Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[LezJepzin]

Guess I'm fukked then, huh?

Never had the luxury of having a serious relationship like 99% of the Coli .

Anyone who's followed my posts in some of the other relationship/related threads know that I never had the best of luck in this department so I'll be damned for some fukking list to trying to make me guilty about it.



Me being in my 30s , the last thing I'm going to do is jump into something like this just because society says I HAVE TO rather than when it's right

 

[kevm3]

@kevm3 @His_Excellence_Reincar Its funny how as soon as you start to believe a chick might be different from the rest she proves you wrong. Like f*cking clockwork all the time man...

3 month rule mane. That first 3 months, they are sweet as sugar and putting on this hidden gem act, but then the real them pops out all the time.

 

[George Gooney]

3 month rule mane. That first 3 months, they are sweet as sugar and putting on this hidden gem act, but then the real them pops out all the time.

It ain't even been that long brother. It's nothing serious for me to get mad about just a little disrespect trend i'm noticing with these women. Not even my girl just a cool chick I talk to on a plutonic level playing mind games... Women need to be more respectful.

 

[George Gooney]

It ain't even been that long brother. It's nothing serious for me to get mad about just a little disrespect trend i'm noticing with these women. Not even my girl just a cool chick I talk to on a plutonic level playing mind games... Women need to be more respectful.

@kevm3 And now she calling my phone I kid you not I think she sensed the bushes coming!!!

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I'm still catching up but I wanted to touch on the "career woman" thing because it's very personal to me. If you choose a career over a relationship, own up to it, live it, and love it. Word to @kevm3 women fukking kill me with the victim shyt. Stop it! If you want to be the first woman in your family to be a doctor that's fine, just own up to it and realize that you may not find your equal. Realize you may be alone, but be happy in the fact that you set the bar higher for the younger girls in your family.

If its mathematically impossible for 23% of all college educated women to find a college educated man then they gotta be realistic. And that's before adding gays, racial preferences, etc.

I dunno brehs, if you told me I had a 23% chance of getting struck by lightning if I walked out the door tonight, I don't think I'd be leaving the house for 24 hours. I don't fukk with statistics like that. Pop culture got every chick thinking she can be Michelle Obama or Claire Huxtable and have the best of both worlds.

 

[kevm3]

What trips me out is how many women ain't really trying to holler at you when you're grinding but they want to act sweet as sugar when you're shining. A sucker will fall for that "oh baby, oh baby" act, but a real dude will see right through it. If you weren't down with me before I got it and was starving, you aren't going to be sitting at the table feasting with me when I get it. Loyalty is for royalty.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Crazy, thinking about the past. All the things I did wrong, all of the things I did right, it just makes me realize that I can easy be the best man in the world, regardless of my relationship status, single, relationship, married, whatever. I'm wanting all my brothers to be successful in whatever they've set their minds on. Shoot for the stars, and remember that although the sky may be cloudy, once you get past the clouds the universe will stare you in the eyes and from there you'll be able to pick your destination, whether it be Mars, Jupiter, or even the sun.

 

[Kartel13]

@kevm3 @His_Excellence_Reincar Its funny how as soon as you start to believe a chick might be different from the rest she proves you wrong. Like f*cking clockwork all the time man...

That shyt just happened to me, breh. You can read the full story a couple of pages back. I can't even front, she got the best of me

 

[Two Stacks]

What trips me out is how many women ain't really trying to holler at you when you're grinding but they want to act sweet as sugar when you're shining. A sucker will fall for that "oh baby, oh baby" act, but a real dude will see right through it. If you weren't down with me before I got it and was starving, you aren't going to be sitting at the table feasting with me when I get it. Loyalty is for royalty.

right...if you not shooting with me in the gym why will i sign you to a contract off the street.

women kill me with that..on some..."you've changed". i didnt change, just my bank account did.

 

[kevm3]

right...if you not shooting with me in the gym why will i sign you to a contract off the street.

women kill me with that..on some..."you've changed". i didnt change, just my bank account did.

One piece of game I really try to give females, and not very many of them pick it up, is that you have to get with a man BEFORE he takes off and grind it out with him together. That way he will really appreciate you for being the woman that was down when no one else was. One of the biggest things a woman can do for a man his support his dream and encourage him.

But these new breed of women don't know anything about that. They don't care about what their man is DOING, but they care about what he is EARNING and it is clear as day to see. If you're not trying to holler at a man until after he makes it, and you've been giving him the cold shoulder all the while, when he gets his, he is likely going to completely ignore you or never take you seriously. Women have that statement of, "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best." A real man embodies the statement of "If you wasn't down when I was grinding, you ain't going to be around when I'm shining." A woman would be wise to get with a man BEFORE he gets it, because he will appreciate you being with him for who he is and not what he has. Men truly appreciate GENUINE women.

 

[kevm3]

What is so lovely, what is so endearing is that ideal dream that many of us have developed and still carry from our youth that is continually shattered by the disappointments of life... and yet no matter how much the horrors of the battlefield scars us, we still cling to it within that recess of our heart that still contains warmth, however tiny it may be. It is that dream that there is that one lovely woman still out there for us, who is clothed in righteousness, who holds us in esteem above all other men and whose loyalty to us is unquestionable... It is that dream of discovering a woman who is truly a jewel worthy of cherishing and who is worthy of taking our last name.

 

[MikelArteta]

@kevm3 @His_Excellence_Reincar Its funny how as soon as you start to believe a chick might be different from the rest she proves you wrong. Like f*cking clockwork all the time man...

No chicks are not like that

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[Jahmal]

Me being in my 30s , the last thing I'm going to do is jump into something like this just because society says I HAVE TO rather than when it's right

Get Married Breh!

 

[iBrowse]

Greetings Coli,

I gotta tell y'all...I've been going through some shyt with a couple of these females lately and I found this thread about a month ago; in which case its really changed my whole perspective on where my life should be going and how brainwashed I've become to believe that my happiness really depended on some girl I'm one of the most skeptical dudes around so when I read in this thread how dudes started getting attention from these females when they weren't a priority, I was like But it really does occur tho...Once I started cold cutting these leeching girls on top of demanding respect from myself and others, girls and people alike have been picking up on the new me; some subtly and others just outright say how I'm "acting different"

For 2013 its more traveling, less procrastination on preparing for the LSAT, gotta get my mandarin back up to speed, (got a minor in it), keep my fitness going strong, maintain my hobbies and interests without a care in the world about what others think and save $$$

The god Patrice O'Neal said that his woman was his 4th priority in life now I know why...

I've literally started from the first page as a lurker and I'm only now around pg 262...on some

Originally, I was gonna wait till I got to the end to create an account, but at the rate kevm3, reincar, sharp, winb, liquid, nudie and others have been dropping these gems; its pointless lol


Please keep the hits coming...this thread is good eats

 

[sixsixtwo]

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