Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I read a lot about sex, affairs, lust, obsession, and you start thinking like those authors, the other day I had this quote like why is sex only sanctioned if it linked to domesticity, which is the opposite of passion, or when people numb all their senses that would make sex pleasurable with alcohol?

it's a hard lane to make work. To have someone be intentional about sex, but not solely for the purposes of a monogamous relationship.

Like why do I get a text from T the other night at 1:00 AM, when she's out and obviously been drinking, hi what are you up to (I was asleep)
like that's such a narrow probability, that she would reach me, when she could easily just set up a time and place.

Or my friend Y, who is one of the most controlled, shy, repressed women I know, who after like 15 drinks recently, after all day festival, started touching me, (in an unpracticed but sexy way) when I told her the next day, she was like "I'm really sorry", and I was like that is the MOST affectionate you have ever been in all the years we have known each other. Don't be sorry. but in my head, I am like this girl never has sex, and doesn't even really know how. Even in her relationships.
fam serious question, why do you type with such poor grammar?

i feel like you prolly have a lot of good shyt to say but it be hard to follow.
 

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I read a lot about sex, affairs, lust, obsession, and you start thinking like those authors, the other day I had this quote like why is sex only sanctioned if it linked to domesticity, which is the opposite of passion, or when people numb all their senses that would make sex pleasurable with alcohol?

it's a hard lane to make work. To have someone be intentional about sex, but not solely for the purposes of a monogamous relationship.

Like why do I get a text from T the other night at 1:00 AM, when she's out and obviously been drinking, hi what are you up to (I was asleep)
like that's such a narrow probability, that she would reach me, when she could easily just set up a time and place.


Or my friend Y, who is one of the most controlled, shy, repressed women I know, who after like 15 drinks recently, after all day festival, started touching me, (in an unpracticed but sexy way) when I told her the next day, she was like "I'm really sorry", and I was like that is the MOST affectionate you have ever been in all the years we have known each other. Don't be sorry. but in my head, I am like this girl never has sex, and doesn't even really know how. Even in her relationships.
real shyt though at the bolded

we know the reason why however. Men have absolutely no problem with sex; but society (and men) have unfortunately reared/indoctrinated women into thinking it is a dirty act and they are a hoe if they are sexually liberated. Combine that with the western way of coddling women and this is the result: a woman who thinks p*ssy is her only asset and so she either needs to be intoxicated or "tricked" into having sex so that she can be absolved of all accountability and avoid rejection if things go awry.

If she calls, you answer and yall fukk - she can blame it on the alcohol (no accountability).
If she calls and you don't answer - she can apologize and say she pocket dialed you (no rejection).

Subconsciously all women think this way. You can do your best not to judge a girl, to let her talk about sex freely etc. and there is still a strong possibility that she will repress those desires. I say this from experience... I recall basically exactly a year ago, having a woman with whom I had great chemistry with on her knees, my dikk in her hand, on her lips - only to stop and say, "It's too early, guys act weird after sex".
 
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fam serious question, why do you type with such poor grammar?

i feel like you prolly have a lot of good shyt to say but it be hard to follow.

To me, it seems like the grammar is on point lol

I read a lot and it comes out in my conversations on and off like, mimicking what I read or a style.

I remember you saying that a while back too and I really looked at it. Maybe the syntax? more conversational to my specific style of talking/back ground, there's probably several different influences in any given post, academic, literary, and a more 'street slur' going on. but to me, that post reads pretty clean.
 

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Fellas gotta stop listening to tricks who tell them "Get your money right first and then you start dating".

The best experience is shooting your shot even when you don't have nothing at the moment. If you can afford to take her out then why not? If she leaves you or wants nothing to do with you because you not a millionaire or a clout demon then you know where it stands and you know she's only for your wallet.

This is why a lot of dudes whom reached and grabbed the indangle carrot are depressed now. They will never really know for sure if she's with him because of his lifestyle or for him.

The sad reality occurs when they realize that once they hit a downside. That bad bytch they bag leaves them.

Plus even when you get the bag, you gonna feel you are competing with men with MORE money. It's a cycle that never stops. You have to be comfortable in your own skin first

it’s not about being a trick or simp. Capital gives you options to fly away from that continent and meet women who are down to earth and not slaves to the hive mind of American consumerism.

Developing skills and your body mean you won’t be thirsty for these women and will dismiss them in seconds.

Nobody said anything about keeping these broads - just dispose of them when you’re done and on to the next one.
 

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it’s not about being a trick or simp. Capital gives you options to fly away from that continent and meet women who are down to earth and not slaves to the hive mind of American consumerism.

Developing skills and your body mean you won’t be thirsty for these women and will dismiss them in seconds.

Nobody said anything about keeping these broads - just dispose of them when you’re done and on to the next one.
:whoo:
 

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To me, it seems like the grammar is on point lol

I read a lot and it comes out in my conversations on and off like, mimicking what I read or a style.

I remember you saying that a while back too and I really looked at it. Maybe the syntax? more conversational to my specific style of talking/back ground, there's probably several different influences in any given post, academic, literary, and a more 'street slur' going on. but to me, that post reads pretty clean.
Lol strange. But nah the grammar is all over the place. Lots of fragments and combining clauses together that are better off as their own sentences for example

It is what it is though
 

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Simps getting out of hand

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They buying chicks these bundles of roses with 20, 50 and 100 bills in them. And they give them to the chick, she goes and posts it on social media but doesn't post the guy.

I was fukking this chick consistently and then last week she said she can't because she has a boyfriend, now she posted this bundle of roses and money to her story. So dude bought her I guess
:russ::francis: A week ago she was cleaning my nut off her glasses

shyt wild, chicks going to the highest bidder
Another one.
:russ:

I just smashed this chick last weekend. For free. She just posted this to her status today.

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Simps getting out of hand

hWTrkO1dayIV.jpg


They buying chicks these bundles of roses with 20, 50 and 100 bills in them. And they give them to the chick, she goes and posts it on social media but doesn't post the guy.

I was fukking this chick consistently and then last week she said she can't because she has a boyfriend, now she posted this bundle of roses and money to her story. So dude bought her I guess
:russ::francis: A week ago she was cleaning my nut off her glasses

shyt wild, chicks going to the highest bidder
lol this is the literal definition of simping

but we've created the rule "it aint tricking if you got it". So essentially dudes are still gonna do this cheesy shyt and you cant get at em cause then you're pocket watching :manny:
 

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lol this is the literal definition of simping

but we've created the rule "it aint tricking if you got it". So essentially dudes are still gonna do this cheesy shyt and you cant get at em cause then you're pocket watching :manny:
Hey if they wanna spend their bread that's on them. The solid brehs that know who they are and where they stand don't have to. I've been over plenty chics cribs for the nightcap after someone else just wined and dined them. They warmed her up and I just show up with a bottle of liquor to finish the job and I'm outta there before the sun rises. It's a cold game but I didn't make the rules I just adjusted to the climate for my benefit
 
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