:dwillhuh:

Like shut up and go read a book or something. Always gotta be doing something every second like you said. I'm starting to think the minute a girl I am into says something like "Your so quiet or Why arey you so quiet"...thats my cue it ain't gonna work out(unless its just a fellow introverted girl saying that as a corny inside joke between us :lolbron: )

Blessing about being introverted is that you can observe from a far alot more and read people alot more easily. They assume your being quiet or your slow intellectually because your not responding but dont realize you probably no more about them than vice versa.

@662LetGo I seriously think introverted girls are rarer than introverted men. Do you realize how frustrating it is being around campus and seeing that 99 percent of the girls have no class and are basically cursing up a storm every second or saying some shyt in a hallway around classes like "Well im gonna relax this week.....and im also gonna have sex with my boyfriend!". Um thanks for saying that in the hallway. The way alot of extroverts talk(the attention whore type) is like they look for self validation. Its almost sad.

And then hearing ratchet girls in public talk about "hahhaaha I farted" :scusthov:

@ the bolded :blessed: :lawd: its soooo true.

as an only child, i've naturally learned how to be at peace on my own through occupying myself with many productive things, (e.g. school, music, gym, etc...) and what these airheaded "extrovert" females interpret from that is that i'm boring or even that i'm dumb.

like for real, because i dont engage in their dumb conversations about how to drink in the club, why shanaynay is such a ***** and how that new episode of love and hip hop is crazy, (******** about joe budden for example :stopitslime: ) i'm odd, weird and/or dumb...

its like for these airheads, they have to catch you in your environment; and when they do they're like :ohhh: "i didn't know you spoke another language!" or whatever it is you got going on for yourself :smugdraper:

:wtf:
 
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Nice. I'ma be in El Rose City this weekend for pre-bday celebraciones.


Portland is a haven for single, attractive, ambitious women because of the job market and bevy of educational institutions.

If she thinks northwesters are rude, wait ‘til she heads out to the bEast Coast, Midwest or So-Cal. Haha.

Hee hee.

Hee hee hee.

Hee hee hee hee.

Yeah, if anything, bowf of y’all are still young so just have thug-fun with it, cuz at this moment of time, the only thing you should be investing is your money for school and ensuring you get your shiit paid, such as your telephone bills, insurance bills, text book bills, tuition bills, healf bills…


...and automo-bills.



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You in Portlandia this weekend, you get any free time or some shyt, lemme know before you get there but we'll get a beer or some shyt if you want.

LOL I know, right? Swear we that's what we're known for.

Yessssss, thank you for zeh advice.
 

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@ the bolded :blessed: :lawd: its soooo true.

as an only child, i've naturally learned how to be at peace on my own through occupying myself with many productive things, (e.g. school, music, gym, etc...) and what these airheaded "extrovert" females interpret from that is that i'm boring or even that i'm dumb.

like for real, because i dont engage in their dumb conversations about how to drink in the club, why shanaynay is such a ***** and how that new episode of love and hip hop is crazy, (******** about joe budden for example :stopitslime: ) i'm odd, weird and/or dumb...

its like for these airheads, they have to catch you in your environment; and when they do they're like :ohhh: "i didn't know you spoke another language!" or whatever it is you got going on for yourself :smugdraper:

:wtf:

exactly.....

and in the long story of mine above your post....its the same exact situation

the nerve of this bytch....earlier on when we first met im watching her stuff for her and her ungrateful ass twin(different girl from the post you quoted) while they leave.....

then they have the nerve to criticize me today while im in the same room as them and then laugh when i get annoyed and say why are u laughing then....

if i brought this up about what i did in the past while the nigerian girl is there....u know these token hypocritical Bible Thumpers aka I bring up religion and being nice to people when it benefits me

not to sound sexist but it seems females by nature are more likely to be airheaded......its pretty sad

its like how my mother told me the other day about how that popular doctor i had known for over a decade around the time my sister was born....had died.....

how he was such a good person and only in his early 60s and mentioned how "
its always the good ones who die young"
and she kept repeating over and over about how she doesn't like the other one.....

who she calls the "grumpy doctor' and how she bets alot of people are gonna leave the place....

even close to their 50s women show shallowness......wayyyyyyy too damn obsessed with entertainment.....its just pathetic.....calling dude grumpy becuz he isn't "entertaining" you like a circus animal......
 

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Man, there are some heated discussions on this board about gender politics. I like it, but some people get really salty when you even suggest that people try and avoid things like marriage, reject feminism, or treat women equally, like men.

Anyway, this question is something that I pose to you guys: How do you try and reestablish contact with a girl from many years ago? I've done it successfully a couple of times in the past and I think that I can contribute. I usually wait until they post something on Facebook that gets lots of attention, privately messaging them with something along the lines of, "Hey, I see you're having fun lately, [name]. How ya been?" Something kinda bland, but still enough to get a response.

Any answers and criticism are welcome.
 

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You in Portlandia this weekend, you get any free time or some shyt, lemme know before you get there but we'll get a beer or some shyt if you want.

LOL I know, right? Swear we that's what we're known for.

Yessssss, thank you for zeh advice.



Yeah, me and the fellas planned it - so as long as the driver doesn't back out, i'll be there (lady friend is out of town so i def. feel like i need to do something lol).


Fountaine Bleu is 'posed to be the "IT" place this Sat and odds are i'll be there like a jackson 5 record. Will be in town from Saturday and bounce sunday.


We can def. throw some thangs, meet some ladies, get some truck food, etc.


Hoping that it stays nice though.


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@Fonsworth my initial gut feeling was right..................I. really am damn good at reading people.....hopefully the nigerian girl learns soon enough..

I kno when people are being sincere with starting conversations........and just trying to "feel you out" to tell their friend "I got him to talk!"

females like that got no game or discretion...

So pathetic.....I gotta tell you like a little child whether you are being too loud?

Both these twins and the way the act is why these west indian girls get Rihanned in their face...

Talk too fukking much and wonder why they get smashed in the face.....

Then they think about going back to the quiet reserved guy LegendNas they met in the library and how they should have never disrespected him or ridiculed him..
 
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@kevm3 speak on long distance relationships and social networking with these hoes

Long distance relationships in my mind are pretty much a no-no. In theory they can work, but if so many women can deceive you in your face, what do you think she can do when she has no one watching over her? She will be telling you all you want to hear over the phone/text, but as soon as the weekend hits, she's going to be doing her thing.
 
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In anticipation of my trip to brazil I decided to check out a dating site just to see what else it has to offer other than the woman I'm talking to on facebook

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The girl from Facebook wants to meet but I'm not too sure because she's a few hours from where I will be staying. What would you all do? I'm not going for sex tourism either.


lord....
 

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@Fonsworth my initial gut feeling was right..................I. really am damn good at reading people.....hopefully the nigerian girl learns soon enough..

I kno when people are being sincere with starting conversations........and just trying to "feel you out" to tell their friend "I got him to talk!"

females like that got no game or discretion...

So pathetic.....I gotta tell you like a little child whether you are being too loud?

Both these twins and the way the act is why these west indian girls get Rihanned in their face...

Talk too fukking much and wonder why they get smashed in the face.....

Then they think about going back to the quiet reserved guy LegendNas they met in the library and how they should have never disrespected him or ridiculed him..


Yup, its like they see you as something to be solved because most airheads are used to being on the receiving end of getting all of the attention from dudes.

As said throughout the thread, girls run on emotion, if they cant put their finger on you on some "oh, I know what his story is" ish, it can bother em.

Its kinda like how someone said 900 posts ago, ( :heh: ) how when you cold cut a dumb chick and she randomly hits you up months later on some "hey I miss you" bull. If you respond on some "yeah, I miss you too" simpery and give her any indication that you're not talking to any other girls, she thinks she still has you and boom, instant ego boost simp.

Just let em stew in their own ignorance is what I say; the girls that are worth the time and effort will recognize real when its in their presence. :jawalrus:
 
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