After splitting from my ex I finally been back in the dating scene. I met 3 different women on dates and only one I’ve continued to talk to.
Let me preface this by saying I’m regretting on planning a date 4 just because I have this gut feeling of “fukk this chick, dude, she ain’t worth it
“ and I’ve only known this chick for a Month if that.
i won’t try to make this long so ill summarize the best I can. Dates 1 & 2 went well. After date 2 we went to the bar at the theater and there I let her know I’m busy af In Feb with all the events I have to attend like the Royal rumble.. going to an event on Valentine’s Day with a friend.. etc so I invite her to hang with me and my roommates Super Bowl night. She was going to but she has to work.
So based on my budget I can’t do much to hang out right now, especially that cost expensive for me. I ask her to go to the movies with me last Friday. She said sure. But she suggested maybe we get dinner and then grab drinks before. I say sure if we can split the bills. She straight up says nvm
Then she starts pressuring me on why I haven’t made any moves yet
I tell her I was just being a gentleman. And like literally we’ve seen each other twice. She cools off about it
But then she tells me I need to get creative with our dates because going to the movies again does not count as another date and being invited to the Super Bowl watch party doesn’t count because I already had it planned
So At date 3 we’re at the bar talking about this before the movies. I’m forgetting a lot of my argument points because her talking points were straight up dumb
her arguments would make since if we were already in a serious relationship… I’ve only known her for a month
so I stand on business and she eventually she’s my points in certain areas…
Now this is still a long post but I’m leaving out a lot of details. But to all my friends I’ve told this story they all say she is tripping…. I bring this up because after the date she mentions how she brought up the argument to her friend and her friend was on my side saying she was tripping
so this bytch knew she was in the wrong and the only reason why she’s bringing this up is because I stood my ground…
The more I think about it the more I get angry lol.
I don’t even find her that attractive but she trying to put me through hoops and have these serious expectations in month 1….
Like even texting her now is pissing me off… I’ve noticed if I don’t get the topic to be about what she’s doing she literally has nothing to say… if I bring up I like or I talk about myself she really adds nothing…
Like bytch you ain’t worth it
How many chicks out here think they’re all that?? How many chicks feel this way to the point they think they can bully dudes into what they want?
How many dudes take this just to get some??