Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I missed out on this pregnancy talk, but on the real, thats a heavy leash to put upon yourself. I dont want no chick attached to me legally if I can help it. and if I do, then she better be all about improving US, not just herself. even the smartest, nicest chick will start to hate you when the checks dont come in, she cant find a man, or if she wants you to do this and that for her. being old and a single parent can have a woman bitter. and on top of that, she sees you as obligated to do shyt for her. she wont even have to be your girl. that kid is her leverage against you, and it could build up into resentment if youre not 100 on point and on great terms with her. and that goes for the next 18 years that you will have to be on good terms with her.
 

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I feel when there is a discrepancy, or a problem that someone has with another person, the best approach might be to ignore it. if this problem or disagreement continues and it can cause harm, then it should be looked into and properly understood. so the correct thing to do at that time would be to ask the other person about it. the difference between asking and accusing someone about something is big, and that is a common mistake that not a lot of people understand. Im all for building, so the nonsense that is around us, and occassionally invades this thread in particular needs to be either ignored or understood. from that, the reasonable minded can then find when its time to move on from the dispute.

and when theres insults, I think thats the time when everyone needs to pause for a second and remember what we in here for. to help each other out and gain knowledge. not to be about the noise.
This.

Also I must mention, men that argue with other men<<<<

Had someone yesterday tell me about how so and so don't get along and how they were gonna fight. And it's like man if you really wanna be men about it, just ignore each other. Too many guys get caught up in this arguing temper tantrum shyt. That's women's business, men are the logical ones. What exactly is this thread for? To get us to think, and not be irrational and to be aware of choices that we choose. And remember there may be 1 person who dislikes you, but I'm sure there's another that does like you so instead of wasting negative energy into someone who does nothing for you, why don't you instead invest positive energy into someone who appreciates you.
 

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very few women out here are legit lesbians


off top 3 of my top 5 smashes of all time were "lesbians" and that actually made it easier for me because there was no competition


also the fact that nikkas didn't get at them resulted in them not knowing how to play the annoying games that most women play so the straightforward approach was mad easy


and no, i didn't fukk with them bulldyke nikka lookin bytches :whoa:


all of em had that natural beauty, no make up needed :wow:
 
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very few women out here are legit lesbians


off top 3 of my top 5 smashes of all time were "lesbians" and that actually made it easier for me because there was no competition


also the fact that nikkas didn't get at them resulted in them not knowing how to play the annoying games that most women play so the straightforward approach was mad easy


and no, i didn't fukk with them bulldyke nikka lookin bytches :whoa:


all of em had that natural beauty, no make up needed :wow:
underrated post. i will say this a lot of the things said in this thread would not really apply to a lesbian because they dont really want a man to lead them they want to have more of a equal friendship type of relationship. its for that reason why you couldnt wife one, but theyre cool people tho. you need to be more on some pretty boy shyt and not try to hard with them too in my opinion. the dynamics are more like big brother, little sister than father and daughter. a lot of them have father issues thats why

that statement about that natural beauty too that they have :wow:
 

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underrated post. i will say this a lot of the things said in this thread would not really apply to a lesbian because they dont really want a man to lead them they want to have more of a equal friendship type of relationship. its for that reason why you couldnt wife one, but theyre cool people tho. you need to be more on some pretty boy shyt and not try to hard with them too in my opinion. the dynamics are more like big brother, little sister than father and daughter. a lot of them have father issues thats why

that statement about that natural beauty too that they have :wow:

breh i've had waaaay better relationships with "lesbians" or girls that people think are lesbians for his very reason

i dont even be on no pretty boy shyt it's just dope that i can talk to them the same way i would talk to my nikkas and they can actually keep up with me and not say some dumb "girl" shyt


your father issues statement is hit or miss tho cuz 2 of em are really tight with their dads and mothers so idk.

your brother x sister statement is on point :salute:



but yea the natural beauty factor is underrated :ohlawd: they can shyt on "bad bytches" in regular sweatpants and some chuck taylors like it's nothin


:whew: i gotta calm down
 
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but yea the natural beauty factor is underrated :ohlawd: they can shyt on "bad bytches" in regular sweatpants and some chuck taylors like it's nothin


:whew: i gotta calm down

very much so



but yeah ive contemplated before if lesbians were really the last girls out there as far as being real women that you could get with and do something real with for a lot of the same reasons you stated. but you would have to get with one that would be down to die for you. anything less wouldnt work out in the long run, in my opinion. even then...
 

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@TRUEST even weeks later after the last story your still in this idiotic mindstate? Before it was not being worried about fukking a woman raw because she can't get pregnant?(Was it you who gave that story) .......One of the many people in 2013 that still think you have to cum inside a woman in order to get her pregnant and if you just have sex raw without cumming she wont get pregnant..........


So now you have evolved from that to saying you don't mind busting in a woman because her family is well off? Do you hear this nonsense you are speaking? What can we do to EVER WAKE YOU UP to realize how absurd and idiotic this whole thing sounds......


listen, there's a reason i kept my posts in this thread to a minimum. a lot of you, and when i say lot, i mean 99% of everyone in this thread can talk all the sh1t they wanna talk about do this and do that. but the reality is, when you n1ggas find urselves in certain situations you'd do exactly like me and even worse.

and i should caution you to watch your usage of the word "idiotic" when talking to me. because i'm pretty sure you know not to use it.

now, the joys of having sex is being able to bust a joyful nut. what is a joyful nut? a joyful nut is busting in a chick that u know, if she were to get pregnant, she wouldn't be a pain on your life considering she's well off, educated, and isn't an hoodrat. the fact is, most of the chicks you're going to meet are NOT gonna fall under this criteria...which is evident clearly by the number of pages this thread has garnered. if you're a grown man and you haven't felt that joy of busting in a chick, its ok, u can tell us. when that time does arrive for you, listen to my words and listen to them carefully:

if no one has told u, let me be the first to tell you. if you're gonna fucck any chick you're not married to, u better make sure its a chick u dont mind being stuck with for the next 18 years. that is rule number 1. there are many many rules to the game. hold that one dear to heart. a chick who is educated, comes from a rich family is less likely to run u dry than a chick u grab off the street. this isn't my opinion. this is a fact. u knock up sheniqua and see how miserable your life gets. oh wait, u'll never knock up any chick because ur just sooo damn careful. ha.i get it.

now, judging from the way your post was worded, i get the strong feeling you have a problem with jealousy. when you hear me talk of busting raw in a chick, and fuccking another big ass chick that had a man, take a few moments to reflect on the feelings that went through you. if you're confused about the meaning of those feelings, scan the points below to help yourself arrive at a conclusion as to what they mean, or what they say about you:

There are three types of people in this world.

1. Those who hear the exciting escapades of others and wish to God they can live that life.
2. Those who hear the exciting escapades of others and immediately begin to develop hatred and deep feelings of resentment. these are the people who say to themselves "why does he get all the girls? why is he so rich, fccuk him, i hate him".
3. Those who just dont care because they're living that life as well.

i ask you, which group do you think you fall under? do you feel a righteous anger erupt in you when u hear of another man tell a story of how he raw dogged a chick with a big ass? something u wished u could do?

and by the way, the chicks that i busted in raw in, how do u know i didn't have them checked? u dont.
 
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very much so



but yeah ive contemplated before if lesbians were really the last girls out there as far as being real women that you could get with and do something real with for a lot of the same reasons you stated. but you would have to get with one that would be down to die for you. anything less wouldnt work out in the long run, in my opinion. even then...

:salute: all of this is very true and tbh i still think like this.

and yea im extremely tight with all the ones im talking about mostly because of that brother sister dynamic you stated.


and even when it doesn't work out they're level-minded enough to be able to go back to being friends without any awkwardness or ill feelinngs



i cant even front i actively look for em and that has most of my nikkas like :dwillhuh: because i never broke it down to them how it really is


i keep em all to myself :blessed::blessed::blessed:
 

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listen, there's a reason i kept my posts in this thread to a minimum. a lot of you, and when i say lot, i mean 99% of everyone in this thread can talk all the sh1t they wanna talk about do this and do that. but the reality is, when you n1ggas find urselves in certain situations you'd do exactly like me and even worse.

and i should caution you to watch your usage of the word "idiotic" when talking to me. because i'm pretty sure you know not to use it.

now, the joys of having sex is being able to bust a joyful nut. what is a joyful nut? a joyful nut is busting in a chick that u know, if she were to get pregnant, she wouldn't be a pain on your life considering she's well off, educated, and isn't an hoodrat. the fact is, most of the chicks you're going to meet are NOT gonna fall under this criteria...which is evident clearly by the number of pages this thread has garnered. if you're a grown man and you haven't felt that joy of busting in a chick, its ok, u can tell us. when that time does arrive for you, listen to my words and listen to them carefully:

if no one has told u, let me be the first to tell you. if you're gonna fucck any chick you're not married to, u better make sure its a chick u dont mind being stuck with for the next 18 years. that is rule number 1. there are many many rules to the game. hold that one dear to heart. a chick who is educated, comes from a rich family is less likely to run u dry than a chick u grab off the street. this isn't my opinion. this is a fact. u knock up sheniqua and see how miserable your life gets. oh wait, u'll never knock up any chick because ur just sooo damn careful. ha.i get it.

now, judging from the way your post was worded, i get the strong feeling you have a problem with jealousy. when you hear me talk of busting raw in a chick, and fuccking another big ass chick that had a man, take a few moments to reflect on the feelings that went through you. if you're confused about the meaning of those feelings, scan the points below to help yourself arrive at a conclusion as to what they mean, or what they say about you:

There are three types of people in this world.

1. Those who hear the exciting escapades of others and wish to God they can live that life.
2. Those who hear the exciting escapades of others and immediately begin to develop hatred and deep feelings of resentment. these are the people who say to themselves "why does he get all the girls? why is he so rich, fccuk him, i hate him".
3. Those who just dont care because they're living that life as well.

i ask you, which group do you think you fall under? do you feel a righteous anger erupt in you when u hear of another man tell a story of how he raw dogged a chick with a big ass? something u wished u could do?

and by the way, the chicks that i busted in raw in, how do u know i didn't have them checked? u dont.

Breh, you're playing with fire but that's all imma say. :whoa:
 

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listen, there's a reason i kept my posts in this thread to a minimum. a lot of you, and when i say lot, i mean 99% of everyone in this thread can talk all the sh1t they wanna talk about do this and do that. but the reality is, when you n1ggas find urselves in certain situations you'd do exactly like me and even worse.

and i should caution you to watch your usage of the word "idiotic" when talking to me. because i'm pretty sure you know not to use it.

now, the joys of having sex is being able to bust a joyful nut. what is a joyful nut? a joyful nut is busting in a chick that u know, if she were to get pregnant, she wouldn't be a pain on your life considering she's well off, educated, and isn't an hoodrat. the fact is, most of the chicks you're going to meet are NOT gonna fall under this criteria...which is evident clearly by the number of pages this thread has garnered. if you're a grown man and you haven't felt that joy of busting in a chick, its ok, u can tell us. when that time does arrive for you, listen to my words and listen to them carefully:

if no one has told u, let me be the first to tell you. if you're gonna fucck any chick you're not married to, u better make sure its a chick u dont mind being stuck with for the next 18 years. that is rule number 1. there are many many rules to the game. hold that one dear to heart. a chick who is educated, comes from a rich family is less likely to run u dry than a chick u grab off the street. this isn't my opinion. this is a fact. u knock up sheniqua and see how miserable your life gets. oh wait, u'll never knock up any chick because ur just sooo damn careful. ha.i get it.

now, judging from the way your post was worded, i get the strong feeling you have a problem with jealousy. when you hear me talk of busting raw in a chick, and fuccking another big ass chick that had a man, take a few moments to reflect on the feelings that went through you. if you're confused about the meaning of those feelings, scan the points below to help yourself arrive at a conclusion as to what they mean, or what they say about you:

There are three types of people in this world.

1. Those who hear the exciting escapades of others and wish to God they can live that life.
2. Those who hear the exciting escapades of others and immediately begin to develop hatred and deep feelings of resentment. these are the people who say to themselves "why does he get all the girls? why is he so rich, fccuk him, i hate him".
3. Those who just dont care because they're living that life as well.

i ask you, which group do you think you fall under? do you feel a righteous anger erupt in you when u hear of another man tell a story of how he raw dogged a chick with a big ass? something u wished u could do?

and by the way, the chicks that i busted in raw in, how do u know i didn't have them checked? u dont.
:comeon:

I was outside most of my teenage years and early to mid twenties in the "greatest" city in the world. That lifestyle gets old after a while...you are clearly not there yet.
 

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:comeon:

I was outside most of my teenage years and early to mid twenties in the "greatest" city in the world. That lifestyle gets old after a while...you are clearly not there yet.

no, you're not there yet. dont worry about where im at. worry about where you're at in ur own life.
 

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listen, there's a reason i kept my posts in this thread to a minimum. a lot of you, and when i say lot, i mean 99% of everyone in this thread can talk all the sh1t they wanna talk about do this and do that. but the reality is, when you n1ggas find urselves in certain situations you'd do exactly like me and even worse.

and i should caution you to watch your usage of the word "idiotic" when talking to me. because i'm pretty sure you know not to use it.

now, the joys of having sex is being able to bust a joyful nut. what is a joyful nut? a joyful nut is busting in a chick that u know, if she were to get pregnant, she wouldn't be a pain on your life considering she's well off, educated, and isn't an hoodrat. the fact is, most of the chicks you're going to meet are NOT gonna fall under this criteria...which is evident clearly by the number of pages this thread has garnered. if you're a grown man and you haven't felt that joy of busting in a chick, its ok, u can tell us. when that time does arrive for you, listen to my words and listen to them carefully:

if no one has told u, let me be the first to tell you. if you're gonna fucck any chick you're not married to, u better make sure its a chick u dont mind being stuck with for the next 18 years. that is rule number 1. there are many many rules to the game. hold that one dear to heart. a chick who is educated, comes from a rich family is less likely to run u dry than a chick u grab off the street. this isn't my opinion. this is a fact. u knock up sheniqua and see how miserable your life gets. oh wait, u'll never knock up any chick because ur just sooo damn careful. ha.i get it.

now, judging from the way your post was worded, i get the strong feeling you have a problem with jealousy. when you hear me talk of busting raw in a chick, and fuccking another big ass chick that had a man, take a few moments to reflect on the feelings that went through you. if you're confused about the meaning of those feelings, scan the points below to help yourself arrive at a conclusion as to what they mean, or what they say about you:

There are three types of people in this world.

1. Those who hear the exciting escapades of others and wish to God they can live that life.
2. Those who hear the exciting escapades of others and immediately begin to develop hatred and deep feelings of resentment. these are the people who say to themselves "why does he get all the girls? why is he so rich, fccuk him, i hate him".
3. Those who just dont care because they're living that life as well.

i ask you, which group do you think you fall under? do you feel a righteous anger erupt in you when u hear of another man tell a story of how he raw dogged a chick with a big ass? something u wished u could do?

and by the way, the chicks that i busted in raw in, how do u know i didn't have them checked? u dont.

:leostare:
 
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