Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[re'up]

Going to Guadalajara tomorrow, four days of parties and a wedding.
You know that feeling of crazy chemistry with the bride, it will never go there, but it's there, like if you took the guardrails off, we'd be in trouble. Anyway, one of my homies wedding, should be a good trip. She's a former bottle girl and has a lot of bad girlfriends and Aunts lol.

She got her degree in English lit and we talk books, like out of one of those movie erotic thrillers.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Most chicks aren't willing to deal with someone who works 70-80 hours a week and also spends 15-20 hours a week training for a triathlon. I wasn't actually looking to date anyone she shot her shot at me. My only real focus is getting money.

I've already bushed her and decided to just focus strictly on my career.

Well don't settle

It's funny how chicks claim to want an ambitious dude who's getting money but in reality they get intimidated by that

Your best bet is to get a chick who's also into fitness and will train with you. That way you can spend quality time together and you're still being productive achieving your goals

 

[The ADD]

Going to Guadalajara tomorrow, four days of parties and a wedding.
You know that feeling of crazy chemistry with the bride, it will never go there, but it's there, like if you took the guardrails off, we'd be in trouble. Anyway, one of my homies wedding, should be a good trip. She's a former bottle girl and has a lot of bad girlfriends and Aunts lol.

She got her degree in English lit and we talk books, like out of one of those movie erotic thrillers.

Officiant: Does anyone object to the marriage of this man and woman?

@re'up:

 

[97Pac]

You ain’t focused on bread and your fitness just to wife some fat/average chick are you?

If you grinding that much you got to hold out for somebody you feel is worth it

Most super attractive females I've dealt with are insufferable.

I'd honest take an average low maintenance chick any day over a dime who's going to cause me constant problems and headaches.

 

[Ohene]

Most super attractive females I've dealt with are insufferable.

I'd honest take an average low maintenance chick any day over a dime who's going to cause me constant problems and headaches.

I agree

Average is one thing
Someone youre not remotely attracted to is another

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Most super attractive females I've dealt with are insufferable.

I'd honest take an average low maintenance chick any day over a dime who's going to cause me constant problems and headaches.

If shes causing you problems and headaches, she's not into you. Whether she's a dime or ugly as hell, doesn't matter, when a woman truly is into you she will be submissive and make things easy for you.

Be careful and make sure that the "average" chick is not also just setting for you because she's not attractive/sexy enough to get the man she really wants. Or she could be waiting for some other dude to come around. You would see some inconsistency or ups and downs in her behavior

 

[97Pac]

If shes causing you problems and headaches, she's not into you. Whether she's a dime or ugly as hell, doesn't matter, when a woman truly is into you she will be submissive and make things easy for you.

Be careful and make sure that the "average" chick is not also just setting for you because she's not attractive/sexy enough to get the man she really wants.

I'm from Miami. If you can make a Miami dime submissive I'll crown you the king. I aint got the time or effort for all that.

Just from my experience, average looking chicks require less maintenance and require less to be happy. They haven't been catered to their whole lives.

 

[Ohene]

If shes causing you problems and headaches, she's not into you. Whether she's a dime or ugly as hell, doesn't matter, when a woman truly is into you she will be submissive and make things easy for you.

Be careful and make sure that the "average" chick is not also just setting for you because she's not attractive/sexy enough to get the man she really wants. Or she could be waiting for some other dude to come around. You would see some inconsistency or ups and downs in her behavior

this is true but just becaus they make things easy to start it doesnt mean they wont become difficult months or years into a relationship
attractive women often have huge egos so they it is only a matter of time before they tweak

 

[Redwood]

this is true but just becaus they make things easy to start it doesnt mean they wont become difficult months or years into a relationship
attractive women often have huge egos so they it is only a matter of time before they tweak

You can say this about the "average" women as well

 

[DTXwavey_02]

Girl I’ve been dating for 5 months ended things after I did something that reminded her of an ex she was last with, and just completely gave up and lost it.

Sucks cause I really liked this girl but past trauma and not working on it just straight up ruined shyt smh. Tried my best to soothe her and get her to be comfortable around me, but one incident and she folded. Never dating a girl who is still hurt by her ex man.

 

[WIA20XX]

Going to Guadalajara tomorrow, four days of parties and a wedding.

I've only ever heard good things about GDL in terms of women.

 

[The ADD]

Girl I’ve been dating for 5 months ended things after I did something that reminded her of an ex she was last it, and just completely gave up and lost it.

Sucks cause I really liked this girl but past trauma and not working on it just straight up ruined shyt smh. Tried my best to soothe her and get her to be comfortable around me, but one incident and she folded. Never dating a girl who is still hurt by her ex man.

Hopefully you didn’t spend on holiday gifts

 

[DTXwavey_02]

Hopefully you didn’t spend on holiday gifts

Nope I told her I wasn’t getting her any gifts. But what confuses me is that SHE got me some gifts.

Women are a trip lol. I’ll miss her but her trauma was too much. My last break up has made me numb about relationships and the ending of them in general. I got this X-ray program to worry about next year so I’m not even tripping.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Girl I’ve been dating for 5 months ended things after I did something that reminded her of an ex she was last with, and just completely gave up and lost it.

Sucks cause I really liked this girl but past trauma and not working on it just straight up ruined shyt smh. Tried my best to soothe her and get her to be comfortable around me, but one incident and she folded. Never dating a girl who is still hurt by her ex man.

Nope I told her I wasn’t getting her any gifts. But what confuses me is that SHE got me some gifts.

Women are a trip lol. I’ll miss her but her trauma was too much. My last break up has made me numb about relationships and the ending of them in general. I got this X-ray program to worry about next year so I’m not even tripping.

How long had it been since her last relationship/ex and does she have a decent friend support system?

I personally think she’ll double back when she realizes overall how great things were between the two of you. If you treated her as well as you say you did that is.

It’s funny because in this thread it’s always about women being dramatic and traumatized but yet you self admitted that you were “numb about relationships”. No disrespect but it sounds like YOU haven’t healed yet either brother holding on to past trauma from another woman.

I’ve mostly been lurking this thread but It’s interesting because 90% of the post in this thread shyt on woman for having baggage/trauma when 90% of this thread IS us as men carrying around hardline rules and trauma from previous interactions. Me thinks that we need to sit down and heal as well. I’d think it would be a self fulfilling prophecy to continually expect a chick to break bad. Thoughts are power. I have been like that too.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Hopefully you didn’t spend on holiday gifts

Did you spend on holiday gifts/valentines with your girl early in the relationship (less than a year)? When is it green light to spend on holiday gifts in a relationship? Cause it sounds like they were in a relationship.