Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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DeuceZ
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@Malikthegod I think once she started saying stuff like she was previously a jump-off and cheated on other dudes u should have shown her the door...not necessarily in a mean way or nothin but just ended it there....then the whole aquarium thing..c'mon b thats str8 disrespect to you I dont even care what she says..when my girl and I first started we would both tell ppl we were just friends coz we didnt want anyone in our business..it was an agreement between us until we became official...what she did is basically call you a lame to another cat 
then the STD 
naaaah breh
once you compromise on one thing its an ever-increasing shyt storm...better u rack that L and dip before you rack up more
then the STD naaaah brehonce you compromise on one thing its an ever-increasing shyt storm...better u rack that L and dip before you rack up more
an STD breh!!!:jojo:
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I just read Malik's story. Gawd damn brehs 
These women ain't shyt. It's been mentioned in here already, but I'm really struggling to figure out why females cannot own up to their actions. There's too much rationalization, too many disguises, just too much fraudulence. They're so insecure, they're so regretful, so inconsistent, but yet they still put themselves in positions in which they're going to have their actions & words throw in their faces, but they'll deny it as though it isn't reality.
I have a curious mind. I did some phone snooping with a girl I was messing with towards the end of high school. Wasn't a smart decision, I saw something I didn't want to see. She plainly, bluntly asked another dude for some sex through a text message and I saw it. I called her out on it and she told me that she "was just joking." My dumbass believed her. I look back and think about it now and want to fight myself for believing that nonsense. I can't tell if these women want to spare themselves, or the feelings of the man they're currently in the presence in, or both. But I think taking responsibility for something you've said or done is critical. What the fukk is the point in masking shyt? Why disguise things?
I really am starting to believe that the majority of women are constructed the same way.
Just got out of a little fling with a 20 year old who loves sex. Told me that she "needs it." But she's regretful over the fact that she's having noncommittal sex with different partners. That shyt tears her up. Me bringing up her past, or acknowledging some of her actions differing from the words she ushered crushed her, she would act like I was purposely chastising her. The shyt is so loony.
These girls get captured by moments constantly. They don't want to admit that, however. They don't want to admit to being temperamental entities. I think it was kev who said it in here, not sure, but these women lie to themselves so much, about what it is they want, and who they are, that they turn themselves into a social whirlwind.
These women ain't shyt. It's been mentioned in here already, but I'm really struggling to figure out why females cannot own up to their actions. There's too much rationalization, too many disguises, just too much fraudulence. They're so insecure, they're so regretful, so inconsistent, but yet they still put themselves in positions in which they're going to have their actions & words throw in their faces, but they'll deny it as though it isn't reality.
I have a curious mind. I did some phone snooping with a girl I was messing with towards the end of high school. Wasn't a smart decision, I saw something I didn't want to see. She plainly, bluntly asked another dude for some sex through a text message and I saw it. I called her out on it and she told me that she "was just joking." My dumbass believed her. I look back and think about it now and want to fight myself for believing that nonsense. I can't tell if these women want to spare themselves, or the feelings of the man they're currently in the presence in, or both. But I think taking responsibility for something you've said or done is critical. What the fukk is the point in masking shyt? Why disguise things?
I really am starting to believe that the majority of women are constructed the same way.
Just got out of a little fling with a 20 year old who loves sex. Told me that she "needs it." But she's regretful over the fact that she's having noncommittal sex with different partners. That shyt tears her up. Me bringing up her past, or acknowledging some of her actions differing from the words she ushered crushed her, she would act like I was purposely chastising her. The shyt is so loony.
These girls get captured by moments constantly. They don't want to admit that, however. They don't want to admit to being temperamental entities. I think it was kev who said it in here, not sure, but these women lie to themselves so much, about what it is they want, and who they are, that they turn themselves into a social whirlwind.
Simp mentality is also caused by players not dropping game on dudes that need to info. I see a lot of 90s babies who are CLUELESS on how to talk to a girl and gas chicks up like crazy. Those same older dudes that have game and refuse it also contributed to the problems of today.
Malikthegod
opposite of mediocre
@Malikthegod I think once she started saying stuff like she was previously a jump-off and cheated on other dudesthshould have shown her the door...not necessarily in a mean way or nothin but just ended it there....then the whole aquarium thing..c'mon b thats str8 disrespect to you I dont even care what she says..when my girl and I first started we would both tell ppl we were just friends coz we didnt want anyone in our business..it was an agreement between us until we became official...what she did is basically call you a lame to another cat
once you compromise on one thing its an ever-increasing shyt storm...better u rack that L and dip before you rack up more
an STD breh!!!:jojo:
Dog in retrospect, I'm like
I knew deep down inside she was a jumpoff but the stuff she was doing, I was like maybe she changed. Trying to rationalize her slut behaviors smh.the story isn't done yet though I continued to take more L's
I'm going to post the conclusion to this pitiful saga when I get to a computer. I'm going to cap it off with a screenshot of something this broad said to me that validates 100000% of what yall have been saying about these modern day females
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CrossBones
Louder than words
never accept what your woman says on face value only, especially if its in the starting "honeymoon" phase. this is a time when you really dont know her, and can only see what she wants you to see. just be ready to ask questions to get to the bottom of things. likewise, you will have to do this for the remainder of your time with her as well, when things get rocky. remember to remain grounded in the truth. keep your common sense and wits about you, because "love" is not an answer to anything, its just an emotion.
always be ready to question what they say and or what they could mean when theyre doing something peculiar. approach the situation rationally, calmly, and do not accuse. merely question them. let them explain things and continue through your line of reasoning just to see if it smells fishy or not. the deeper you go into a lie, the more obvious it becomes and the more lies she has to make up. you dont have to hound her, but make sure you get to the part to where it starts to make sense for you. put all suspect behavior and answers through a realistic, personal scrutiny, because when it comes down to it you need to get to your own conclusion about the situation.
even if she is lying she will not own up to it until its too late. so you ultimately have to answer the questions in front of you for yourself, based on what you can put together. girls like to talk anyways, right? so ask a few questions like youre interested, and dont let her brush you off. thats bad news. if what she has told you is highly unlikely, or makes no practical sense to you, then dont trust it. remember to follow through with your questioning. simple as that.
always be ready to question what they say and or what they could mean when theyre doing something peculiar. approach the situation rationally, calmly, and do not accuse. merely question them. let them explain things and continue through your line of reasoning just to see if it smells fishy or not. the deeper you go into a lie, the more obvious it becomes and the more lies she has to make up. you dont have to hound her, but make sure you get to the part to where it starts to make sense for you. put all suspect behavior and answers through a realistic, personal scrutiny, because when it comes down to it you need to get to your own conclusion about the situation.
even if she is lying she will not own up to it until its too late. so you ultimately have to answer the questions in front of you for yourself, based on what you can put together. girls like to talk anyways, right? so ask a few questions like youre interested, and dont let her brush you off. thats bad news. if what she has told you is highly unlikely, or makes no practical sense to you, then dont trust it. remember to follow through with your questioning. simple as that.
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You already know breh. I remember mentioning dissonance a couple weeks ago,..what was the post about again?
It's hard to avoid, i've been guilty of it in relationships myself.
I haven't gotten that far yet breh, I'm still around posts made in November, I'm trynna see updates on that bad Italian chick you posted.
CrossBones
Louder than words
I think its sort of comical when you hear a woman say "there are no good men out there" and "they all just want to fukk and leave or have someone to call on for when they want sex" 
listen, if a woman has more to offer, a real man would try to lock that down. if a woman is constantly finding herself as a quick nut and nothing more, its becuase she really offers nothing else besides sex. if she doesnt do anything else, then there is nothing else to talk to about with her.
a good female companion isnt about the arguing, the drama, and the nonsense. some girls arent even intelligent, and cant hold a decent conversation if its not about them. a good woman, she understands her man, and can learn how to keep him. these simple hoes dont know that, so after they put out, the men get out. and thats on her for A) choosing to give it up to certain men she really doesnt know and B) not having something worth keeping. tell the game how it is, dont lie and say that its men who are the dogs, youre the ones opening up your legs to them and offering nothing else
listen, if a woman has more to offer, a real man would try to lock that down. if a woman is constantly finding herself as a quick nut and nothing more, its becuase she really offers nothing else besides sex. if she doesnt do anything else, then there is nothing else to talk to about with her.
a good female companion isnt about the arguing, the drama, and the nonsense. some girls arent even intelligent, and cant hold a decent conversation if its not about them. a good woman, she understands her man, and can learn how to keep him. these simple hoes dont know that, so after they put out, the men get out. and thats on her for A) choosing to give it up to certain men she really doesnt know and B) not having something worth keeping. tell the game how it is, dont lie and say that its men who are the dogs, youre the ones opening up your legs to them and offering nothing else
Very sound advice. I think if you're dealing with an extremely sensitive female, however, even a calm, judicious approach to questioning will cause rifts. It sucks but, it probably just highlights that that particular partnership is not meant to be.
I want to start experiencing some older women, like 30+. I had this cougar hit on me in a community college class about three years ago and even though I turned her down because she wasn't aesthetically appealing, I still really marvel at her maturity. She had a kid already, but she kept it 100. Didn't sense a hint of childishness in her. That's just surface level stuff though. I've yet to experience multiple encounters with an older woman, but I'm guessing that the wavering, "Oh I don't know how I really feel" type of emotions that exist in privileged, young college undergrads shouldn't shine through as much with them.
I have an innate ability to question things. I ponder stuff. I'm too damn curious to sit back and let a bunch of words and actions confound me without speaking up about it. I need a sense of clarity. I feel like a lot of dudes that these chicks' are dealing with keep things bottled in, and just accept female nonsense on the basis that they're receiving sex, or a sense of companionship, but none of that stuff is grand enough for me to just ignore my instinctual receptors.
CrossBones
Louder than words
I know what your saying. the sensitive ones, the privalaged, young, and also educated misses out there like to talk about "Im dont know" and hate to talk about things when its important question time.
but leave it them, theyre telling you their life story, the interactions for the day, what they ate, some new shoes they seen, tv shows, and work place gossip. when it comes to important things and some questions about some funny business its ... "uhh I dont know" "I dont want to talk right now." real convenient for them too
"There is a core that is every woman. There are traits exhibited by every woman. Some emphasize the good more than the bad, and those are the good girls. The bad ones, well you get the idea.
There's a completely used up whore out there who can deeply love you. There's a sweet virgin church girl out there who will cheat on you under the right circumstances.
We're all just playing the odds. In the end, you can be loved or destroyed and though you can influence her behavior through tight game & Alpha frame, in the end the choice is hers; not yours.
There's a completely used up whore out there who can deeply love you. There's a sweet virgin church girl out there who will cheat on you under the right circumstances.
We're all just playing the odds. In the end, you can be loved or destroyed and though you can influence her behavior through tight game & Alpha frame, in the end the choice is hers; not yours.
I believe one of my main mistakes has been seeking out these worldly women, but I find they have nothing to offer me. I need a woman who truly is a follower of Jesus, not only in her lips, but in her deed. These women of the world have little to offer but headache and heartache. As Reincar says, a lot of these women say they are 'spiritual', but what spirit are they following?
1 John 4
4 Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world. 2 By this you know the Spirit of God: every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God
I don't want a woman into new-age spiritualism because she will be into new-age things. The only spirit I want a woman following is the Holy Spirit. The problem with the Church nowadays is that they also cater to women as opposed to chastising women and telling them to be in their proper role as they chastise men. These churches chase money as opposed to giving these women what they really need to build a sustainable, long-term relationship. These modern churches fail to break these women from the cycle of rebellion against a man, nor do they even really take the time to teach men how to be men, as they should. Instead, the modern church itself has become feminized in the way they teach, which is why you hardly see many men in there anymore.
1 John 4
4 Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world. 2 By this you know the Spirit of God: every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God
I don't want a woman into new-age spiritualism because she will be into new-age things. The only spirit I want a woman following is the Holy Spirit. The problem with the Church nowadays is that they also cater to women as opposed to chastising women and telling them to be in their proper role as they chastise men. These churches chase money as opposed to giving these women what they really need to build a sustainable, long-term relationship. These modern churches fail to break these women from the cycle of rebellion against a man, nor do they even really take the time to teach men how to be men, as they should. Instead, the modern church itself has become feminized in the way they teach, which is why you hardly see many men in there anymore.
Why Aren't Young Men Going to Church? - The Spearhead
my church isnt like that but ive been to churches like this, filled with single moms, and mena nd women living out of wedlock yet the pastor keeps quiet because they are paying the offering and tithes.
the church is filled with females so the message is catered to them, men are shafted and told to wife these former slores, or women with kids
"young brother reincar date a female in the church":
looks around and sees women with 3-4 kids out of wedlock
my church isnt like that but ive been to churches like this, filled with single moms, and mena nd women living out of wedlock yet the pastor keeps quiet because they are paying the offering and tithes.
the church is filled with females so the message is catered to them, men are shafted and told to wife these former slores, or women with kids
"young brother reincar date a female in the church":
looks around and sees women with 3-4 kids out of wedlock
