Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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^^^^^^damn theres this girl i went to school with that likes me thats a year younger.
great job (better than me)
attitude and personality
smart
tells people about me
........all the good shyt
but she about twice my weight breh......so i dont offer to go on dates and shes asked me multiple times.
and i dont think i can get her to drop 100 pounds...she's 6 ft tall so being 200 pounds aint bad
My lady friend is what I call voluptuously curvy (she's 5'8 1/2, don't know her exact weight, but i'd go so far as to say 220-225, my ex was 240 - yes, i date very (subjectively) "thick" companions.
The thing is that i took her to a wedding last weekend and she was easily the heftiest woman there - but she loves me and i don't really know how else to extrapolate on that but be proud of what we've manifested for eachother (i think she even put on a few pounds since i met her, but she's been training for 12 k run this June and waking up at 5, before work... just to go run - so i admire her ambition).
But if she lost 25-30... hell, even 40 pounds, she'd be golden - cuz the girl really really pretty but when we're both on my bed, it kinda sinks a little bit cuz it's a firm mattress and i'm already a big dude myself (five foot twelve and 220 pounds).
The drop the weight thing is just a health concerns, if she stays this weight, i'd still love her, breaighs.
I mean, she's not rotundular by any means, wide hips, decent dairy aire and c cup-steins. This is her on the left (me in the liverpools)
But she has a good heart and doesn't waste food (hey! Don't be mean. Cuz i know what you're thinking. LOL!).
*sighs*
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My lady friend is what I call voluptuously curvy (she's 5'8 1/2, don't know her exact weight, but i'd go so far as to say 220-225, my ex was 240 - yes, i date very (subjectively) "thick" companions.
The thing is that i took her to a wedding last weekend and she was easily the heftiest woman there - but she loves me and i don't really know how else to extrapolate on that but be proud of what we've manifested for eachother (i think she even put on a few pounds since i met her, but she's been training for 12 k run this June and waking up at 5, before work... just to go run - so i admire her ambition).
But if she lost 25-30... hell, even 40 pounds, she'd be golden - cuz the girl really really pretty but when we're both on my bed, it kinda sinks a little bit cuz it's a firm mattress and i'm already a big dude myself (five foot twelve and 220 pounds).
The drop the weight thing is just a health concerns, if she stays this weight, i'd still love her, breaighs.
I mean, she's not rotundular by any means, wide hips, decent dairy aire and c cup-steins. This is her on the left (me in the liverpools)
But she has a good heart and doesn't waste food (hey! Don't be mean. Cuz i know what you're thinking. LOL!).
*sighs*
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Ain't that the pawg u picked up at the mall in Seattle?
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CrossBones
Louder than words
attractiveness is subjective, so you are going to have to feel right about being with her. not because of what others think, but more like what you think about her before any changes have to occur to her.
one thing I will say, is dont take her if all that you want to do is upgrade her. if you need to tweak and change things around to like her, its not worth it.
once a woman gets upgraded, she thinks "if I can get a man to do this for me when I looked like that, imagine what I can get now that Im lookin' like this!"
if you like her, then take her as she is. you might get her cleaned up a bit, but dont go blowing cash or a serious putting energy into improving her.
if whats bothering you is minor and not too bad, then learn to like her for her, then look beyond those minor things. you should have your own treshold and standards in play. do not choose her based on what changes you have to do to tolerate her.
A bday party at a lounge.
She was with a group of friends and infiltrated cuz nobody else was talking to her/them.
Surprised at how reserved men can be if the girl isn't on a dance floor - they told me the entire night, the entire clique didn't get approach by not one single man.
But that's the only way i will get women (i work at an autobody shop, so it's all dudes, and my friends/family who have attempted to hook me up in the past are with girls that i don't like). The best way is to approach these women cold turkey - at least then, if they bite, i know it's a woman that fulfilled my visual appeptite and not from some network connect or dating website (of course, that's the toughest way to go about it but the outcome, if successful, is usually rewarding - atleast in my experiences).
I tried dating customers but that shiit could haunt you (ive got a few stories but i'll save that for a rainy day - lol).
To you dudes who have a good social network and still young (even have social media accounts), work at a place that has many women or go to school... really have a larger pool to fiddle with and have it great.
I think that because my options are so limited, i will pounce at any opportunity because it's all i got! So the sense of urgency forces me to step up my shiit at the most spontaneous of times (which is hard because i can't impromptu good material if i'm caught off right guard).
Back in college, i was surrounded by a bevy of young, beautiful, fun women and i didn't do shiit about it cuz i was so inexperienced and shy. Shiit fukked me up but i don't want to learn to live with regrets (even though i have to, shiit breaighs - there were sooooo many dimes, going to a Pac 12 school, shiit was golden grahams on a daily basis).
*sighs*
Carpe Diem... because you'll never know fams.
I never had a love in high school or college, so i guess y'all can say i'm making up for lost time now - but it's nil the same.
I won't know what it's like to sneak out of a chicks crib at night when her parents come back from they mini vacay unexpectedly. Or taking a stroll through campus as the cherry blossoms begin to fall right at the tail end of autumn. Lovey dovey shiit like that.
What's love got to do with it?
Err thang, did...
Errrr thang.
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Met a woman at a bar last night. I already had the drop on her because my boy told me about how she gets down. She took me to her crib. Hit me with the "I usually don't do this" line
I cannot stand women.
I cannot stand women.
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Met a woman at a bar last night. I already had the drop on her because my boy told me about how she gets down. She took me to her crib. Hit me with the "I usually don't do this" line
I cannot stand women.
When you start hearing that same stuff over and over and you realize the innumerous amount of illusions and deceptions that are involved, you just sit back and say, "Man this is really dumb." It's among the reasons why I've been drifting away from thinking about women too much and have been focusing on other pursuits.
If you willingly choose to pursue a woman in this day and age, you simply have to accept that you will have to deal with a lot of possible deception, emotional craziness or a host of other nonsense. On a RARE occasion, you might find a gem... but I don't really care to look right now. I'd much rather be focused on creating my own happiness instead of buying these dreams these women are selling and hearing the same lies over and over. With that said, I don't regret a single moment cultivating this knowledge about women that I have because it has saved me from that buzzsaw that so many men are being run through, whether it's getting their kids taken from them, becoming a financial slave, being 'favor man' or whatever host of nonsense that comes along with dealing with women. You have to deal with all of those risks for what? A shot at her vagina that she's probably shared with 40 or 50 men prior to you?
Malikthegod
opposite of mediocre
My brother @CrossBones 
I think you nailed it right on the head. This chick ALWAYS needed some form of male attention. I was being the safe sucker
My mind feels like a flower in blown breh's
I think you nailed it right on the head. This chick ALWAYS needed some form of male attention. I was being the safe sucker My mind feels like a flower in blown breh's
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MaccabeanRebel
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^^^^^^damn theres this girl i went to school with that likes me thats a year younger.
great job (better than me)
attitude and personality
smart
tells people about me
........all the good shyt
but she about twice my weight breh......
and i dont think i can get her to drop 100 pounds...she's 6 ft tall so being 200 pounds aint bad
Yea that's a slippery slope fam...you'll be mad as fuq when she drops that weight and then won't give you the time of day because you played her lol.
I say you try to help her drop the weight...do some drastic shyt, become a vegetarian with her, workout together, go on walks..i dunno lol
So the consensus on always having to initiate sh!t first is to just move on to the next one?
need yall to check this out:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EAoBhyCIKv0
if theres one thing you need to know about young women, and also older immature women, is that if they dont "feel" any intense feeling from being around you, then after some time passes you will see them disappear with the quickness. they pretty much cant control it, and they cant help it because theyre not even entirely aware its happening to them. simple chicks and younger chicks especially, they LOVE to be involved with something that moves them. it doesnt even matter how, but if it moves them, it stays in their mind and it takes over their decisions.
its like this brothers: females run hot.
if you want to get a REAL reaction from them, then you need to be able add to their couldron. get the heat going. start to make her feel a certain way. add some pepper and some hot water to their feelings, and watch it grow
if you can inspire ANY kind of feeling in her, then she will gravitate towards you. whether she loves you or hates you, if she gets that intense feeling around you, trust, she will secretly begin to like it. women crave that kind of heat. that is the flame to a moth. if you can find a way to occupy time in her mind, she will be with you even if shes not HAPPY with you, you dig what Im saying?
now take a good look at this. I want you to look at the factors that are around you and be objective about it. what do you think is the easiest emotion to inspire in somebody? love or hate? to make a person somewhat happy or to make them somewhat disgusted?
even in preschool, a lot of boys instinctively use this. you be a jerk, and the girl that you like will recognize you. when they grow up, girls start to notice the "bad boys" even more strongly. it evokes a lot of feelings from them. even if it means that he wont treat her right and give her what she may need, he will certainly treat her accordingly to her wants. if you get in their head and it draws a strong emotional response from them, whatever response, they will be attached to you. challenge them and belittle them and watch how quick they are to open up to you. be bigger than them. Ive even seen it in older women. yes, I mean it. this is all the truth. you step on toes and theyre in awe. you step on her, she wants to prove herself to you and thus wants you to choose her. if her emotions are wild enough, she will do it regardless if her dignity is involved or not. a lot like a groupie.
they dont even know why, but the particularly corrupted ones start to only like guys who treat them so-so at best, and are addicted to the feelings they get when they are around them.
start to poke and prod at a young girls self esteem and she will begin to feel like "I hate him" "oooo motherfukker! damn what a jerk. Im going to show him wasup!" "hes such an a$$hole. I cant believe it!" but guess what? now shes going to try and see what youre about, and want to fukk you even more. its negative energy, but it makes them heat up. you become her project, her object of desire, and her source of drama.
everything a young girl could ask for.
why do you think a$$holes get so much success and strong reactions from women?
why do you think women run back into abusive relationships where they get their ass kicked, self esteem hurt, and emotions put down?
many times with these emotionally manipulated women, if they dont go back to the same guy who treated her bad its because he doesnt want her anymore and moved on ... or because shes too embarassed by her own circle to go back after what he may have done to her. she will find another man to beat and berate her. its a part of what she is now. shes too much of an emotional junkie and cant put it down.
its all a rush to them. like a fiend who doesnt know how to stop their addiction. its the same thing. they need that bad treatment and feed off of that intense, negative rush.
men who can control that kind of rush with females, will begin to get control of her thoughts, her time, and quite possibly her desires. hes her world now. hes her pusher, her daddy, and her boss all in one. in essense, he takes her heart and mind by inspiring strong feelings in her. its sort a dark spell if you really look at it.
its a little kept secret of science that pimps use, a$$hole players dogging women left and right, and basically the all of the bad boys who use or toss aside girls. if you ever have a nice little time of peace and quiet with yourself, notice, that most women wont like it very much. she will tell you "its too quiet." "hes boring." "I dont get THAT feeling anymore... I dont know why." theyre ready to book out because its not exciting to her anymore. she may have conquered you. theres no excitement if she isnt challenged and put down so she can prove herself to you. pimps know what they have to do, they degrade her, take her money because "she cant handle it," and she keeps coming back.
what an emotional junkie wants is a man to poke and prod her. to get at her whole world view and pick at her for anything, right out the blue. start a fight. or just ignore her. it makes her hot. any kind of diss towards her, and she will start to feel a certain way and begin to chase YOU in order to get her next fix. she will get riled up, and start to feel some strong emotions about the whole thing, but she wont understand why. frustration leads many women to fukk men they cant even stand. she will get a tingle from this hated man however, and she will like what shes hearing even if its him being an a$$hole.
look at soaps. look at the daytime maury talk shows. look at the gossip games. look at the baby mamas. look at the cheating in marriages. look at the women who like to pit man against man just for her own emotional needs. look at the drama that many woman like to live in and talk about all day on facebook and twitter.
junkies like that constant rush, and are low key slaves to their emotion.
its not even REMOTELY logical, and its definitely not about long term thinking. women who start to crave that emotional rush do whatever they can to make it all blow up into one big climax. they can be cheating, PLAN to get caught, and then wait for it to blow up. right in front of them. just so that they can watch it unfold. they are SLAVES to their feelings. no matter how fukked up it can end.
"boring" men are the ones who placate an emotional woman. they satisfy her needs, but they dont give her the wants and the emotions that she desires. you see this all the time, in marriages, dating, office "friends" or whatever. those guys dont stimulate her rush enough, so they get ignored for the bad boys or people who lead her into bad.
to top it all off, check this: ALL WOMEN HAVE THIS IN THEM, TO ONE DEGREE OR ANOTHER.
what does this mean for you?
this has all either made youor
Im going to break it down a little bit more in my next post. (note: I said all this not to make you treat women around you badly, as a few of them who are high quality and with their heads on straight wont like that, but to simply make you aware of this simple mechanic. look at whats under the hood before you move on.)
Extroverted women that are addicted to drama are easily the worst women to be with. All that excitement drains me after a while and I need peace to function. They want a man that is "out there" in the clubs/ streets/ jails all the time to have something to talk about to their friends. shyt like that I consider 95% of chicks to be jumpoffs until proven otherwise.
Certain people are just passive, especially women, and always expect you to initiate. It really depends on how prompt she is in replying to your requests. If you always have to initiate and she is constantly ducking and dodging you, then you probably want to move on. There are the rare occasions where the woman is extremely shy and she needs to take a bit of time to really warm up to you. However, if she's a really sociable and outgoing type of woman who has no reason to avoid your invitations, then more likely than not you are low on her priority list. That's when you keep it pushing. On the other hand, if she is prompt on taking you up on your offer, then there is little reason to just drop her.
When it comes to women of the modern day, who have been 'liberated', they love to categorize men so that they can deal with numerous of them and choose one to fit into each category of her desire. This is demonstrated by the 'gaggle' concept.
In general, when dealing with women, you will either be a man of utility or a man of pleasure. The man of utility is the one she throws her burdens upon and uses up and shucks away, and it is the man of pleasure that she gives her best attention to. The man of leisure is akin to the nice guy who is willing to 'provide for all her needs'. She keeps him along to secure her safety and stability, but not being satisfied with only that, she then looks for a man of pleasure. When I say man of pleasure, I'm talking about the man who is able to emotionally captivate a woman, therefore giving her immense pleasure when she deals with him. A lot of these so-called 'bad boys' know how to work her emotions and captivate her, which is why she often gives them the best of her and the 'nice fella' the worst of her. Now, if you can find a woman that looks as you both as her man of pleasure and leisure, then that is the one you should consider taking for your own... but never merely be a woman's man of utility.
In general, when dealing with women, you will either be a man of utility or a man of pleasure. The man of utility is the one she throws her burdens upon and uses up and shucks away, and it is the man of pleasure that she gives her best attention to. The man of leisure is akin to the nice guy who is willing to 'provide for all her needs'. She keeps him along to secure her safety and stability, but not being satisfied with only that, she then looks for a man of pleasure. When I say man of pleasure, I'm talking about the man who is able to emotionally captivate a woman, therefore giving her immense pleasure when she deals with him. A lot of these so-called 'bad boys' know how to work her emotions and captivate her, which is why she often gives them the best of her and the 'nice fella' the worst of her. Now, if you can find a woman that looks as you both as her man of pleasure and leisure, then that is the one you should consider taking for your own... but never merely be a woman's man of utility.
Yeah, that was always in the back of my mind.
I don't have the time to play "get to know everything about me before you make up your mind to move forward" .
