Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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It's never a good idea to tell people stuff you don't have to, that's a lesson I've had to learn the hard way. Keep your business to yourself because people won't respect you if you keep telling them everything. Usually, they'll throw it all back in your face of you ever have a falling out because you've given them plenty of ammunition. Also, if they don't tell you half the things about themselves, then you have no reason to tell them anything. A sympathetic ear will only last so long.

When I have shytty day, 9 times out of 10 I won't say a word about it even if the other person knows something's up.

Trill shyt, I feel you breh. I built up this intrinsic ability to be explicitly honest in mostly all situations. I think I've grown too comfortable and carefree in certain regards, and as much as I don't like maintaining an "air of mystery" on purpose, it's probably something I should keep doing, even after I've broken through barriers in partnerships/relationships.

I'll share safe, surface level stuff initially, but I'm going to keep the darker, more intricate secrets of mine hidden from now on. There's no true benefit to sharing that stuff. If a woman already trusts me, and still finds me to be mysterious, there's no point in trying to butcher that situation, it just brings me unnecessary stress. I can anticipate the bad vibes, and I can anticipate myself being regretful over sharing certain things, and yet I'll still do it :snoop:

I think I subconsciously enjoy pain.
 

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Check this, we can sit back and we can try to figure out what a woman is going to do next-- a fruitless endeavor, or we can focus our mental energies into something that will truly use our talents towards a fruitful endeavor and that will benefit our future generations. It's been great refocusing my mind on improving my mindset and continuing work on this book.
 

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Trill shyt, I feel you breh. I built up this intrinsic ability to be explicitly honest in mostly all situations. I think I've grown too comfortable and carefree in certain regards, and as much as I don't like maintaining an "air of mystery" on purpose, it's probably something I should keep doing, even after I've broken through barriers in partnerships/relationships.

I'll share safe, surface level stuff initially, but I'm going to keep the darker, more intricate secrets of mine hidden from now on. There's no true benefit to sharing that stuff. If a woman already trusts me, and still finds me to be mysterious, there's no point in trying to butcher that situation, it just brings me unnecessary stress. I can anticipate the bad vibes, and I can anticipate myself being regretful over sharing certain things, and yet I'll still do it :snoop:

I think I subconsciously enjoy pain.

Notice females they go on n on about the day.

I pick up my sister from work sometimes and she goes on about her day I know her supervisors name, managers name, etc.

I tell no one anything

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It's weird, do yaw ever feel like after all the bullshyt is said and done, you want to look at women, but you feel somewhat comfortable to sit back and be by yourself?

Like for example, I see cute girls, I see ugly girls, I dress well, but for the most part I stay to myself as I feel no urgency to go out and "hunt" or approach girls. My mind state is more of like ok cool if we coincidentally spark up a convo then cool, but I'm not out and about in a rush to get numbers, I may approach one that I think is pretty, but again my goal isn't to search for one, if she stumbles into my life cool, but from here on out I'd like to not go out of my way to find p*ssy.

I think what I'm trying to say is, it's okay to love women, but love your first and search for women like you search for friends.

That's the catch, you don't search for friends, people naturally gravitate toward you whether it be class or friend circles and you can build relationships from there.
 

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Btw someone said earlier how a random woman smiled at them and they hit them with the blank stare. I did that same shyt today, instead of thinking "oh she's smiling at me!" I thought "bytch, I don't know you"
 

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Btw someone said earlier how a random woman smiled at them and they hit them with the blank stare. I did that same shyt today, instead of thinking "oh she's smiling at me!" I thought "bytch, I don't know you"

Its crazy...

I catch broads looking at me and they turn their heads with the quickness...

I just b walking on some regular shyt
 

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Btw someone said earlier how a random woman smiled at them and they hit them with the blank stare. I did that same shyt today, instead of thinking "oh she's smiling at me!" I thought "bytch, I don't know you"

I never smile back.

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Its crazy...

I catch broads looking at me and they turn their heads with the quickness...

I just b walking on some regular shyt
Yeah I do too, then I look and I'm like was that broad looking at me, but they'll act like it never happened. It's puzzling huh. I need to just stop caring, a glare isn't going to benefit her or you.
I never smile back.

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Why not? And why do they even do it in the first place.
 

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Yeah I do too, then I look and I'm like was that broad looking at me, but they'll act like it never happened. It's puzzling huh. I need to just stop caring, a glare isn't going to benefit her or you.

Why not? And why do they even do it in the first place.

Because women aren't a priority to me, attention is the main thing that thrives a female take it away and they get upset that azzhole he's probably gay.

I never said a glare it's just non chalant the same face I have always on me.

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Because women aren't a priority to me, attention is the main thing that thrives a female take it away and they get upset that azzhole he's probably gay.

I never said a glare it's just non chalant the same face I have always on me.

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Makes sense, but realistically do you think a woman really thrives off a random smile that is returned to her after she sent one first?

No, I was talking to 360 about the glare. But I know what it means. Should never change faces unless there's interaction imo
 

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Makes sense, but realistically do you think a woman really thrives off a random smile that is returned to her after she sent one first?

No, I was talking to 360 about the glare. But I know what it means. Should never change faces unless there's interaction imo

yeah they do thrive off a smile it gives them attention oh this guy thinks im hot enough to smile at me.
 
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