Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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.... Food for thought..............Cause I do conduct myself in ways mentioned in that article and I doubt I'm the only one here that does........

 

[Abraxus]

So, continuing my shutdown of dating apps, I ran into a girl I knocked down over a year ago. It was on BLK, and now it is FB dating. So we rematch. I remembered her flaking on me after I hit her, and she was asking for money. So I said bye Felicia I asked if there was any change to you now, and she said no. Eh? it's been almost 2 years. Why are you back here? She hit me up with the well, we did have a night of passion, and we vibed, etc. you well put together blah blah blah. We did? Ok, so what's up? I mean, we already fukked, so let's get that old thang back! She drops the number and tells me she's relocated to the Southside. Come get this p*ssy. Oh shyt, ya boy done fell off into an adventure! I said ok let me get dressed and I'll slide through and knock you down. It's like 1 am. She calls me.....eh?

Says well something did happen after I met you. I say ok. Lay it on me.

I had another baby. Wha? So now you got three? She answers yes. Ok. Well, how long ago? Says 6 months So you got a 6 month old baby? Yes, babyboy because she makes boys. I said ok. and? She said I'm ready for you now. Ok OMW! I knocked it down and got in the wind.

She hit me up a few days later, so we doing this again? I said doing what? Do you want some more pipe or nah? She said I'm looking for someone to be with. I said that ain't me and you know it. She said you right. You still cool baby. Word

 

[Abraxus]

Ever since I've been married. So many women I used to caboodle and cavort with have come out of the woodwork.

Today some chick I met in 2018 messaged me

On some I was going through my phone and came across your picture and just thought I'd say hi

I promise you this just happened to me too. Tall 6 footer who still riding that Balongne merry-go-round. She asked me to come see her in Flrodia which is code for lets fukk. I said nah, I'm good.

 

[Abraxus]

When you have your ish together. They’ll always be back. Especially when they realize what else is out here

I had toronto joint from high school who messaged me a few weeks back (one kid later)

Her: oh how times have changed

Me: I know

Her *thumbs up emoji”

This is a universal truth! But it's only realized after they went back out there and got dikks wiped across their lips putting mileage on that ol raggedy ass used up p*ssy then they think back to the dudes who was standing on business really putting a dent in the universe. The realization comes too late. Oh, you are welcome to return honey but you gon have to suck a whooooooooooooole lotta dikk!

 

[MikelArteta]

.... Food for thought..............Cause I do conduct myself in ways mentioned in that article and I doubt I'm the only one here that does........

Marrying a western woman will put you in the grave early

 

[MikelArteta]

So many quotables.

This stood out to me that is something both true and false.



I live in the hood. I can't throw a rock without hitting a community center, park, or something built by the city for "engagement" of the youth or the neighborhood.

Nary a kid in sight.

At the same time, who do I see in these public spaces?

Old dudes.

Not homeless cats mind you, but old cats stay in the park. ALL DAMN DAY. I haven't done my usual 10,000 step circuit cause of the weather, but them old heads be out there.

Young cats really going to and from places. There are some that do play pick up games of basketball, but if I see hanging out - there might be some commerce happening.

One of my friends asked me, "why don't they do something?"

And I was kinda thinking that too....but they are doing something.

They're fellowshipping.

And when I put it like that, I see old brehs constantly rapping to each other. I might even start following the Commanders just so I can get a nod, lol.

I don't see a problem that's been 30 years in the making, trillions of dollars in the making, can be addressed with yet another rec center or City Sponsored Block Party.

Th average kid is just flicking their finger going to the next tik Tok video

 

[DJSmooth]

So, continuing my shutdown of dating apps, I ran into a girl I knocked down over a year ago. It was on BLK, and now it is FB dating. So we rematch. I remembered her flaking on me after I hit her, and she was asking for money. So I said bye Felicia I asked if there was any change to you now, and she said no. Eh? it's been almost 2 years. Why are you back here? She hit me up with the well, we did have a night of passion, and we vibed, etc. you well put together blah blah blah. We did? Ok, so what's up? I mean, we already fukked, so let's get that old thang back! She drops the number and tells me she's relocated to the Southside. Come get this p*ssy. Oh shyt, ya boy done fell off into an adventure! I said ok let me get dressed and I'll slide through and knock you down. It's like 1 am. She calls me.....eh?

Says well something did happen after I met you. I say ok. Lay it on me.

I had another baby. Wha? So now you got three? She answers yes. Ok. Well, how long ago? Says 6 months So you got a 6 month old baby? Yes, babyboy because she makes boys. I said ok. and? She said I'm ready for you now. Ok OMW! I knocked it down and got in the wind.

She hit me up a few days later, so we doing this again? I said doing what? Do you want some more pipe or nah? She said I'm looking for someone to be with. I said that ain't me and you know it. She said you right. You still cool baby. Word

sometimes yall are funny only sometimes

 

[The Jewnited States]

This is a universal truth! But it's only realized after they went back out there and got dikks wiped across their lips putting mileage on that ol raggedy ass used up p*ssy then they think back to the dudes who was standing on business really putting a dent in the universe. The realization comes too late. Oh, you are welcome to return honey but you gon have to suck a whooooooooooooole lotta dikk!

 

[Ohene]

Our modern economy, with its home-delivery conveniences, manipulates people into behaving like agoraphobes.
Despite a consumer economy that seems optimized for introverted behavior, we would have happier days, years, and lives if we resisted the undertow of the convenience curse—if we talked with more strangers, belonged to more groups, and left the house for more activities.



This is one I have been saying too. Like that girl that lives next to me. Doesn't leave her house. @skyrunner1, as far as cost, all good points, but it COSTS to stay at home too. All the subscriptions, the Uber Eats, the Sephora deliveries. It's costs hundreds of dollars a month, if not more, to not even leave the house.

-Not ever having social media put me outside of a lot of this, but the biggest adjustment I made was AirPods. Just taking them out, like 70% of the time. No need to listen to Yo Gotti while walking to get a coffee. Better to just be clear and hear the world.

-Never getting food delivered, if I want it, I put in the effort and go handle it

-Anyone who knows me will say I am not the most extroverted, but I can talk to almost anyone, and connect whenever I feel like it, but I had to sharpen that skill

-Not getting dumb shyt like paper towels delivered thru Amazon, just going and grabbing them myself. I fukking hate it, but you get the steps in and you get to save yourself all that click and scroll labor.

you and i very similar

 

[Ahadi]

So, continuing my shutdown of dating apps, I ran into a girl I knocked down over a year ago. It was on BLK, and now it is FB dating. So we rematch. I remembered her flaking on me after I hit her, and she was asking for money. So I said bye Felicia I asked if there was any change to you now, and she said no. Eh? it's been almost 2 years. Why are you back here? She hit me up with the well, we did have a night of passion, and we vibed, etc. you well put together blah blah blah. We did? Ok, so what's up? I mean, we already fukked, so let's get that old thang back! She drops the number and tells me she's relocated to the Southside. Come get this p*ssy. Oh shyt, ya boy done fell off into an adventure! I said ok let me get dressed and I'll slide through and knock you down. It's like 1 am. She calls me.....eh?

Says well something did happen after I met you. I say ok. Lay it on me.

I had another baby. Wha? So now you got three? She answers yes. Ok. Well, how long ago? Says 6 months So you got a 6 month old baby? Yes, babyboy because she makes boys. I said ok. and? She said I'm ready for you now. Ok OMW! I knocked it down and got in the wind.

She hit me up a few days later, so we doing this again? I said doing what? Do you want some more pipe or nah? She said I'm looking for someone to be with. I said that ain't me and you know it. She said you right. You still cool baby. Word

She’s dating for help

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Our modern economy, with its home-delivery conveniences, manipulates people into behaving like agoraphobes.
Despite a consumer economy that seems optimized for introverted behavior, we would have happier days, years, and lives if we resisted the undertow of the convenience curse—if we talked with more strangers, belonged to more groups, and left the house for more activities.



This is one I have been saying too. Like that girl that lives next to me. Doesn't leave her house. @skyrunner1, as far as cost, all good points, but it COSTS to stay at home too. All the subscriptions, the Uber Eats, the Sephora deliveries. It's costs hundreds of dollars a month, if not more, to not even leave the house.

-Not ever having social media put me outside of a lot of this, but the biggest adjustment I made was AirPods. Just taking them out, like 70% of the time. No need to listen to Yo Gotti while walking to get a coffee. Better to just be clear and hear the world.

-Never getting food delivered, if I want it, I put in the effort and go handle it

-Anyone who knows me will say I am not the most extroverted, but I can talk to almost anyone, and connect whenever I feel like it, but I had to sharpen that skill

-Not getting dumb shyt like paper towels delivered thru Amazon, just going and grabbing them myself. I fukking hate it, but you get the steps in and you get to save yourself all that click and scroll labor.

I noticed most people are extrovert online
I know this girl that does TikTok ..super loud and confident
But In real life..mute

 

[bigde09]

White girl at my job is throwing it at me. But I know it wouldn't end well for me as a black man.

Her ass is so fat brehs

What makes it worse is I'm her boss HR would bury me under the office building for that shyt

 

[Redwood]

White girl at my job is throwing it at me. But I know it wouldn't end well for me as a black man.

Her ass is so fat brehs

What makes it worse is I'm her boss HR would bury me under the office building for that shyt

Don't do it breh

 

[Astroslik]

Got out of a almost 2 year relationship earlier last year, and told myself once the new year hit id start dating again. I wont lie it fukked me up. Together for almost 2 years, holidays together, planned on proposing this year, and fell out with my best friend of 12+ years as well around the same time we split.

Im in atlanta and needa get back out there and on the apps. I used to run the streets back in college but alot of my go to spots are closed im in shape and make good $$. So honestly its just adapting to whats going on out here now that im 30 Its just getting out of my own head at this point and moving forward

Atlanta might be the easiest city to transition out of a relationship. There are lonely desperate women everywhere.

 

[Astroslik]

If you ever tell them about the countries you been to , don’t mention Colombia or Dominican Republic .

Women be bullying yall and have you shook to talk about your life?