Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Happy new year
May I find a wife this year inshallah

@The ADD

go to the motherland breh

 

[phcitywarrior]

Yea be careful bruh

This is why nikkas want submissive women. If you aint a priority then whats the point of marrying the chick? How much was the wedding

Please say it again for the folks in the back.

 

[Ohene]

In your opinion and experience,

What do pimps and hustlers do different than a guy that just smashes a lot?

Prey on the vulnerable and manipulate them mentally - that would be my guess. Also create a dependency on them when it comes to emotional needs and basic necessities like shelter, a sense of belonging, food etc

 

[Illuminatos]

Matched with this chick on Tinder on the 14th of December. We text for a couple days.

-She’s in grad school and it was finals so she was pretty busy.
-I end up asking her out to go meet up at a museum.
-I don’t get a response for 3 days and on day 4 I ask if she was still still interested.
-Day 5 she responds back and says sorry for not responding back because she was busy with Finals.
-She also says she’s still interested but she can’t go until after the 3rd of January since she’ll be in Cali visiting family.
-I tell her it’s cool just message me back when she’s back in NY and we’ll set something up.
- I text her on Christmas to wish her Merry Christmas and we message for a few hours.

I didn’t message her at all between that day on Christmas and this morning. Is that a bad move? I checked Tinder this morning and her location said she was back in NY so I messaged her asking how she was doing because I’m trying to meet up tomorrow.

Yall think she’s actually interested or am I bugging and just need to chill. Ideally I want to message a chick for a couple days and meet up within the same week. I don’t like wasting my time so let’s see if we like each other or not and continue or break it off. We matched 3 weeks ago and still haven’t met up and it’s kind of annoying.

 

[The ADD]

Matched with this chick on Tinder on the 14th of December. We text for a couple days.

-She’s in grad school and it was finals so she was pretty busy.
-I end up asking her out to go meet up at a museum.
-I don’t get a response for 3 days and on day 4 I ask if she was still still interested.
-Day 5 she responds back and says sorry for not responding back because she was busy with Finals.
-She also says she’s still interested but she can’t go until after the 3rd of January since she’ll be in Cali visiting family.
-I tell her it’s cool just message me back when she’s back in NY and we’ll set something up.
- I text her on Christmas to wish her Merry Christmas and we message for a few hours.

I didn’t message her at all between that day on Christmas and this morning. Is that a bad move? I checked Tinder this morning and her location said she was back in NY so I messaged her asking how she was doing because I’m trying to meet up tomorrow.

Yall think she’s actually interested or am I bugging and just need to chill. Ideally I want to message a chick for a couple days and meet up within the same week. I don’t like wasting my time so let’s see if we like each other or not and continue or break it off. We matched 3 weeks ago and still haven’t met up and it’s kind of annoying.

I mean you kind of set yourself up with it being the holidays.

Her general reasons sound legit. I would just push to meet soon and go from there. I wouldn’t jump off the bridge one way or the other.

 

[Canon]

Matched with this chick on Tinder on the 14th of December. We text for a couple days.

-She’s in grad school and it was finals so she was pretty busy.
-I end up asking her out to go meet up at a museum.
-I don’t get a response for 3 days and on day 4 I ask if she was still still interested.
-Day 5 she responds back and says sorry for not responding back because she was busy with Finals.
-She also says she’s still interested but she can’t go until after the 3rd of January since she’ll be in Cali visiting family.
-I tell her it’s cool just message me back when she’s back in NY and we’ll set something up.
- I text her on Christmas to wish her Merry Christmas and we message for a few hours.

I didn’t message her at all between that day on Christmas and this morning. Is that a bad move? I checked Tinder this morning and her location said she was back in NY so I messaged her asking how she was doing because I’m trying to meet up tomorrow.

Yall think she’s actually interested or am I bugging and just need to chill. Ideally I want to message a chick for a couple days and meet up within the same week. I don’t like wasting my time so let’s see if we like each other or not and continue or break it off. We matched 3 weeks ago and still haven’t met up and it’s kind of annoying.

just move on and set a date if she reaches out

 

[skyrunner1]

Matched with this chick on Tinder on the 14th of December. We text for a couple days.

-She’s in grad school and it was finals so she was pretty busy.
-I end up asking her out to go meet up at a museum.
-I don’t get a response for 3 days and on day 4 I ask if she was still still interested.
-Day 5 she responds back and says sorry for not responding back because she was busy with Finals.
-She also says she’s still interested but she can’t go until after the 3rd of January since she’ll be in Cali visiting family.
-I tell her it’s cool just message me back when she’s back in NY and we’ll set something up.
- I text her on Christmas to wish her Merry Christmas and we message for a few hours.

I didn’t message her at all between that day on Christmas and this morning. Is that a bad move? I checked Tinder this morning and her location said she was back in NY so I messaged her asking how she was doing because I’m trying to meet up tomorrow.

Yall think she’s actually interested or am I bugging and just need to chill. Ideally I want to message a chick for a couple days and meet up within the same week. I don’t like wasting my time so let’s see if we like each other or not and continue or break it off. We matched 3 weeks ago and still haven’t met up and it’s kind of annoying.

Tell us about who else you talking to

 

[DJSmooth]

Matched with this chick on Tinder on the 14th of December. We text for a couple days.

-She’s in grad school and it was finals so she was pretty busy.
-I end up asking her out to go meet up at a museum.
-I don’t get a response for 3 days and on day 4 I ask if she was still still interested.
-Day 5 she responds back and says sorry for not responding back because she was busy with Finals.
-She also says she’s still interested but she can’t go until after the 3rd of January since she’ll be in Cali visiting family.
-I tell her it’s cool just message me back when she’s back in NY and we’ll set something up.
- I text her on Christmas to wish her Merry Christmas and we message for a few hours.

I didn’t message her at all between that day on Christmas and this morning. Is that a bad move? I checked Tinder this morning and her location said she was back in NY so I messaged her asking how she was doing because I’m trying to meet up tomorrow.

Yall think she’s actually interested or am I bugging and just need to chill. Ideally I want to message a chick for a couple days and meet up within the same week. I don’t like wasting my time so let’s see if we like each other or not and continue or break it off. We matched 3 weeks ago and still haven’t met up and it’s kind of annoying.

This is the part in the timeline you should have cut your losses.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

talking to this ghanian girl whose a nurse but I think she was born in Ghana not here. We were suppose to meet up on Thursday but I was sick and had to reschedule. I picked the place and time for that date and then she started talking about liking a man who leads. We started talking about the roles men and woman play. I told her I plan it she looks nice and is good company. She said she liked that I planned the date and if I wanted I can choose what she wants to eat when we go because sometimes she can't decide. there is no way she is American right lmao.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Matched with this chick on Tinder on the 14th of December. We text for a couple days.

-She’s in grad school and it was finals so she was pretty busy.
-I end up asking her out to go meet up at a museum.
-I don’t get a response for 3 days and on day 4 I ask if she was still still interested.
-Day 5 she responds back and says sorry for not responding back because she was busy with Finals.
-She also says she’s still interested but she can’t go until after the 3rd of January since she’ll be in Cali visiting family.
-I tell her it’s cool just message me back when she’s back in NY and we’ll set something up.
- I text her on Christmas to wish her Merry Christmas and we message for a few hours.

I didn’t message her at all between that day on Christmas and this morning. Is that a bad move? I checked Tinder this morning and her location said she was back in NY so I messaged her asking how she was doing because I’m trying to meet up tomorrow.

Yall think she’s actually interested or am I bugging and just need to chill. Ideally I want to message a chick for a couple days and meet up within the same week. I don’t like wasting my time so let’s see if we like each other or not and continue or break it off. We matched 3 weeks ago and still haven’t met up and it’s kind of annoying.

I mean she doesn't know you like that so flakiness and apprehension is everything you and everyman might deal with in the initial stages, can't expect to hit a home run everytime. So she could come round, go on a date with you and become besotted with you after she experiences a coli brehs aura and you've hit her with the Taoist thrust.

But I'd say you haven't really made an effort of building a rapport because you can't do so through Texting, should've spoke on the phone or better yet facetime and built something more concrete. If you had and she still flaked you'd instantly know shes bush status, but as you haven't, you find yourself in limbo and asking for advice as you're unsure on where YOU stand with her.

You've no choice now other than to go for broke or leave her and let her reach out to you, which poses another dilemma on if shes only reaching out to you as a backup plan.

 

[2stainz]

 

[Ohene]

talking to this ghanian girl whose a nurse but I think she was born in Ghana not here. We were suppose to meet up on Thursday but I was sick and had to reschedule. I picked the place and time for that date and then she started talking about liking a man who leads. We started talking about the roles men and woman play. I told her I plan it she looks nice and is good company. She said she liked that I planned the date and if I wanted I can choose what she wants to eat when we go because sometimes she can't decide. there is no way she is American right lmao.

This dude be sharing his life story

Every girl likes a man who plans a date. She might be first generation American
or Born in Ghana. Doesnt make a difference because regardless she was probably raised by two Ghanaians and Africans dont fully assimilate

 

[Ohene]

I mean she doesn't know you like that so flakiness and apprehension is everything you and everyman might deal with in the initial stages, can't expect to hit a home run everytime. So she could come round, go on a date with you and become besotted with you after she experiences a coli brehs aura and you've hit her with the Taoist thrust.

But I'd say you haven't really made an effort of building a rapport because you can't do so through Texting, should've spoke on the phone or better yet facetime and built something more concrete. If you had and she still flaked you'd instantly know shes bush status, but as you haven't, you find yourself in limbo and asking for advice as you're unsure on where YOU stand with her.

You've no choice now other than to go for broke or leave her and let her reach out to you, which poses another dilemma on if shes only reaching out to you as a backup plan.

You can def build rapport via texting and apparently even more through IG

Sometimes I wonder how old ppl here are. People age 35 and below typically prefer texting and aint gonna take kindly to a random dude calling them out the blue unless you ask ahead or have established that as Method of communication

 

[NeilCartwright]

Got out of a almost 2 year relationship earlier last year, and told myself once the new year hit id start dating again. I wont lie it fukked me up. Together for almost 2 years, holidays together, planned on proposing this year, and fell out with my best friend of 12+ years as well around the same time we split.

Im in atlanta and needa get back out there and on the apps. I used to run the streets back in college but alot of my go to spots are closed im in shape and make good $$. So honestly its just adapting to whats going on out here now that im 30 Its just getting out of my own head at this point and moving forward

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Got out of a almost 2 year relationship earlier last year, and told myself once the new year hit id start dating again. I wont lie it fukked me up. Together for almost 2 years, holidays together, planned on proposing this year, and fell out with my best friend of 12+ years as well around the same time we split.

Im in atlanta and needa get back out there and on the apps. I used to run the streets back in college but alot of my go to spots are closed im in shape and make good $$. So honestly its just adapting to whats going on out here now that im 30 Its just getting out of my own head at this point and moving forward

seems like you still need more time to reflect