Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I mean you kind of set yourself up with it being the holidays.

Her general reasons sound legit. I would just push to meet soon and go from there. I wouldn’t jump off the bridge one way or the other.

just move on and set a date if she reaches out

This is the part in the timeline you should have cut your losses.

I mean she doesn't know you like that so flakiness and apprehension is everything you and everyman might deal with in the initial stages, can't expect to hit a home run everytime. So she could come round, go on a date with you and become besotted with you after she experiences a coli brehs aura and you've hit her with the Taoist thrust.:blessed:

But I'd say you haven't really made an effort of building a rapport because you can't do so through Texting, should've spoke on the phone or better yet facetime and built something more concrete. If you had and she still flaked you'd instantly know shes bush status, but as you haven't, you find yourself in limbo and asking for advice as you're unsure on where YOU stand with her.

You've no choice now other than to go for broke or leave her and let her reach out to you, which poses another dilemma on if shes only reaching out to you as a backup plan.
She reached back out. She said she was prepping for classes when she got back from Cali so she wasn’t on the app. :patrice: Either way we now have a date for Saturday night. :manny:
 
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You can be crass...we're all adults here. Pretty sure I was memorable in bed. She liked to be disrespected. I recall her loving dirty talk and her body responding when I said disrespectful shyt to her and she liked her ass played with.
But we were also a toxic couple too :mjlol:
Perfect recipe for her calling.... now she's married and "mundane" married life doesn't have that "sizzle" that the toxic life had... :russ: ... ... probably explains why I am #GMB, I care more about maintaining that mind blowing sexual chemistry than wanting a healthy balanced relationship..
 

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These chicks will die for the right to wear the silliest wigs. I sent this chick a clip of this and she lost her mind saying she was disgusted. I said how you think some men feel when you got a whole blond wig on. lol

 

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If you ever tell them about the countries you been to , don’t mention Colombia or Dominican Republic .
 

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recent history has reinforced my belief that nobody is THAT damn busy....you that busy that you cant text back in 24hrs? women are rarely more than arms-length away from their phone...

its the truth I've dated a lawyer and a doctor and both had time to msg me back

The average person spends around four hours and 37 minutes on their phone each day, or about 58 times looking at their phone. Takes two seconds to send a text, you can even text through voice or even from a smart watch. Zero excuses at all
 

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i told a story about an ex a couple of pages back....

she would do the same thing....leave and show back up.....

it's what they do....especially when their lives dont pan out like they hoped

Yup
its the ol dusty bible on the shelf when things aren't going good they pick it up read a few chapters reconnect then it goes back when things are going well again

For years my ex would message me, call me, always when she needed something. It only stopped when she found out I got married
 

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What's that video mean? Is it the observation of people sending the same emoji's in response to banal updates from someone?
 

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recent history has reinforced my belief that nobody is THAT damn busy....you that busy that you cant text back in 24hrs? women are rarely more than arms-length away from their phone...
Yeah breh should have fell back when it took her 3 days to respond. It's obvious that she's just not feeling him. But I'm a stage and been through enough to prep it. I don't take anyone at their word but pay heavy attention to their actions. That's what really shows how they feel about you
 

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I do think it is important to realize how much communication in the last 15 years has changed, and rewired everyone. Certain norms always apply, but a lot has just been scrambled. Hard to decipher the person from their digital double.

I read this and probably already quoted it here months ago, but a central piece of communication, call vs. text, the quote was something like

"People used to HAVE a feeling and make a phone call, based on that feeling", for example watching a movie, and calling someone to tell them or talk about it, or whatever

now, it's WANT a feeling, text someone, and you get that validation in small form. Like a quick dopamine drip, and I think that probably explains some of the texts that everyone male or female gets sometimes. HEY, WYD, HOW R U, and then they go silent, because they got that fix. For example, wanting the feeling of connection or validation, and so you text someone some low stakes shyt, and see if they respond. Once they do, the want has been filled.
 
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