Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Scaaar]

the problem is bytches are retarded and the younger they are the more retarded. I just matched one her prompt said typical Sunday is cooking for my man. I said this is my love language then we matched. she wrote lol ok and I wrote what's your favorite thing to cook? she says I have a lot.

I already know what type of time she's on either shes dumb, playing games, or just matched to match. usually when they send answers like that it's one of those few scenarios or all 3.

Bro you come off creepy saying that's my love language with the cooking comment. Just start off with a basic convo and eventually bring up the cooking. You sound like a serial killer just bringing up her cooking for you off rip. You gotta let her want to cook for you breh to see if it's truly genuine or not

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

After splitting from my ex I finally been back in the dating scene. I met 3 different women on dates and only one I’ve continued to talk to.

Let me preface this by saying I’m regretting on planning a date 4 just because I have this gut feeling of “fukk this chick, dude, she ain’t worth it “ and I’ve only known this chick for a Month if that.


i won’t try to make this long so ill summarize the best I can. Dates 1 & 2 went well. After date 2 we went to the bar at the theater and there I let her know I’m busy af In Feb with all the events I have to attend like the Royal rumble.. going to an event on Valentine’s Day with a friend.. etc so I invite her to hang with me and my roommates Super Bowl night. She was going to but she has to work.

So based on my budget I can’t do much to hang out right now, especially that cost expensive for me. I ask her to go to the movies with me last Friday. She said sure. But she suggested maybe we get dinner and then grab drinks before. I say sure if we can split the bills. She straight up says nvm


Then she starts pressuring me on why I haven’t made any moves yet I tell her I was just being a gentleman. And like literally we’ve seen each other twice. She cools off about it

But then she tells me I need to get creative with our dates because going to the movies again does not count as another date and being invited to the Super Bowl watch party doesn’t count because I already had it planned


So At date 3 we’re at the bar talking about this before the movies. I’m forgetting a lot of my argument points because her talking points were straight up dumb her arguments would make since if we were already in a serious relationship… I’ve only known her for a month so I stand on business and she eventually she’s my points in certain areas…


Now this is still a long post but I’m leaving out a lot of details. But to all my friends I’ve told this story they all say she is tripping…. I bring this up because after the date she mentions how she brought up the argument to her friend and her friend was on my side saying she was tripping so this bytch knew she was in the wrong and the only reason why she’s bringing this up is because I stood my ground…



The more I think about it the more I get angry lol. I don’t even find her that attractive but she trying to put me through hoops and have these serious expectations in month 1….

Like even texting her now is pissing me off… I’ve noticed if I don’t get the topic to be about what she’s doing she literally has nothing to say… if I bring up I like or I talk about myself she really adds nothing…

Like bytch you ain’t worth it

How many chicks out here think they’re all that?? How many chicks feel this way to the point they think they can bully dudes into what they want? How many dudes take this just to get some??

 

[The ADD]

After splitting from my ex I finally been back in the dating scene. I met 3 different women on dates and only one I’ve continued to talk to.

Let me preface this by saying I’m regretting on planning a date 4 just because I have this gut feeling of “fukk this chick, dude, she ain’t worth it “ and I’ve only known this chick for a Month if that.


i won’t try to make this long so ill summarize the best I can. Dates 1 & 2 went well. After date 2 we went to the bar at the theater and there I let her know I’m busy af In Feb with all the events I have to attend like the Royal rumble.. going to an event on Valentine’s Day with a friend.. etc so I invite her to hang with me and my roommates Super Bowl night. She was going to but she has to work.

So based on my budget I can’t do much to hang out right now, especially that cost expensive for me. I ask her to go to the movies with me last Friday. She said sure. But she suggested maybe we get dinner and then grab drinks before. I say sure if we can split the bills. She straight up says nvm


Then she starts pressuring me on why I haven’t made any moves yet I tell her I was just being a gentleman. And like literally we’ve seen each other twice. She cools off about it

But then she tells me I need to get creative with our dates because going to the movies again does not count as another date and being invited to the Super Bowl watch party doesn’t count because I already had it planned


So At date 3 we’re at the bar talking about this before the movies. I’m forgetting a lot of my argument points because her talking points were straight up dumb her arguments would make since if we were already in a serious relationship… I’ve only known her for a month so I stand on business and she eventually she’s my points in certain areas…


Now this is still a long post but I’m leaving out a lot of details. But to all my friends I’ve told this story they all say she is tripping…. I bring this up because after the date she mentions how she brought up the argument to her friend and her friend was on my side saying she was tripping so this bytch knew she was in the wrong and the only reason why she’s bringing this up is because I stood my ground…



The more I think about it the more I get angry lol. I don’t even find her that attractive but she trying to put me through hoops and have these serious expectations in month 1….

Like even texting her now is pissing me off… I’ve noticed if I don’t get the topic to be about what she’s doing she literally has nothing to say… if I bring up I like or I talk about myself she really adds nothing…

Like bytch you ain’t worth it

How many chicks out here think they’re all that?? How many chicks feel this way to the point they think they can bully dudes into what they want? How many dudes take this just to get some??

Cut your losses. This reads like I want to be your boyfriend behavior instead of just a casual thing.

 

[WIA20XX]

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Cut your losses. This reads like I want to be your boyfriend behavior instead of just a casual thing.

Oh no I’m going on dates to look for a girlfriend. I only asked that because I assume dudes put up with bullshyt like this just to smash when I’ve been holding my ground.

I just can’t get over the fact we are having these type of conversations already when we have only been on 3 dates and I’ve known her only a month.

Being out here in the field you realize some chicks want you to be romantic without them knowing how to be romantic. And in some of their minds being in a relationship is all about them.

I love proving these bytches wrong

 

[The ADD]

Oh no I’m going on dates to look for a girlfriend. I only asked that because I assume dudes put up with bullshyt like this just to smash when I’ve been holding my ground.

I just can’t get over the fact we are having these type of conversations already when we have only been on 3 dates and I’ve known her only a month.

Being out here in the field you realize some chicks want you to be romantic without them knowing how to be romantic. And in some of their minds being in a relationship is all about them.

I love proving these bytches wrong

I gotcha. I would still cut losses because you aren’t really attracted to her and it doesn’t sound like yall are compatible otherwise.

 

[WIA20XX]

Being out here in the field you realize some chicks want you to be romantic without them knowing how to be romantic. And in some of their minds being in a relationship is all about them.

MESSAGE!

Haha.

 

[Canon]

How many chicks out here think they’re all that?? How many chicks feel this way to the point they think they can bully dudes into what they want? How many dudes take this just to get some??

a lot of chicks operate like this. gotta learn to pick up on it and cut your losses.

I would say 90% of dudes go along with it to get some

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Bro you come off creepy saying that's my love language with the cooking comment. Just start off with a basic convo and eventually bring up the cooking. You sound like a serial killer just bringing up her cooking for you off rip. You gotta let her want to cook for you breh to see if it's truly genuine or not

i didnt mention it it was in her profile

 

[Braman]

Been talking to this chick for a few months. She wears hella make up, have not seen her completely without it. She’s given me ‘insecure and need constant validation’ vibes.

Shorty just sent me a screenshare of her IG story a selfie video I purposely don’t follow her on IG. She didn’t send the pic itself, she sent it to where u can see it’s IG, with other dudes profiles and likes pinned at the bottom Like is this bytch really on some ‘see, other men like men’. I got the ick. She goofy

 

[Bless't]

Some of the women's actions described in this thread recently sound absurd. If you're coming into the thread and questioning whether or not they're in the right or asking, "is this how women are nowadays?" ... do not entertain them any further.

Like many brehs in here have said, CUT YOUR LOSSES.

 

[Ohene]

Bro you come off creepy saying that's my love language with the cooking comment. Just start off with a basic convo and eventually bring up the cooking. You sound like a serial killer just bringing up her cooking for you off rip. You gotta let her want to cook for you breh to see if it's truly genuine or not

I don’t think so lol

This the shyt i was talking about when i say dudes always pick each other apart to find fault. I don’t think what he said was creepy

I don’t talk about love languages but the prompts are there for a reason. If she didn’t want men to comment on the cookin it shouldn’t be up there

This is why online dating is so dumb

 

[The ADD]

I don’t think so lol

This the shyt i was talking about when i say dudes always pick each other apart to find fault. I don’t think what he said was creepy

I don’t talk about love languages but the prompts are there for a reason. If she didn’t want men to comment on the cookin it shouldn’t be up there

This is why online dating is so dumb

Yeah if you can’t open the conversation up based on prompts……..

What’s the purpose

 

[Ohene]

Yeah if you can’t open the conversation up based on prompts……..

What’s the purpose

yea man, and why match if its creepy? at the end of the day it is simply a conversation starter and doesnt have to be taken so seriously

a person with actual social skills (or interest for that matter) would simply say, "what's your favourite cuisine?" and that could lead to a general discussion about food and maybe even them going out for dinner sometime

 

[MikelArteta]

i finally booked a flight to South Africa. Other than Japan its been my most sought after vacation destination

You gonna eat
Create that hinge now breh