Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Happy new year
May I find a wife this year inshallah

@The ADD

go to the motherland breh

 

[phcitywarrior]

Yea be careful bruh

This is why nikkas want submissive women. If you aint a priority then whats the point of marrying the chick? How much was the wedding

Please say it again for the folks in the back.

 

[Ohene]

In your opinion and experience,

What do pimps and hustlers do different than a guy that just smashes a lot?

Prey on the vulnerable and manipulate them mentally - that would be my guess. Also create a dependency on them when it comes to emotional needs and basic necessities like shelter, a sense of belonging, food etc

 

[Illuminatos]

Matched with this chick on Tinder on the 14th of December. We text for a couple days.

-She’s in grad school and it was finals so she was pretty busy.
-I end up asking her out to go meet up at a museum.
-I don’t get a response for 3 days and on day 4 I ask if she was still still interested.
-Day 5 she responds back and says sorry for not responding back because she was busy with Finals.
-She also says she’s still interested but she can’t go until after the 3rd of January since she’ll be in Cali visiting family.
-I tell her it’s cool just message me back when she’s back in NY and we’ll set something up.
- I text her on Christmas to wish her Merry Christmas and we message for a few hours.

I didn’t message her at all between that day on Christmas and this morning. Is that a bad move? I checked Tinder this morning and her location said she was back in NY so I messaged her asking how she was doing because I’m trying to meet up tomorrow.

Yall think she’s actually interested or am I bugging and just need to chill. Ideally I want to message a chick for a couple days and meet up within the same week. I don’t like wasting my time so let’s see if we like each other or not and continue or break it off. We matched 3 weeks ago and still haven’t met up and it’s kind of annoying.

 

[The ADD]

Matched with this chick on Tinder on the 14th of December. We text for a couple days.

-She’s in grad school and it was finals so she was pretty busy.
-I end up asking her out to go meet up at a museum.
-I don’t get a response for 3 days and on day 4 I ask if she was still still interested.
-Day 5 she responds back and says sorry for not responding back because she was busy with Finals.
-She also says she’s still interested but she can’t go until after the 3rd of January since she’ll be in Cali visiting family.
-I tell her it’s cool just message me back when she’s back in NY and we’ll set something up.
- I text her on Christmas to wish her Merry Christmas and we message for a few hours.

I didn’t message her at all between that day on Christmas and this morning. Is that a bad move? I checked Tinder this morning and her location said she was back in NY so I messaged her asking how she was doing because I’m trying to meet up tomorrow.

Yall think she’s actually interested or am I bugging and just need to chill. Ideally I want to message a chick for a couple days and meet up within the same week. I don’t like wasting my time so let’s see if we like each other or not and continue or break it off. We matched 3 weeks ago and still haven’t met up and it’s kind of annoying.

I mean you kind of set yourself up with it being the holidays.

Her general reasons sound legit. I would just push to meet soon and go from there. I wouldn’t jump off the bridge one way or the other.

 

[Canon]

Matched with this chick on Tinder on the 14th of December. We text for a couple days.

-She’s in grad school and it was finals so she was pretty busy.
-I end up asking her out to go meet up at a museum.
-I don’t get a response for 3 days and on day 4 I ask if she was still still interested.
-Day 5 she responds back and says sorry for not responding back because she was busy with Finals.
-She also says she’s still interested but she can’t go until after the 3rd of January since she’ll be in Cali visiting family.
-I tell her it’s cool just message me back when she’s back in NY and we’ll set something up.
- I text her on Christmas to wish her Merry Christmas and we message for a few hours.

I didn’t message her at all between that day on Christmas and this morning. Is that a bad move? I checked Tinder this morning and her location said she was back in NY so I messaged her asking how she was doing because I’m trying to meet up tomorrow.

Yall think she’s actually interested or am I bugging and just need to chill. Ideally I want to message a chick for a couple days and meet up within the same week. I don’t like wasting my time so let’s see if we like each other or not and continue or break it off. We matched 3 weeks ago and still haven’t met up and it’s kind of annoying.

just move on and set a date if she reaches out

 

[skyrunner1]

Matched with this chick on Tinder on the 14th of December. We text for a couple days.

-She’s in grad school and it was finals so she was pretty busy.
-I end up asking her out to go meet up at a museum.
-I don’t get a response for 3 days and on day 4 I ask if she was still still interested.
-Day 5 she responds back and says sorry for not responding back because she was busy with Finals.
-She also says she’s still interested but she can’t go until after the 3rd of January since she’ll be in Cali visiting family.
-I tell her it’s cool just message me back when she’s back in NY and we’ll set something up.
- I text her on Christmas to wish her Merry Christmas and we message for a few hours.

I didn’t message her at all between that day on Christmas and this morning. Is that a bad move? I checked Tinder this morning and her location said she was back in NY so I messaged her asking how she was doing because I’m trying to meet up tomorrow.

Yall think she’s actually interested or am I bugging and just need to chill. Ideally I want to message a chick for a couple days and meet up within the same week. I don’t like wasting my time so let’s see if we like each other or not and continue or break it off. We matched 3 weeks ago and still haven’t met up and it’s kind of annoying.

Tell us about who else you talking to

 

[DJSmooth]

Matched with this chick on Tinder on the 14th of December. We text for a couple days.

-She’s in grad school and it was finals so she was pretty busy.
-I end up asking her out to go meet up at a museum.
-I don’t get a response for 3 days and on day 4 I ask if she was still still interested.
-Day 5 she responds back and says sorry for not responding back because she was busy with Finals.
-She also says she’s still interested but she can’t go until after the 3rd of January since she’ll be in Cali visiting family.
-I tell her it’s cool just message me back when she’s back in NY and we’ll set something up.
- I text her on Christmas to wish her Merry Christmas and we message for a few hours.

I didn’t message her at all between that day on Christmas and this morning. Is that a bad move? I checked Tinder this morning and her location said she was back in NY so I messaged her asking how she was doing because I’m trying to meet up tomorrow.

Yall think she’s actually interested or am I bugging and just need to chill. Ideally I want to message a chick for a couple days and meet up within the same week. I don’t like wasting my time so let’s see if we like each other or not and continue or break it off. We matched 3 weeks ago and still haven’t met up and it’s kind of annoying.

This is the part in the timeline you should have cut your losses.