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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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I feel the same way breh. Its hard to have a committed relationship with unstable women. One day she loves you and the next she doesnt because you havent bought her flowers in the last 3 months. Who wants to deal with those roller coaster of emotions...
Fast forward things are back to how they were, I'm lost In the sauce, this chick has my nose wide openso I start hinting at us becoming official while she ducking and dodging and dodging and giving me half assed answers. So one day she comes over the crib and I run through that phone again and I see her texting some dude at like 12am and he's telling her to get on Skype. Afterward she sends him a text talking about I wish you were single I'd like you better, and he goes on and says yeah if I didn't have a girlfriend or a kid with her you would be wifed. But blah blah blah. So I peep this and was like
ok. I didn't say anything about it. Just acted normal. Later that night after I smash, she starts talking a out how she wants me to be her boyfriend (mind you she was JUST texting a dude how much she wished he was single) I didn't bring it up. I just said ok let's be together.
Next morning we eating breakfast and I play pretend and take her phone right in front of her and I scroll straight to the message. And I'm like so....what does this mean? You were just telling me you want me to be your boyfriend but you telling some guy you wish he was single? And this silly broad was like I meant I wish he was single so I could talk to him whenever I want, not only when it's convenient for him. I don't like part time friends
But like a simp I don't see the bullshyt for what it is and I buy her bullshyt explanation
see the thing is when you let things slide once she views you as a sucker and loses respect for you. Its hard cuz you really like this chick and actually treat her good and yet tis loser ass nikka is whats tingling her.
as kevm said once you develop that boot
anyways i havent even contacted that chick i had my chilling session with and neither did she 
did my regular deleted her number if she texts me cool, if not
guess she wasnt feeling the reincar charm
did my regular deleted her number if she texts me cool, if not
guess she wasnt feeling the reincar charm
anyways i havent even contacted that chick i had my chilling session with and neither did she
did my regular deleted her number if she texts me cool, if not
guess she wasnt feeling the reincar charm
It can be quite fatiguing dealing with a lot of these women. They want you to chase them around like they are some high value prize, and in society, men are brainwashed to think they absolutely MUST take on the company of a woman by any means necessary, so they reach out, pull an ice cold one right out of the fridge and take a big swig of that energizing drink known as 'Sucker Soda.' Once that energy fills their body, they get on the chase. You did the right thing in my opinion. Screw all of that chasing and hounding a woman. Peace of mind, more money in the pocket and having your dignity intact is worth way more than the company of a woman. If she can't make basic effort to call back and get in touch after you took her out, then time to keep it pushing. These women got the notion that you are supposed to actually chase them to be able to reward them with free dinners and the such... and they get that notion because there are a host of simp dudes willing to transform their personality and pay to play... but let them be broke as a joke and end up being disrespected.
anyways i havent even contacted that chick i had my chilling session with and neither did she
did my regular deleted her number if she texts me cool, if not
guess she wasnt feeling the reincar charm
Lol when she finally stops playing games and text you, you're going to be like Who's this?
.....that shyt will hit her soul 
coming into the realization that I would be a complete lifestyle upgrade to some of these chicks.. I'm making these chicks earn my time, fukk all that reaching out so I can take YOU out to eat..for what exactly? 
its really clear to see that women are the most delusional creatures on this earth. and men, we're delusional for believing them.
women are the ones who say: "you have to deal with me" "take me for what I am" "I dont need to do anything I am the prize" "what does HE bring to the table" when shes an everyday commoner or some smut with nothing going on but bills and her p*ssy. (which she rations out to different men anyways)
the big dream going on is to make you believe, that just because you are attracted to them that you have to believe that they piss out spring water and shyt out ice cream. theyre delicate angels and they are emotional creatures, so coddle them and protect them. they can create the dream, and we have to buy into it. so let them do whatever it is that they want and get the most out of it. because, shes a magical fairy girl. and with that, us allowing them to be brats, their delusion is in thinking that they dont have to ever improve, or come to grips with their possible shortcumings and honestly work on themselves. instead its all hidden and locked away until their self esteem crashes and they do something to validate themselves to someone else (friends, "society," strangers, or namely other people, and not their man)
I think its really telling that a thread based around men improving our outlook, our relationships, our life choices, and ourselves, is almost 5000 posts strong full of gems in only a few months, and women in general have the attitude of "take me at my worst"
so not only is it on us to pay for them and their way, carry the weight for their mistakes, we have to be exciting, do things for them, have more than them from our wise choices that we must "share" for them, and accept them for their faults - yet we're the only ones who have the drive and initiative to consistently work on ourselves
that alone speaks volumes about us and what we're capable of. and I mean outside of this institution and what we've been told to accept. men, remember, those mistakes and programming that we are assaulted with, it only works if you believe in it. see ultimately, it all falls on us. its our responsibility to control our game and our future, and every aspect of it from here on out. there is no, "what does she like and what would impress her" or bowing to her whims. its about taking different things in our life, making a plan, and making the pieces work for you.
the irony in all this is, that women are wayyy more insecure than men. men, how many times have you asked your girl "baby does my belly show in this shirt?" "are my jeans too tight?" "now be honest with me, honey, how did my hair look today?"
theyre the most insecure, delusional, and lying of the species. if a man lies, its only because the bullshyt level on this particular woman is so damn high, that in order for her to even pretend to like you or acknowledge you, ya have to tell her that youre a party promoter. or that youre a mover in the industry. that you KNOW people. you run the office down at the bank. that you made salesman of the year in real estate. whatever. we lie, because these women lie to themselves so much everyday that to deal with them you need to hop right in fantasy land with them. in them saying to themselves that they only deserve to have a man that has a doctorate, a man who is a successful lawyer, a wealthy athlete, or someone with high status, when all she is bringing to the table is p*ssy is .... crazy as shyt!
is it any wonder that women will delude themselves into thinking they can only settle for a rich, well off man, when they themselves aint shyt? and is it a coincidence, that these well-to-do- men, are able to afford them a life of luxury where they dont need to ever do shyt? a prince charming, indeed.
now lets be serious, and discard that disney fairy tale for a second. lets look at the actual picture. what is happening.
so a woman is hoping to have a man put up with her shyt, since she wont change or honestly work to make things better (for herself or her mate), because she wont "settle." oh, the horror or not marrying an athlete and having to choose a working man who could not provide a life of upmost comfort for her. to not have a life where she doesnt have to do anything as a princess. a life where she would have to make things work, like he has to make things work. terrible, just terrible!
now the refusal to accept "settling for lesser" is in all bytches now. and why? because they cant compete with us, so they want to take from us. they will lie to themselves about their worth just so they can have more from you. thats the lie. what the fukk. does she. bring?
see, and in the event of waiting for that mystical rich man who will wife them, they will ration their p*ssy to men who will dog them out and many random encounters. only to find themselves in the end tied up with the worst of men out there. they have kids with men who cant stand them except for dropping in and using them for random hoing. why?
because they think that a prince charming is the only one worth "settling" for. its a lifestyle that they can hope for since, in a real one, they have to be on point, they have to hold a house down, they have to be by their man in tough times, and they have to deal with reality.
that dreamy make believe situation that they hope for, and what men to put up with, is only to compensate for the fact that they dont bring anything but entitlement and self serving attitudes to the table. men out there, go find yourself a seat at another table.
thank you, God bless.
@the bolded
that. is. so. damn. true.as a young man, (just turned 24) my life has constantly been a journey defined by accomplishments that essentially define me on every quantifiable and tangible level.
whether it be a matter of education, (i'm black, graduated with a minor in mandarin and bio/psych...) health, (lost 110lbs and am on my hercules tip...), finances, (getting a raise soon working in federal/local grants compliance) and my future, (law school in D.C. hopefully).....i've always seen this as something that should be second nature for men...but in these females out here dude...its like they always have shyt that they say they want without grasping what it takes to achieve these dreams...
every girl i've messed with either never graduated from college on some "i just got tired but i'm gonna go back next fall" tip while never failing to hit the club from 11 to 4 in the morning on weekends; they had a kid or two, (nuff said there); were jobless/constantly bouncing from dead end job to another doing "data entry" while talking immense shyt about their coworkers....
all of this while boldly telling me how they get bored easily and need to be entertained...how they want a man to cook and clean and how they really arent interested in careers and are content having kids and staying home doing nothing...shyt one girl i knew was so damn crazy, I would literally be on instagram, like a photo of some random floozy and within 2 minutes i'm getting a text saying, "oh so you're liking ass pics like mendecees now huh?"
(mind you i didn't know who the **** mendecees was at the time) but she would tell me how i would have to just trust her while dealing with her insecurities, so if she was out from 10 friday night to 5 am saturday morning, i'd have to deal with it 
its like these girls are not even fathoming how ass backwards their logic is..
in fact my addendum to the above statement is that they are actually bold and arrogant with their entitlement personalities...
yeah as said 50000 times in this thread: besides ***** and ass, i really don't see what they are bringing to any "relationship"
CrossBones
Louder than words
@the bolded
as a young man, (just turned 24) my life has constantly been a journey defined by accomplishments that essentially define me on every quantifiable and tangible level.
whether it be a matter of education, (i'm black, graduated with a minor in mandarin and bio/psych...) health, (lost 110lbs and am on my hercules tip...), finances, (getting a raise soon working in federal/local grants compliance) and my future, (law school in D.C. hopefully).....i've always seen this as something that should be second nature for men...but in these females out here dude...its like they always have shyt that they say they want without grasping what it takes to achieve these dreams...
every girl i've messed with either never graduated from college on some "i just got tired but i'm gonna go back next fall" tip while never failing to hit the club from 11 to 4 in the morning on weekends; they had a kid or two, (nuff said there); were jobless/constantly bouncing from dead end job to another doing "data entry" while talking immense shyt about their coworkers....
all of this while boldly telling me how they get bored easily and need to be entertained...how they want a man to cook and clean and how they really arent interested in careers and are content having kids and staying home doing nothing...shyt one girl i knew was so damn crazy, I would literally be on instagram, like a photo of some random floozy and within 2 minutes i'm getting a text saying, "oh so you're liking ass pics like mendecees now huh?"
its like these girls are not even fathoming how ass backwards their logic is..
in fact my addendum to the above statement is that they are actually bold and arrogant with their entitlement personalities...
yeah as said 50000 times in this thread: besides ***** and ass, i really don't see what they are bringing to any "relationship"
women who want it both ways, to be a man part of the time, while getting all of the treatment and courtesy a woman gets - will never bring anything good to the table. if you really look at it, all theyre trying to do is get whatever they can. they are effectively working the system so they can get all the benefits of both worlds. they want more rights then men. then they scavenge from one, and move onto the next so they can get what they over can there. its a straight scavenger type way of thinking. the trick is, they dont BRING anything, they present it, and then hold it over you if you let them. kids, alimony, commitment, p*ssy etc etc.
a real woman, should be able to maintain the house. support her man. listen to him. not engage in constant power struggles. provide real comfort. cook. clean. not overspend. not be a bird brain.
but thats really rare in this day and age
CrossBones
Louder than words
look how sick that hen house is. twisting things up, hiding the truth, encourages lying, then blaming someone else for something that really, they did. the fukk is that. just spinning things around to make themselves the victim again. just own up to what you are and what you did. I wonder why they dont like to do that.
look how sick that hen house is. twisting things up, hiding the truth, encourages lying, then blaming someone else for something that really, they did. the fukk is that. just spinning things around to make themselves the victim again. just own up to what you are and what you did. I wonder why they dont like to do that.
Because they know a weak dude will turn a blind eye to it and KIM.
Make no mistake, The simp mentality is the true enemy, once we eradicate a good portion of it, a lot of things will change.
@the bolded
as a young man, (just turned 24) my life has constantly been a journey defined by accomplishments that essentially define me on every quantifiable and tangible level.
whether it be a matter of education, (i'm black, graduated with a minor in mandarin and bio/psych...) health, (lost 110lbs and am on my hercules tip...), finances, (getting a raise soon working in federal/local grants compliance) and my future, (law school in D.C. hopefully).....i've always seen this as something that should be second nature for men...but in these females out here dude...its like they always have shyt that they say they want without grasping what it takes to achieve these dreams...
every girl i've messed with either never graduated from college on some "i just got tired but i'm gonna go back next fall" tip while never failing to hit the club from 11 to 4 in the morning on weekends; they had a kid or two, (nuff said there); were jobless/constantly bouncing from dead end job to another doing "data entry" while talking immense shyt about their coworkers....
all of this while boldly telling me how they get bored easily and need to be entertained...how they want a man to cook and clean and how they really arent interested in careers and are content having kids and staying home doing nothing...shyt one girl i knew was so damn crazy, I would literally be on instagram, like a photo of some random floozy and within 2 minutes i'm getting a text saying, "oh so you're liking ass pics like mendecees now huh?"
its like these girls are not even fathoming how ass backwards their logic is..
in fact my addendum to the above statement is that they are actually bold and arrogant with their entitlement personalities...
yeah as said 50000 times in this thread: besides ***** and ass, i really don't see what they are bringing to any "relationship"
Its sad but barely aby women will enrich your lives
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CrossBones
Louder than words
the funny thing is, many women today view that being wholesome, decent, and having a respectful attitude towards her man is something for the suckers in life. even a few women in committed relationships like to act as if they are free and welcomed to do, or present, anything that they want to about themselves. and they will do anything to stop from being called out on what it is that they really are.
a woman becoming a "traditional housewife" is something thats now being considered constrictive and disgusting for many women. I know you see it. they turn away from the straight and narrow path of being a respectable woman of a household in order to live recklessly and continue to have "fun," regardless of their age or social status. they have to slow down, but they dont like what that signifies about themselves and their self control. plus, it also shows their age. when women act like 30 is the new 20, and 40 is the new 30, then suddenly what you see is a whole lot of immaturity springing up and being excused.
somehow we've all ended up with a couple of generations of women who think that its party time and fukk time with strangers all day and night. and that its okay, as long as its a relative secret to whom theyre seriously dealing with. and it happens, whether she is a girlfirend, wife, mother or not. women whom have lost their overall modesty and desire to really be marriage material. and then have the nerve to still think that they will find "mr right" when theyre ready to cash in their chips. their expectations are fumbled and make little to no sense. dont entertain a woman who considers herself as a progressive woman, yet wants you to do as she says and not question it. youll end up fukked up that way.
the new generation of thirst that men have seems to have spurned this on as well. many pathetic simps are willing to defy their manhood, take left over scraps, cheat, kiss ass of the woman they like, and even effectively try to sabotauge another persons relationship just to get with a woman. these simps not even thinking about all of the red flags and problems that hes inviting into his life by getting with a trifling, immature woman who looks good. her kids, her babys father, her non-wifish habits, her attire, her attitude towards her own position as a mother/wife, her lack of home skills, etc etc.
so how does this play into your life, and what you are doing today?
easy. if she lacks modesty, has a "slutty" past (possibly has kids out of wedlock), loves attention from lots of strangers (men), and pushes her sexuality as her prime asset, then you dont wife her. do you one even better, dont even "date" her. dont take her out like shes your girl. dont cuddle up. dont spend cash on her.
you already know what shes about.
and if youre really about a relationship for yourself, looking to honor a decent woman on your straight and narrow path, you never flirt or even give these foolish women the time of day.
you never take a woman serious if she hasnt taken herself and her life decisions as serious. woman who treat their lives like its an amusement park are the ones who get played, and will always get played. if youre going to ride on them, then make sure you dont take too long.
a woman becoming a "traditional housewife" is something thats now being considered constrictive and disgusting for many women. I know you see it. they turn away from the straight and narrow path of being a respectable woman of a household in order to live recklessly and continue to have "fun," regardless of their age or social status. they have to slow down, but they dont like what that signifies about themselves and their self control. plus, it also shows their age. when women act like 30 is the new 20, and 40 is the new 30, then suddenly what you see is a whole lot of immaturity springing up and being excused.
somehow we've all ended up with a couple of generations of women who think that its party time and fukk time with strangers all day and night. and that its okay, as long as its a relative secret to whom theyre seriously dealing with. and it happens, whether she is a girlfirend, wife, mother or not. women whom have lost their overall modesty and desire to really be marriage material. and then have the nerve to still think that they will find "mr right" when theyre ready to cash in their chips. their expectations are fumbled and make little to no sense. dont entertain a woman who considers herself as a progressive woman, yet wants you to do as she says and not question it. youll end up fukked up that way.
the new generation of thirst that men have seems to have spurned this on as well. many pathetic simps are willing to defy their manhood, take left over scraps, cheat, kiss ass of the woman they like, and even effectively try to sabotauge another persons relationship just to get with a woman. these simps not even thinking about all of the red flags and problems that hes inviting into his life by getting with a trifling, immature woman who looks good. her kids, her babys father, her non-wifish habits, her attire, her attitude towards her own position as a mother/wife, her lack of home skills, etc etc.
so how does this play into your life, and what you are doing today?
easy. if she lacks modesty, has a "slutty" past (possibly has kids out of wedlock), loves attention from lots of strangers (men), and pushes her sexuality as her prime asset, then you dont wife her. do you one even better, dont even "date" her. dont take her out like shes your girl. dont cuddle up. dont spend cash on her.
you already know what shes about.
and if youre really about a relationship for yourself, looking to honor a decent woman on your straight and narrow path, you never flirt or even give these foolish women the time of day.
you never take a woman serious if she hasnt taken herself and her life decisions as serious. woman who treat their lives like its an amusement park are the ones who get played, and will always get played. if youre going to ride on them, then make sure you dont take too long.
Let me take a brief moment and rap to you a story we will call 'the dream'.
Maybe you are sitting in your college classroom or you are at Barnes and Noble. Maybe you are in the grocery store somewhere... but one fateful day, you come across this mysterious woman who gives you a seductive stare. You return the glance and find that who you can't keep your eyes off of her. She is gorgeous! Immediately, you make it up in your mind that you absolutely must have her. It takes a while, but you muster up enough courage to start a conversation with her because you certainly cannot let her pass you by. Expecting rejection or perhaps a cold, disinterested response, you are pleasantly surprised when you receive a greeting that is anything but. Her conversation is, in fact, smooth and intoxicating like aged wine and you become lost in the combination of her beauty and her company. You take down her number to keep in contact with her.
A few months pass and each day is sweeter than the last. How could you have missed her? Where was she your whole life? She is THE undiscovered diamond among the pile of coal, and YOU'VE found her! A huge smile plasters itself on your face. After all of this time, you've discovered the one you've been looking for your whole life. Yes, your heart is blanketed in the joy of having this beauty grace your life. You and your newfound love start spending countless moments together and you hope that it never ends... but alas, unlike fairy tales, happy endings are not guaranteed.
One day, out of the thin blue, something starts to irk you. Something has changed, but you can't quite tell what it is. Your senses pick up on it but your rational mind paves it over with whatever reasons if can muster to preserve your lovely fantasy. She starts to act a little colder and she becomes more distant. She is more argumentative... but you push it off as your mind playing tricks on you and decide to press on.
Then, as sand continues to drip down the hourglass of your life, you notice that the trend of behavior is not reversing! The distance and isolation continues. To your dismay, it starts to become so noticeable that you can no longer ignore it. What was once a day or two away from your company turns into a week. Wanting to preserve your wonderful union, you rush to her and attempt to fix the leak in the ship of your love. You ask her, "Where have you been? Is there something wrong?" In return, she pleasantly, but flatly replies," School has been SO busy. Life has been SO hectic. I'm so sorry that I've been busy." Your perplexed attitude then shifts to one of relief because she has soothed your doubts. Your rational mind accepts her excuses and it quickly paves over reality with your desire to keep the dream alive. A big smile spreads across your face and you mutter to yourself, "Well my baby is just staying on top of her future. I'm proud of her!"
Things are lovely for another couple of weeks and all has returned to normal... You are content for a while... but once again, out of nowhere, the cycle of isolation and distance returns, this time more prominent than ever. You ask her, "What's been going on?" You are again presented with the same excuses of how busy she is and how school has overcome her. You don't press her further, but you aren't quite so quick to believe this time around. Still, not wanting to break this lovely union, you eventually take her at her word and once again fall into a state of contentment.
As the relationship continues, the distance game happens on and off, but you don't want the fantasy to disappear, so you continue to accept her company. You don't want to lose all of the time you've invested with her and you reason to yourself that you will never find a woman so lovely again, so you have to hold on by any means necessary. You WILL find a way to work it out, you think to yourself. Still, no matter how hard you try to reason, there is some strange thorn that keeps pricking you, telling you something isn't right. You wonder how someone that loves you so much could be so busy as not to contact you for weeks. In this age of communication, you wonder how she couldn't take 5 seconds out of her schedule to say, "Hey, how are you doing?"
Eventually, the curiosity in your mind about your 'perfect union' becomes stronger and stronger. It can no longer be satiated by the excuses your mind attempts to feed it. The urge has become so strong that you start to do some investigating. You quietly look on her facebook or instagram and you see your sweet darling in the club in the presence of several different men! You look at the time period and it is during those times she told you she was busy. How could this be? How could such a sweetheart be doing such things? Your diamond of a companion suddenly lose all of her luster as your mind races to the realization that you were but one of many men she was dealing with. In an instant, the dream shatters into an array of sharp fragments, each shard slicing your very soul. You sit in disbelief wondering how reality could be so cruel...
Ahh yes, the common tale of the man who buys a dream, but when dreams and reality do not converge, a broken heart lays in its wake. This, my friend, is a call to avoid crafting fantasies in your mind and paving over reality with them. It is much better to accept an ugly reality than to build on a pretty fantasy. The man who buys a dream from a woman and builds his life around such an ethereal substance will end up facing the harsh reality that eventually, we indeed must all wake up.
Maybe you are sitting in your college classroom or you are at Barnes and Noble. Maybe you are in the grocery store somewhere... but one fateful day, you come across this mysterious woman who gives you a seductive stare. You return the glance and find that who you can't keep your eyes off of her. She is gorgeous! Immediately, you make it up in your mind that you absolutely must have her. It takes a while, but you muster up enough courage to start a conversation with her because you certainly cannot let her pass you by. Expecting rejection or perhaps a cold, disinterested response, you are pleasantly surprised when you receive a greeting that is anything but. Her conversation is, in fact, smooth and intoxicating like aged wine and you become lost in the combination of her beauty and her company. You take down her number to keep in contact with her.
A few months pass and each day is sweeter than the last. How could you have missed her? Where was she your whole life? She is THE undiscovered diamond among the pile of coal, and YOU'VE found her! A huge smile plasters itself on your face. After all of this time, you've discovered the one you've been looking for your whole life. Yes, your heart is blanketed in the joy of having this beauty grace your life. You and your newfound love start spending countless moments together and you hope that it never ends... but alas, unlike fairy tales, happy endings are not guaranteed.
One day, out of the thin blue, something starts to irk you. Something has changed, but you can't quite tell what it is. Your senses pick up on it but your rational mind paves it over with whatever reasons if can muster to preserve your lovely fantasy. She starts to act a little colder and she becomes more distant. She is more argumentative... but you push it off as your mind playing tricks on you and decide to press on.
Then, as sand continues to drip down the hourglass of your life, you notice that the trend of behavior is not reversing! The distance and isolation continues. To your dismay, it starts to become so noticeable that you can no longer ignore it. What was once a day or two away from your company turns into a week. Wanting to preserve your wonderful union, you rush to her and attempt to fix the leak in the ship of your love. You ask her, "Where have you been? Is there something wrong?" In return, she pleasantly, but flatly replies," School has been SO busy. Life has been SO hectic. I'm so sorry that I've been busy." Your perplexed attitude then shifts to one of relief because she has soothed your doubts. Your rational mind accepts her excuses and it quickly paves over reality with your desire to keep the dream alive. A big smile spreads across your face and you mutter to yourself, "Well my baby is just staying on top of her future. I'm proud of her!"
Things are lovely for another couple of weeks and all has returned to normal... You are content for a while... but once again, out of nowhere, the cycle of isolation and distance returns, this time more prominent than ever. You ask her, "What's been going on?" You are again presented with the same excuses of how busy she is and how school has overcome her. You don't press her further, but you aren't quite so quick to believe this time around. Still, not wanting to break this lovely union, you eventually take her at her word and once again fall into a state of contentment.
As the relationship continues, the distance game happens on and off, but you don't want the fantasy to disappear, so you continue to accept her company. You don't want to lose all of the time you've invested with her and you reason to yourself that you will never find a woman so lovely again, so you have to hold on by any means necessary. You WILL find a way to work it out, you think to yourself. Still, no matter how hard you try to reason, there is some strange thorn that keeps pricking you, telling you something isn't right. You wonder how someone that loves you so much could be so busy as not to contact you for weeks. In this age of communication, you wonder how she couldn't take 5 seconds out of her schedule to say, "Hey, how are you doing?"
Eventually, the curiosity in your mind about your 'perfect union' becomes stronger and stronger. It can no longer be satiated by the excuses your mind attempts to feed it. The urge has become so strong that you start to do some investigating. You quietly look on her facebook or instagram and you see your sweet darling in the club in the presence of several different men! You look at the time period and it is during those times she told you she was busy. How could this be? How could such a sweetheart be doing such things? Your diamond of a companion suddenly lose all of her luster as your mind races to the realization that you were but one of many men she was dealing with. In an instant, the dream shatters into an array of sharp fragments, each shard slicing your very soul. You sit in disbelief wondering how reality could be so cruel...
Ahh yes, the common tale of the man who buys a dream, but when dreams and reality do not converge, a broken heart lays in its wake. This, my friend, is a call to avoid crafting fantasies in your mind and paving over reality with them. It is much better to accept an ugly reality than to build on a pretty fantasy. The man who buys a dream from a woman and builds his life around such an ethereal substance will end up facing the harsh reality that eventually, we indeed must all wake up.