Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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most lesbians are anne heche types, they become lesbians due to their hatred of men or constantly getting played by them.
I actually had a lesbian friend, she was heterosexual all the times i knew her, getting played and dogged out by men she became a lesbian lol
I actually had a lesbian friend, she was heterosexual all the times i knew her, getting played and dogged out by men she became a lesbian lol
MBwithadream
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that usually does it.
MBwithadream
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I thinking about sendin this classmate/friend a letter tell her about my crushin feeling for her.
I want to make it as unsimpy as possible so how I could I do that?
T-K-G
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you sending a letter detailing strong emotions and you dont even know if she's feeling you yet? you begging to get put in that friendzone breh
you gotta atleast have some alone time with her so you can figure out if she's even remotely interested in you first before you go full force like that
Sending a letter already a simp move.
Never tell a female your emotions in text, email, or any from of written communication, Where they can laugh about it with their friends.
Just go ask her out verbally
Sent from royalty using Tapatalk breh
Yeah I know someone like this, its like she just gave up to seek love from the same sex since she thought it would be easier to understand.
She is still unhappy
definitely don't write it in no letter form, and if you are going to tell a woman you're feeling her, don't do it in some overly elaborate fashion where you are kissing her butt.
If you are too shy to do it in real life, you can do the thing in text by being simple and real: "I'mma be real with you, I'm digging you" If she is feeling you, she will hit you back and say oh I been feeling you too. Then you go from there. But never, ever, ever come off with some cornball, expressing each and every emotion type stuff like girl I've been watching you for a long time and I feel my heart is ready to explode with feelings for you.
If you are too shy to do it in real life, you can do the thing in text by being simple and real: "I'mma be real with you, I'm digging you" If she is feeling you, she will hit you back and say oh I been feeling you too. Then you go from there. But never, ever, ever come off with some cornball, expressing each and every emotion type stuff like girl I've been watching you for a long time and I feel my heart is ready to explode with feelings for you.
When dealing with women, you really have to learn to KEEP IT SIMPLE and keep your emotions in check. If there's one thing I can get into your head, it's that the average woman is NOT your philosophy partner or your professor. Trying to impress a woman with these big ol' words and ultra deep concepts will do nothing but drive her away unless she is just into that. I have yet to see a female just have a poster of Einstein on her wall.
What you want to do when dealing with a woman is to express your interest, not your emotions. Keep your emotions under control and never kiss her butt.
Expressing your interest
"I'm digging your style"
Expressing your emotion
"Girl I am head over heels for you, you have me feeelin sooo warm inside."
You might sit there really enjoying babygirl's company, so you want to express it, always come from a position of want, not need. When you tell a woman you 'need' her, you start coming off as desperate.
Want
"i want to kick it with you tonight"
Need
"Ma, I really need you tonight"
If babygirl decides to 'show your texts', there's nothing she can really show that will get you clowned. What am I hinting at? There are ways to express yourself that will make you come off as a champ or a chump. Obviously, you shouldn't say it exactly how I'm saying it, but do it in your own personalized manner.
Now, don't ever allow yourself nor let her get the notion that you are 'wide open' for her or else she will get the impression that she is of more value than you and peel off. If you want to know one thing about women, it's that they are always looking for a man they can look up to. Once they can see eye to eye with you figuratively speaking or look down on you, it's over. She's gone. She will either be playing around with you, disrespecting you or she will flat out go to another man.
If you play it soft and emotional, you will get ms. sweet from a woman, aka the woman being pleasant, telling you how great and sweet you are, ooohing and awwwwing you, but for some odd reason, no matter how many compliments you get from her, her actions don't really match up. She often comes up busy when you want to do something with her... she might start making slick little remarks to you or she doesn't value your time. You've fallen into that sweet boy role. You DO NOT want to be in this category. I will say 8 times out of 10 if you are here, she will definitely be dealing with another man on the side who she is spending time with when she is too 'busy' to chill with you. She's giving him the treatment you wish you had.
How you come in dealing with a woman is exactly how you will be treated in that relationship. You come in as a sweet boy and she will honey bunch and sweetie pie you into a doggone sucker role. Women are natural actors, and it's so funny seeing two sides of a woman coming out depending on how she is feeling. She can play the sweet proper role, but then you give her the right feeling and a whole different presentation comes out. A lot of times when a woman is hitting you with that sweetie-pie personality, she's going to be playing you.
What you want to do when dealing with a woman is to express your interest, not your emotions. Keep your emotions under control and never kiss her butt.
Expressing your interest
"I'm digging your style"
Expressing your emotion
"Girl I am head over heels for you, you have me feeelin sooo warm inside."
You might sit there really enjoying babygirl's company, so you want to express it, always come from a position of want, not need. When you tell a woman you 'need' her, you start coming off as desperate.
Want
"i want to kick it with you tonight"
Need
"Ma, I really need you tonight"
If babygirl decides to 'show your texts', there's nothing she can really show that will get you clowned. What am I hinting at? There are ways to express yourself that will make you come off as a champ or a chump. Obviously, you shouldn't say it exactly how I'm saying it, but do it in your own personalized manner.
Now, don't ever allow yourself nor let her get the notion that you are 'wide open' for her or else she will get the impression that she is of more value than you and peel off. If you want to know one thing about women, it's that they are always looking for a man they can look up to. Once they can see eye to eye with you figuratively speaking or look down on you, it's over. She's gone. She will either be playing around with you, disrespecting you or she will flat out go to another man.
If you play it soft and emotional, you will get ms. sweet from a woman, aka the woman being pleasant, telling you how great and sweet you are, ooohing and awwwwing you, but for some odd reason, no matter how many compliments you get from her, her actions don't really match up. She often comes up busy when you want to do something with her... she might start making slick little remarks to you or she doesn't value your time. You've fallen into that sweet boy role. You DO NOT want to be in this category. I will say 8 times out of 10 if you are here, she will definitely be dealing with another man on the side who she is spending time with when she is too 'busy' to chill with you. She's giving him the treatment you wish you had.
How you come in dealing with a woman is exactly how you will be treated in that relationship. You come in as a sweet boy and she will honey bunch and sweetie pie you into a doggone sucker role. Women are natural actors, and it's so funny seeing two sides of a woman coming out depending on how she is feeling. She can play the sweet proper role, but then you give her the right feeling and a whole different presentation comes out. A lot of times when a woman is hitting you with that sweetie-pie personality, she's going to be playing you.
Oh shyt typo I meant weak
I'm naturally introverted but that isn't the main reason.......I have no issue if its another guy like that as long as its not attention whoring....
But there is something about when women act like that seems really really off
like they are forcing that shyt......it NEVER seems natural and its annoying as hell....go to a random show by a female comedian and see how annoyed u get....
I don't know how to put it in words but the whole thing is just off when females go overboard with being vulgar
Anyone who especially lives in NY knows what I am talking about......those are the type of ratchet women who tell people to "suck my dikk" Aren't you a woman?
Broads like Rihanna have taught me that alot of times its the women bragging about how they the "baddest bytch" end up turning into wimps when they try to act tough....
Hell the same girl I just told all of you about......at some point while i was in the study room she brought up to her friend that she thinks it is Rihanna that caused Chris Brown to be like that and probably got in his face....
I definitely will try and stay away from them but it seriously seems that it is alot of my fellow Jamaicans(females) who are acting this way.......I think mothers raising daughters down there really need to stop that annoying ass cycle.....
cause they go overboard with the agression @The HONORABLE SKJ spoke about this in another thread
Its making me lose hope of ever finding a reserved Jamaican woman who is not acting like either a ratchet or Island Queen......
My favrite one is when they get into the whole ___MY MAMA!!! MY MAMA told me to stand up for yourself!!!! Yelling all in CAPS like their Eminem recording in a studio or something...
You can stand up for yourself and be independent without being vulgar and still being a woman...
i'm going to ADDRESS this very soon in a very revealing thread about HOW TODAY'S CARRIBEAN "QUEEN" no longer EXISTS...
because of THEY ARE "AMERICANIZED" due to globalisim and pop culture spreading via social networks and the internet
I know this because i come from a family of West Indian aunts and mothers...
and THEY are NOTHING like these ratchet a$$ yankee influenced west indians today......
but that's all im a say for now.....i will be posting soon on this EPIDEMIC
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Emperor Sol
Knowledge and Wisdom
Best advice you can get:
Don't try to communicate with devils. Some women hate me because I flat out ignore their advances because I know they aren't right in the head. I know that they're living lifestyles of drugs, alcohol, tanning and harlotry and I'm much better off without that in my life. Don't even let these broads think you're giving them any air play.
Communication starts with you and ends with you. Don't communicate with these heauxs to begin with.
Don't try to communicate with devils. Some women hate me because I flat out ignore their advances because I know they aren't right in the head. I know that they're living lifestyles of drugs, alcohol, tanning and harlotry and I'm much better off without that in my life. Don't even let these broads think you're giving them any air play.
Communication starts with you and ends with you. Don't communicate with these heauxs to begin with.
Best advice you can get:
Don't try to communicate with devils. Some women hate me because I flat out ignore their advances because I know they aren't right in the head. I know that they're living lifestyles of drugs, alcohol, tanning and harlotry and I'm much better off without that in my life. Don't even let these broads think you're giving them any air play.
Communication starts with you and ends with you. Don't communicate with these heauxs to begin with.
this is true
i agree being in debt sucks, im in debt at the moment, but you can die any day so i still plan on traveling somewhat, but im clearing this ish up pronto, a man out of debt cant be held down.
btw i've been doing this for like two years - i never text females first, keep all texts under 7 words if possible and always end asking a question. keep the power.