Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Question I need consensus on fellas
Let's say you've started dating somebody who has children. Normally, when you call them, they pick up and are always available to talk. However, whenever they are with the other parent of their children, they will pick up the phone, but tell you that they are unable to talk right now and will call you back later. They normally call you back once the other parent is no longer around. Should you be offended by this, is this showing respect for the other parent, or is it something that shouldn't even be given thought to? Does it depend on how long into the relationship she does it?
Let's say you've started dating somebody who has children. Normally, when you call them, they pick up and are always available to talk. However, whenever they are with the other parent of their children, they will pick up the phone, but tell you that they are unable to talk right now and will call you back later. They normally call you back once the other parent is no longer around. Should you be offended by this, is this showing respect for the other parent, or is it something that shouldn't even be given thought to? Does it depend on how long into the relationship she does it?
i'm trying to get to where my M.O. is basically
-never make a request from someone if you're not ready for them to tell you no.
-never count on an action or reaction from someone.
-any response that's not affirmative or that is ambiguous is assumed to be negative.
-when wondering how someone feels about me, in the absence of clear information, always assume they are indifferent.
-never make a request from someone if you're not ready for them to tell you no.
-never count on an action or reaction from someone.
-any response that's not affirmative or that is ambiguous is assumed to be negative.
-when wondering how someone feels about me, in the absence of clear information, always assume they are indifferent.
people might disagree but i think she's showing respect to the dude and to you at the same time. She's in a tough spot. but that's one of the reasons why dating a single mom is difficult. but yeah, i wouldn't necessarily be pissed at her, just at the situation. I think she's doing the right thing. But just because she's doing the right thing doesn't mean you should stay in the situation if it makes you unhappy which is also a legitimate concern (matter of fact, your happiness should be your most important concern).
Xtraz2
Superstar
Nah I'm not on they mind like that, but everything duznt have to be reciprocated in life
these ain't future wifeys so I don't care, sometimes you have to initiate, I'm just sendin a text, like ol boy said I'm not buying them a gift or none of that, if they ignore my text it's no loss to me, I'm going to keep it pushin regardless, it won't affect me in any way
This is why I can't date a single mom, you get jealous over situations like this
On my side aorry it seems like one of those holding out we will be a family one day single mom
Wont mention any guy she's dating, quiet when bby dad is around
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CrossBones
Louder than words
I see no reason why shes unable talk for a little bit. youre the new man in her life. she has to acknowledge that. pushing you off because her baby's father is there seems unreasonable to me. now we dont have to be lovey duvey all on the phone, and talk forever, but she can show me the respect of being her man and give me some time if I called her. shes not so much busy as she is pretending youre not really there. like Im an unspoken of factor in her life. for the woman and I, its not supposed to about how he feels. they arent together anymore. so it shouldnt be any funny games going on. naw, Im not with that.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
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Anyways I have chill session with a broad tomorrow
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How'd this come to be breh?
I agree with this
If I were ever date a single mom it would only be the types who only contacts the baby dad in regards to the child
Michael is sick
Michael got an a
We're having Michaels bday party on saturday
Non of this I'm busy because Michaels dad is here?
You let this slide next time Michaels dad will be staying the nite. I
Etc
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International Playa
Playa with a Passport
that's a good point though. how come she's spending so much time with the father?
Scustin Trillberlake
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