I wanted to write about how slick some of these girls think they are. note for all the young guys, as soon as a female starts talking about money or something that she has to pay, and starts blasting off figures and exact costs ... exit. just play like you didnt hear a thing, and keep it pushin
they throw their little game, their woe is me shyt, and come off like
earlier this week I heard from an ex, and I wrote about her a few months back. matter of fact, shes the one that sent me that bs little new years card not too long ago. I saw exactly what she was trying. saw through that little game of waiting for the holidays to holla at me. shes the one who was "busy" after a while and ran to be with her baby father on the low, until he got locked for 15 years. then she came back trying to holla at me. the fukk outta here with that
so anyways, she writes an EMAIL (wtf). about how she was thinking of me and wanted to call me. says she missed me and blah blah blah. then she gets into about how her car or something, I forgot, needs fixing. its a problem because "its $200 UGH!." but anyways as SOON as I hear that, Im out. I say good luck with that. I gotta go.
no time for cash talk with any female or anything since 1) she aint my girl and 2) fix your own shyt. show me you can handle responsibility and then maybe I can take you seriously.
These women don't want to hear about your investing knowledge. They just merely want to see the ripe fruits of it, aka you got money off of it. Same with all else you do. When you're out there, it's kind of like you're putting on a magic show. You SHOW the woman the fruits of your mentality, but you never explain to her how it's done. What makes a magic show so interesting si that people don't know how in the world the trick was done, but the end result is so spectacular. If you start giving a woman all your direct wisdom and knowledge, she will soak it up like a sponge and take it to the next man after she done dried you out.
I know that money managment is a big issue with determining a womans decision making ability. her choices with kids and men too, of course, but money speaks on a big level as well. without that, you wont eat. so what is she doing with her money? if a woman cant maintain her lifestyle, and always needs some assistance, that shows how flighty and come and go she really is and will be. she will tap one well, and the next, and the next, and so on and so forth.
men, dont fukk with broke chicks and chicks always talking about her "bills." (like no one else got them.)
Don't tell a woman how to 'get it.' Tell her how she can get it for you. Big difference there. When you're breaking it down to a woman, tell her about the gameplan you have for her... never tell her the intricacies and principles behind YOUR gameplan. In other words, stop giving these women the knowledge of what you do and how you do it as a boss, but give her the knowledge she needs to know as someone who works under you. The gameplan you have for yourself and the gameplan you have for her will be completely different.
thats real pimpin there. its boss level thinking. it comes down to this, if youre not leading your girl, then someone else is or will be. if she aint REALLY trying to make it happen with you, then shes trying somewhere else. she goes to where she is captivated. like a child.
and some dont even have the outside direction so they go nowhere
without the right guidance being given, expect her to be up and down with you, and all around the place.
There always has to be significant portions of what you're doing that she remains unaware of and there has to be knowledge with you that she can get that she can't get anywhere else. Once the mystery of what you're doing is gone, the thrill is gone. It started at the Garden of Eden with the forbidden fruit. Eve could have had ALL the other fruit except the one that was off-limits to her. Guess which one she went for.
yes. thats why having the commanding position is so important. if you dont show that you are a boss, that you are THE boss, then she cant take your word as gospel. that higher rank that you have, needs to be something that is forbidden from her. she can never get it. she chases it, or more like admires it, but needs to resoundingly concede to it. so a man needs to show that he knows whats best. its important for a man to display that within himself, so that way she sees youre real with yours. so men, maintain your own bills and lifestyle first, then see if a woman can respect it and get on your level.
I wouldnt reccommend only geting by, then finding someone else who is half assed with their shyt. you both are likely to get the same results because no one is showing and proving.
Women don't want the negro that gives up his knowledge easily, his time easily, etc. She always wants that man that she thinks has something she doesn't have and she can't easily obtain.
there cant be two chiefs. shyt, there cant even be two chefs. too many head cooks and the recipe goes bad. and from that, what people need to realize is, theres nothing wrong with having a good soldier in the mix. its a valuable and worthy position. its the only way things get done to their fullest and highest potential.
women need to hold on to their roles as the woman, and hold that down for their man. both sides need to respect what they do and put in. after all, its the only way everyone can play to their strengths and get the most out of it, in a long term sense.
Might be time for a title change
it doesnt stop with these shameless females. and through that shyt it becomes this game where men bust their ass to acquire more and more material things, just so they can have women who will see it, and want that from them. it becomes the blind leading the blind. the worst part is that its all material goods, and a chase for things that are just that, things. items dont talk, they dont plan, and they dont have a mind. on top of that, many things depreciate, so theyre only nice for a limited time. expensive fancy ass clothes and cars dont afford you a good future. but if that is what it takes to get their ears up and their eyes opened, it says volumes about their character.
in the wings, thirsty and wallet opened. its like a parasite host who needs an active participant, and these lame men continue to walk in the trap and follow her. 
