Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I don’t know the science behind it but I would not recommend jerking to a girl you like or plan on pursuing not saying it won’t happen all the time but I feel like there’s a psychological aspect behind it.
 
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The ADD said:
Why are you in a relationship with her if you don’t trust her to go on a girls trip?
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Its not her but not sure I trust that girls trip shyt in general. I need to be able to monitor my borad man.

Apollo Creed said:
Then y'all should he doing couples trips other wise just be single.
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We've done couple trips before but her argument is about sister hood and spending time with these girls one on one since they don't get to hang out like that and she knew most of them since high school. I mean to be fair she don't go out like that so I get it.

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what is at the heart of your concern here? As in, what's the main emotion behind everything, underneath the conflict, what are you scared of?
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Scared she would cheat or do something sneaky. Could be my conscience cause I cheated on her before or I don't really trust like that in general.

Brandsdale said:
A trip is really not a problem.

Plus you even said her friends are goody goody types so what is there to worry about?

I’m sure she’ll even FaceTime you or sum while she’s on her trip :manny:
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Lol true, I got to learn to trust her tbh but its hard for me.
Apollo Creed said:
"goody good"

y'all boys food out here man lol
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I'm telling you, one of them waiting till marriage and is a strict J but got unrealistic standards according to my girl and looking at her I felt the same. The type that always find faults with her dudes she dates. I've been around them and they kinda whack and awkward, fun to hang with but couldn't imagine them on some city girl type shyt.

Truthfully most of them ugly and fat. Their is one who is the single thot one out the bunch but the rest I don't got to worry about like that.
 
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Guvnor said:
Its not her but not sure I trust that girls trip shyt in general. I need to be able to monitor my borad man.


We've done couple trips before but her argument is about sister hood and spending time with these girls one on one since they don't get to hang out like that and she knew most of them since high school. I mean to be fair she don't go out like that so I get it.


Scared she would cheat or do something sneaky. Could be my conscience cause I cheated on her before or I don't really trust like that in general.



Lol true, I got to learn to trust her tbh but its hard for me.

I'm telling you, one of them waiting till marriage and is a strict J but got unrealistic standards according to my girl and looking at her I felt the same. The type that always find faults with her dudes she dates. I've been around them and they kinda whack and awkward, fun to hang with but couldn't imagine them on some city girl type shyt.

Truthfully most of them ugly and fat. Their is one who is the single thot one out the bunch but the rest I don't got to worry about like that.
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I`m telling you breh the most mid ass nerd chicks are getting ran when they travel lol.
 
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DaHNIC82 said:
Women are strange as fukk .

How you should have done it was tell her "have a good time."

That's gonna throw her off guard and make her stay on her toes or change her mind about going because she's wondering your next move. Gatekeeping her moves gonna push her away
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Good point, I'm just gonna let her go and stop stressing about it.

dikk her down crazy before she leave though so she don't forget. She won't find this out there lol.

Byronml said:
If you weren't raised that way, I get the thoughts that come with that situation, sometimes of what others may think when they ask you where she is. It's a respect factor, but it's also something for you and her to discuss and be comfortable with.

But if you don't give women space and time to be girly with their friends, they'll find another way to do it, or a shoulder to cry on about it.


That's a setup for all parties involved.
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That's a good point, have to have trust and give her time to be with her friends. Don't want that resentment to build so that's that. Plus she been trustworthy so I'll ease up.
 
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Everything Zen said:
my heartbreak didn't have much to do with the disrespect, the breakup, or even her, really...

it's the fact that she turned out to be the exact kind of bytch that my intuition told me she was when we first met, and that I decided to betray myself by going wit the okie doke anyway.

keep it p, brehs :whew:
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What was your intuition telling you?
 
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Guvnor said:
Scared she would cheat or do something sneaky. Could be my conscience cause I cheated on her before or I don't really trust like that in general.
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Let go of that fear. Don't lead with your fears. Doesn't mean be oblivious, but don't cling to that fear. Nothing good will ever come of that.
 
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