Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

How do you guys feel about women proposing to men?

They wanna be equal, so....

 

[MikelArteta]

This is a really good read. Hope most of you guys check for this, read the comments, too.

just read it

i love and agree witht his comment

Part of swallowing the red-pill is coming to realize just how rare it is for women to understand the repercussions of their actions and how rarer it is from them to take responsibility for them. Their lot in life is never something they did to themselves.

 

[Chrishaune]

Fuuuuuuuck, I hit this chick to kick it today and her response was "Yeah they're pretty hard.. Today's been a long day maybe we can hangout this weekend ill prob need a beak from studying "

Not gonna lie I kinda just don't even want to respond to her ass after seeing the word "maybe"

As a man, you have to play the game. If it's a woman you're really thinking could be something in your life then you have to let some things go for the sake of the relationship. You're going to have to pick your battles with women carefully. Yeah, they will piss you off at times and they won't even know that it affected you so much just like you will do to them at times. Your heart has to be open to listening to her needs too. I don't know this chick, but you do and you can make that decision. If she really is busy with school, then it sounds like she could be a good chick. But be sure if she is a good chick, then she will make you wait for some stuff that you want now. I won't go into the "be a man, stand your ground rant", because we as men sometimes miss our opportunities because we won't open up and let a woman in. Don't miss an opportunity.

 

[re'up]

Fuuuuuuuck, I hit this chick to kick it today and her response was "Yeah they're pretty hard.. Today's been a long day maybe we can hangout this weekend ill prob need a beak from studying "

Not gonna lie I kinda just don't even want to respond to her ass after seeing the word "maybe"

see this is my dilemma, I don't even want to do it to myself, but I have to take the chance, she hit me up last weekend we went for lunch her invite, she texted later, saying she had a good time and we should do again soon. So, I'm thinking I need to take the inititiave and text her to go out sometime this weekend. I really don't want to, just like you were saying, i don't want the run around I don't want to be someones experiment or novelty...but, like dude said you have to if you're interested.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

As a man, you have to play the game. If it's a woman you're really thinking could be something in your life then you have to let some things go for the sake of the relationship. You're going to have to pick your battles with women carefully. Yeah, they will piss you off at times and they won't even know that it affected you so much just like you will do to them at times. Your heart has to be open to listening to her needs too. I don't know this chick, but you do and you can make that decision. If she really is busy with school, then it sounds like she could be a good chick. But be sure if she is a good chick, then she will make you wait for some stuff that you want now. I won't go into the "be a man, stand your ground rant", because we as men sometimes miss our opportunities because we won't open up and let a woman in. Don't miss an opportunity.

I can't say anything like that because we've only hungout once, but I enjoyed it. No I can imagine her being a decent chick, she's older than me (24, I'm 21), she works and goes to school part time. I called her last night and I guess she was asleep so she ended up texting me back in the morning (which was cool). I guess for some reason since I don't text this chick (and I don't want to really do so) I'm afraid like "damn okay, we don't text, we hungout once and it was cool, but besides that she could be like ok I'm bored of this guy". I think that's purely me being a guy and feeling protective over shyt I need not to, suppose it's really the us not texting each other that has me more like fiending to see her, so when we ain't spoke imma wanna see you even more, although I set pace with no texting because I feel like it over saturates a relationship and unless we're in one we don't need to talk all day like we don't have stuff to do

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

see this is my dilemma, I don't even want to do it to myself, but I have to take the chance, she hit me up last weekend we went for lunch her invite, she texted later, saying she had a good time and we should do again soon. So, I'm thinking I need to take the inititiave and text her to go out sometime this weekend. I really don't want to, just like you were saying, i don't want the run around I don't want to be someones experiment or novelty...but, like dude said you have to if you're interested.

How old are you nikka? You should call her instead.

 

[re'up]

My insecurities and shyt has everyone asking my age wow lol...i'm 27. This girl and I have besides maybe 2 (not personal) phone calls communicated exclusively thru text for the last year or so, so thats what I'm going to go with, a personal phone call at this point feels like too much.

 

[Chrishaune]

I can't say anything like that because we've only hungout once, but I enjoyed it. No I can imagine her being a decent chick, she's older than me (24, I'm 21), she works and goes to school part time. I called her last night and I guess she was asleep so she ended up texting me back in the morning (which was cool). I guess for some reason since I don't text this chick (and I don't want to really do so) I'm afraid like "damn okay, we don't text, we hungout once and it was cool, but besides that she could be like ok I'm bored of this guy". I think that's purely me being a guy and feeling protective over shyt I need not to, suppose it's really the us not texting each other that has me more like fiending to see her, so when we ain't spoke imma wanna see you even more, although I set pace with no texting because I feel like it over saturates a relationship and unless we're in one we don't need to talk all day like we don't have stuff to do

Yeah, I feel you on the texting. There's so much going on with relationships these days, so you have to just let it take it's course. There's no set formula to it. Everybody's relationships ebbs and flows a different way. Just enjoy the time getting to know this person and don't rush it. When a woman feels rushed, she doesn't react too kindly. Let her ease into it like she wants to, it only allows her to become comfortable with you. Keep a smile on your face when you're with her. If it doesn't work out, you have your whole life ahead of you for these type of interactions. Learn from it.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Yeah, I feel you on the texting. There's so much going on with relationships these days, so you have to just let it take it's course. There's no set formula to it. Everybody's relationships ebbs and flows a different way. Just enjoy the time getting to know this person and don't rush it. When a woman feels rushed, she doesn't react too kindly. Let her ease into it like she wants to, it only allows her to become comfortable with you. Keep a smile on your face when you're with her. If it doesn't work out, you have your whole life ahead of you for these type of interactions. Learn from it.

Ah thanks, just what I needed to hear tbh.

My insecurities and shyt has everyone asking my age wow lol...i'm 27. This girl and I have besides maybe 2 (not personal) phone calls communicated exclusively thru text for the last year or so, so thats what I'm going to go with, a personal phone call at this point feels like too much.

Lol wow, that sucks man. What you insecure about? Looks? Yeah tbh, if you as goofy and timid and shyt irl as you are on hear you might not be good at phone calls. Good luck tho.

 

[Wild self]

Great info, everyone!

http://www.the-coli.com/bushes/97282-like-i-said-get-ya-sons-casket-ready-rockstar-mom.html


Reading that thread makes me for a bit, but I realize that some negative people are meant to be single and alone with ignorance like that. Travel the world and see how women really are, and you will never see your local hood the same again.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Great info, everyone!

http://www.the-coli.com/bushes/97282-like-i-said-get-ya-sons-casket-ready-rockstar-mom.html


Reading that thread makes me for a bit, but I realize that some negative people are meant to be single and alone with ignorance like that. Travel the world and see how women really are, and you will never see your local hood the same again.

Huh? Tbh I don't think she's in the wrong. If I were in her shoes I would of said something worse. That's what he gets for attacking her

 

[Turbulent]

Fuuuuuuuck, I hit this chick to kick it today and her response was "Yeah they're pretty hard.. Today's been a long day maybe we can hangout this weekend ill prob need a beak from studying "

Not gonna lie I kinda just don't even want to respond to her ass after seeing the word "maybe"

there's not really much you can say at this point so i think you have it right by not replying. "maybe", "probably"...she basically doesn't want to commit time.

mayb i would have sent her something like "cool, i understand anyway, as far as saturday, let me know when you know for sure if you want to do something."

or something like that in your own words. basically I'd put her in a position where she has to either say yes for sure or no she can't. no "maybes". and don't even think about her anymore. if another option on what to do for saturday presents itself, I wouldn't stop myself. And it's also possible she replies "ok" and then never replies. or simply never replies. i'd be ready for that as well. Anyway that's what i would do but i wouldn't say it in a harsh way. everyone has their own style. Only advice i can give you with certitude is not to focus just on her or on what she's thinking.

 

[TRUEST]

there's not really much you can say at this point so i think you have it right by not replying. "maybe", "probably"...she basically doesn't want to commit time.

mayb i would have sent her something like "cool, i understand anyway, as far as saturday, let me know when you know for sure if you want to do something."

or something like that in your own words. basically I'd put her in a position where she has to either say yes for sure or no she can't. no "maybes". and don't even think about her anymore. if another option on what to do for saturday presents itself, I wouldn't stop myself. And it's also possible she replies "ok" and then never replies. or simply never replies. i'd be ready for that as well. Anyway that's what i would do but i wouldn't say it in a harsh way. everyone has their own style. Only advice i can give you with certitude is not to focus just on her or on what she's thinking.

nah. you're devaluing yourself by saying that. all u gotto say is "sounds good".

when u start saying "i understand" after a girl cancels a date on u or does something similar, you're basically making urself look like you're used to getting that done to you.

when u say "sounds good", u basically leave the ball all in her court and u give the illusion it's whatever to you without actually saying "whatever".

i've had plans set up with a girl once on a saturday afternoon. day came, i told the girl i'm about to get ready and head over to the place we're suppose to meet. she hit me back on some "waitt, relatives just stopped over. i'll let u know when they leave". i responded with an "ok".

the entire day came and went and i didn't hear from her. and i sure as sh1t didn't say anything back to her after the last "ok". she hit me back like a week or so later. to which i didnt even act angry. i was mad. but we were doing this through text so i monitored my words very carefully so she didn't know.

anyway, about 2 months later. we finally meet and i ended up fuccking this chick like several times a weekend for like 4 straight months. during the time we hung out, she said one of the things that drew her to me was "my patience" with her. cause all that cancelling of plans she did, and all that other stuff woulda had most guys acting unbecoming, cussing her out etc. but she was kinda intrigued by my "lack of emotion". a lesson for yall.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

nah. you're devaluing yourself by saying that. all u gotto say is "sounds good".

when u start saying "i understand" after a girl cancels a date on u or does something similar, you're basically making urself look like you're used to getting that done to you.

when u say "sounds good", u basically leave the ball all in her court and u give the illusion it's whatever to you without actually saying "whatever".

i've had plans set up with a girl once on a saturday afternoon. day came, i told the girl i'm about to get ready and head over to the place we're suppose to meet. she hit me back on some "waitt, relatives just stopped over. i'll let u know when they leave". i responded with an "ok".

the entire day came and went and i didn't hear from her. and i sure as sh1t didn't say anything back to her after the last "ok". she hit me back like a week or so later. to which i didnt even act angry. i was mad. but we were doing this through text so i monitored my words very carefully so she didn't know.

anyway, about 2 months later. we finally meet and i ended up fuccking this chick like several times a weekend for like 4 straight months. during the time we hung out, she said one of the things that drew her to me was "my patience" with her. cause all that cancelling of plans she did, and all that other stuff woulda had most guys acting unbecoming, cussing her out etc. but she was kinda intrigued by my "lack of emotion". a lesson for yall.

@Turbulent naw I just said something like "haha ok, sounds good." Yeah, but hell no I won't. If she wants to see me or whatever then I think she's just trying to have the ball in her court.
@TRUEST lol how does that shyt intrigue them?

 

[DaRealness]

anyway, about 2 months later. we finally meet and i ended up fuccking this chick like several times a weekend for like 4 straight months. during the time we hung out, she said one of the things that drew her to me was "my patience" with her. cause all that cancelling of plans she did, and all that other stuff woulda had most guys acting unbecoming, cussing her out etc. but she was kinda intrigued by my "lack of emotion". a lesson for yall.

Sounds to me as if she just likes playing games more than anything else.