But basically to sum it all up, chick was a big booty white chick who was in her last semester of nursing school (an HBCU I might add which should've been the BIGGEST sign) which is why I think I put up with the BS that I did. But anyways for part of her clinical work she had to work at this inner city school for a couple weeks. So one day she mentions how this teacher was married but she caught him on POF making an account. She went on and on about how disgusted she was that could do that, knowing he was married and he had kid. She went on to tell me out of the blue that I was satisfying all of her needs and she would never talk to another dude.
a couple days later she brings up how this same teacher had an app on his phone that he uses to give his number to the chicks he meets so the texts that he send the chicks don't show up on his phone. Went on and on about how much of a dirtbag that guy was. I'm like Okay.....don't worry about this dude, just worry about us.
need yall to check this out:
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if theres one thing you need to know about young women, and also older immature women, is that if they dont "feel" any intense feeling from being around you, then after some time passes you will see them disappear with the quickness. they pretty much cant control it, and they cant help it because theyre not even entirely aware its happening to them. simple chicks and younger chicks especially, they LOVE to be involved with something that moves them. it doesnt even matter how, but if it moves them, it stays in their mind and it takes over their decisions.
its like this brothers: females run hot.
if you want to get a REAL reaction from them, then you need to be able add to their couldron. get the heat going. start to make her feel a certain way. add some pepper and some hot water to their feelings, and watch it grow
if you can inspire ANY kind of feeling in her, then she will gravitate towards you. whether she loves you or hates you, if she gets that intense feeling around you, trust, she will secretly begin to like it. women crave that kind of heat. that is the flame to a moth. if you can find a way to occupy time in her mind, she will be with you even if shes not HAPPY with you, you dig what Im saying?
now take a good look at this. I want you to look at the factors that are around you and be objective about it. what do you think is the easiest emotion to inspire in somebody? love or hate? to make a person somewhat happy or to make them somewhat disgusted?
even in preschool, a lot of boys instinctively use this. you be a jerk, and the girl that you like will recognize you. when they grow up, girls start to notice the "bad boys" even more strongly. it evokes a lot of feelings from them. even if it means that he wont treat her right and give her what she may need, he will certainly treat her accordingly to her
wants. if you get in their head and it draws a strong emotional response from them,
whatever response, they will be attached to you. challenge them and belittle them and watch how quick they are to open up to you. be bigger than them. Ive even seen it in older women. yes, I mean it. this is all the truth. you step on toes and theyre in awe. you step on her, she wants to prove herself to you and thus wants you to choose her. if her emotions are wild enough, she will do it regardless if her dignity is involved or not. a lot like a groupie.
they dont even know why, but the particularly corrupted ones start to only like guys who treat them so-so at best, and are addicted to the feelings they get when they are around them.
start to poke and prod at a young girls self esteem and she will begin to feel like "I hate him" "oooo motherfukker! damn what a jerk. Im going to show him wasup!" "hes such an a$$hole. I cant believe it!" but guess what? now shes going to try and see what youre about, and want to fukk you even more. its negative energy, but it makes them heat up. you become her project, her object of desire, and her source of drama.
everything a young girl could ask for.
why do you think a$$holes get so much success and strong reactions from women?
why do you think women run back into abusive relationships where they get their ass kicked, self esteem hurt, and emotions put down?
many times with these emotionally manipulated women, if they dont go back to the same guy who treated her bad its because he doesnt want her anymore and moved on ... or because shes too embarassed by her own circle to go back after what he may have done to her. she will find another man to beat and berate her. its a part of what she is now. shes too much of an emotional junkie and cant put it down.
its all a rush to them. like a fiend who doesnt know how to stop their addiction. its the same thing. they need that bad treatment and feed off of that intense, negative rush.
men who can control that kind of rush with females, will begin to get control of her thoughts, her time, and quite possibly her desires. hes her world now. hes her pusher, her daddy, and her boss all in one. in essense, he takes her heart and mind by inspiring strong feelings in her. its sort a dark spell if you really look at it.
its a little kept secret of science that pimps use, a$$hole players dogging women left and right, and basically the all of the bad boys who use or toss aside girls. if you ever have a nice little time of peace and quiet with yourself, notice, that most women wont like it very much. she will tell you "its too quiet." "hes boring." "I dont get THAT feeling anymore... I dont know why." theyre ready to book out because its not exciting to her anymore. she may have conquered you. theres no excitement if she isnt challenged and put down so she can prove herself to you. pimps know what they have to do, they degrade her, take her money because "she cant handle it," and she keeps coming back.
what an emotional junkie wants is a man to poke and prod her. to get at her whole world view and pick at her for anything, right out the blue. start a fight. or just ignore her. it makes her hot. any kind of diss towards her, and she will start to feel a certain way and begin to chase YOU in order to get her next fix. she will get riled up, and start to feel some strong emotions about the whole thing, but she wont understand why. frustration leads many women to fukk men they cant even stand. she will get a tingle from this hated man however, and she will like what shes hearing even if its him being an a$$hole.
look at soaps. look at the daytime maury talk shows. look at the gossip games. look at the baby mamas. look at the cheating in marriages. look at the women who like to pit man against man just for her own emotional needs. look at the drama that many woman like to live in and talk about all day on facebook and twitter.
junkies like that constant rush, and are low key slaves to their emotion.
its not even REMOTELY logical, and its definitely not about long term thinking. women who start to crave that emotional rush do whatever they can to make it all blow up into one big climax. they can be cheating, PLAN to get caught, and then wait for it to blow up. right in front of them. just so that they can watch it unfold. they are SLAVES to their feelings. no matter how fukked up it can end.
"boring" men are the ones who placate an emotional woman. they satisfy her needs, but they dont give her the wants and the emotions that she desires. you see this all the time, in marriages, dating, office "friends" or whatever. those guys dont stimulate her rush enough, so they get ignored for the bad boys or people who lead her into bad.
to top it all off, check this: ALL WOMEN HAVE THIS IN THEM, TO ONE DEGREE OR ANOTHER.
what does this mean for you?
this has all either made you
or
Im going to break it down a little bit more in my next post. (note: I said all this not to make you treat women around you badly, as a few of them who are high quality and with their heads on straight wont like that, but to simply make you aware of this simple mechanic. look at whats under the hood before you move on.)
<---this face tho
) followed by a text later on that day talking about how "I hope you decided to travel for your birthday" later on in the afternoon, (we had been talking about linking up in NY for 6 days for my birthday for months)....the euphoric feeling of how they know they
will put your mind at ease...
, but the lust of the flesh has no hold on me. 
