Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm a master of observation. I've learned so much from not only my mistakes but the mistakes of others :ninja:

Exactly mane. Always let others make the biggest mistakes for you and learn from their experience, but also realize you will have a few mistakes of your own in the path of getting experience, but never let them be the huge mistakes others make.
 

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So yaw saying, I shouldn't even put time into this bytch, she gotta put time into me. Until then I can do whatever I want and get more hoes, don't just focus on 1 cause they ain't focused enough to focus on 1 guy, too much temptation
not that you shouldn't put time. But that you shouldn't put time you can't afford to lose. a chick will focus solely on you but only if you make it her best option. to do that, showing high value is only half of the equation. the other half is to also show her that if she doesn't bring in anything of value to you to the table, she won't get your presence. And you let her choose. If you don't bring that second part, why would she focus solely on you when she gets the benefit of your high value presence (first part of the equation) without the requirement (second part). That would be the better option in her mind. She'll save her devotion for the guy who won't put up with her BS and keep what you're willing to give her (the guy you want to be in that situation).

it's not that they can't focus on you. it's that they don't have to until you put them in that position. Imagine if you met a chick, dope as fukk, classy, smart, perfect body, angelic face, virgin, willing to go all the way to please you, support you, etc. but on top of that, willing to be sexually exclusive to you even if you want to mess with other chicks. what would stop you from going to other chicks? it's the same thing but in reverse.
 

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I'd like to share a Bible verse with ya'll.
Proverbs 22:10 Drive out the mocker, and out goes strife; quarrels and insults are ended.

I definitely love the energy of this thread. It is flowing and we're going to keep it that way. We will eliminate all who attempt to mock and cause strife in here and we will keep things positive. Having a differing opinion is definitely allowed, but insulting others, putting them down and the such isn't.
 

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idk brehs, if a broad flakes on me and i can tell it's a game im not even responding :manny:


make em put in some work before they can get my attention again.

and even then i might still leave them hanging just cause most of em never felt that kind of ether in their lives cause they been used to dealing with simps and friendzone nikkas

gotta give these bishes a reality check sometimes :smugdraper:
 

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not that you shouldn't put time. But that you shouldn't put time you can't afford to lose. a chick will focus solely on you but only if you make it her best option. to do that, showing high value is only half of the equation. the other half is to also show her that if she doesn't bring in anything of value to you to the table, she won't get your presence. And you let her choose. If you don't bring that second part, why would she focus solely on you when she gets the benefit of your high value presence (first part of the equation) without the requirement (second part). That would be the better option in her mind. She'll save her devotion for the guy who won't put up with her BS and keep what you're willing to give her (the guy you want to be in that situation).

it's not that they can't focus on you. it's that they don't have to until you put them in that position. Imagine if you met a chick, dope as fukk, classy, smart, perfect body, angelic face, virgin, willing to go all the way to please you, support you, etc. but on top of that, willing to be sexually exclusive to you even if you want to mess with other chicks. what would stop you from going to other chicks? it's the same thing but in reverse.

So basically you're saying that women have choices. Now people claim men are cheaters and it's because we've got choices, but women have choices as well, except for they don't have to work for their choices and we do. Which is funny because we get the choice of choosing, they only get the option to be chosen (most times). Funny how things work.

I think it's good to have an understanding of this. Basically we both got options (her and I) and it depends on whether we take them or not. Don't sweat shyt, if the stars align then they do, but we'll ALWAYS have options.
 

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Took this from another thread, but she got a nice lil mindset. Hopefully she lives up to it.
[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZ21NLr_Qc8"]Black women, it's our fault! - YouTube[/ame]
 

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if she got pregnant it was all good
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Its not really all good though. You are :yeshrug: with accidently having a baby with a chick who was playing games with you. You would be cool paying child support to a chick you only smashed on weekends for a few months? Keep bustin loads in her breh!
 

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either way, it didn't matter to me. i had "patience" with her because i was busy with other girls and i had a girl i believe, at the time i was talking to her. so her canceling was quickly forgotten when the next person in line came through that night.

easy to have game when ur used to dealing with females. when i think about the sh1t i said to this chick, i get amazed at the game. i'm not no don juan. but for those of u who lack game, just get used to talk to girls, even girls ur not attracted to.

and yeah this chick did like playing games. but for a guy who had his hands full with other girls, her games were meaningless. girls play games to elicit reaction. she wasn't getting that from me. so she was intrigued.

but this girl was top notched. she came from a rich family. she was educated. so i was free to creampie her everytime we fuccked. that sh1t was glorious. no consequences. if she got pregnant it was all good

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I'd like to share a Bible verse with ya'll.
Proverbs 22:10 Drive out the mocker, and out goes strife; quarrels and insults are ended.

I definitely love the energy of this thread. It is flowing and we're going to keep it that way. We will eliminate all who attempt to mock and cause strife in here and we will keep things positive. Having a differing opinion is definitely allowed, but insulting others, putting them down and the such isn't.

I feel when there is a discrepancy, or a problem that someone has with another person, the best approach might be to ignore it. if this problem or disagreement continues and it can cause harm, then it should be looked into and properly understood. so the correct thing to do at that time would be to ask the other person about it. the difference between asking and accusing sombody about something is big, and thats a common mistake not a lot of people may understand. Im all for building, so the nonsense that is around us, and occassionally invades this thread in particular, needs to be either ignored or understood. from that, the reasonable minded can find when its time to move on from the dispute.

especially when there are insults, I think thats the time when everyone needs to pause for a second and remember what we in here for. to help each other out and gain knowledge. not to be about the noise.
 

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@TRUEST even weeks later after the last story your still in this idiotic mindstate? Before it was not being worried about fukking a woman raw because she can't get pregnant?(Was it you who gave that story) .......One of the many people in 2013 that still think you have to cum inside a woman in order to get her pregnant and if you just have sex raw without cumming she wont get pregnant..........


So now you have evolved from that to saying you don't mind busting in a woman because her family is well off? Do you hear this nonsense you are speaking? What can we do to EVER WAKE YOU UP to realize how absurd and idiotic this whole thing sounds......
 
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idk brehs, if a broad flakes on me and i can tell it's a game im not even responding :manny:


make em put in some work before they can get my attention again.

and even then i might still leave them hanging just cause most of em never felt that kind of ether in their lives cause they been used to dealing with simps and friendzone nikkas

gotta give these bishes a reality check sometimes :smugdraper:


Im the same. the only way to win at someone elses game, is to stop playing with them. then when theyre ready to stop, maybe you can come in and put down your own rules. but mostly I just move on. those games are put in place to have you at their mercy, and to use against you. its all leverage. it makes it so that theyre calling the shots and youre answering to them. I dont fukk with that. Ill let a girl play her games with someone else. if Im not calling the shots, Im out.
 

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Im the same. the only way to win at someone elses game, is to stop playing with them. then when theyre ready to stop, maybe you can come in and put down your own rules. but mostly I just move on. those games are put in place to have you at their mercy, and to use against you. its all leverage. it makes it so that theyre calling the shots and youre answering to them. I dont fukk with that. Ill let a girl play her games with someone else. if Im not calling the shots, Im out.

word.


and the funny thing is whenever i drop a girl for playin like that they usually run back and tell their friends tryna badmouth me, but their friends see it as a challenge on some ":ohhh: damn he dropped her maybe i can make the cut" shyt so it just brings more bytches to me in the long run :manny:
 
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