Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Man I’m trying to get one more chance to talk to this chick at my gym. Long story short I was doing seated rows and she was next to me on the side of her own machine doing the same thing. She comes over to my area to workout next to me even though her area was empty and started talking to me. I froze up lowkey :snoop:

I’ll skip what happen the second time but I got to start a proper conversation when I see her today (hopefully).
 

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That shy sħit irks me we are adults learn how to communicate especially since they are considered the more intelligent gender I have enough girls bold towards me you think I’m skipping them over the shy girl that might not be into me
I like the bold too… but idk, its like they see you how you are at the moment

A wife see’s you at all times. Shy chicks like you because they observe the details. They like your details…

Just a thought

And if you can make a loud chick shy.. almost like when she was a kid and she saw you was that nikka then. And being in your presence gives her goosebumps.

I like those..

Say something that makes her blush… it’s over then
 

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Man I’m trying to get one more chance to talk to this chick at my gym. Long story short I was doing seated rows and she was next to me on the side of her own machine doing the same thing. She comes over to my area to workout next to me even though her area was empty and started talking to me. I froze up lowkey :snoop:

I’ll skip what happen the second time but I got to start a proper conversation when I see her today (hopefully).

hesitation is often mistaken for strategy. My thing is have something to say already in your mind, but not just an attention grabber, somewhere you want the exchange to go. If I see someone, I already am trying to think where to invite her based on her style, looks, context, whatever.

it's easier to grab someone's attention than hold it for a few minutes.
 
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Had a thought… didnt want to make a thread

But when a woman is shy around you. Thats when you really know.

I was watching some vids over the days.. T-pain telling the story of how him and his wife met.

Then I had my own things happen… then was just chillin with some wine, and Fantasias “When I See You” popped up.. and it hit me..

These chicks if they really like you, be shy and weird af. Marry those…
True, but theres a dude she isn't shy around thats smashing and this dude is someone you wouldn't expect she'd give a chance to. Thats why you see medium ugly dudes with attractive women
 

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Talking to 2 chicks I met online at the same time. One has 3 kids she’s 45 but fine as all hell and thick :damn: She’s for fun, went out for drinks im in there next time

The other is an old fashioned southern belle no kids wifey material she’s talkin submissive old school morals super feminine, and going off her pics I think she’s a news anchor or something :wtf: Date is tomorrow

After the date with the 45 year old I called the wifey one by accident and said ‘yea just making sure you got home’ :snoop::mjcry: Story of my fukin life
 

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Talking to 2 chicks I met online at the same time. One has 3 kids she’s 45 but fine as all hell and thick :damn: She’s for fun, went out for drinks im in there next time

The other is an old fashioned southern belle no kids wifey material she’s talkin submissive old school morals super feminine, and going off her pics I think she’s a news anchor or something :wtf: Date is tomorrow

After the date with the 45 year old I called the wifey one by accident and said ‘yea just making sure you got home’ :snoop::mjcry: Story of my fukin life
Don’t make it 4
 

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Talking to 2 chicks I met online at the same time. One has 3 kids she’s 45 but fine as all hell and thick :damn: She’s for fun, went out for drinks im in there next time

The other is an old fashioned southern belle no kids wifey material she’s talkin submissive old school morals super feminine, and going off her pics I think she’s a news anchor or something :wtf: Date is tomorrow

After the date with the 45 year old I called the wifey one by accident and said ‘yea just making sure you got home’ :snoop::mjcry: Story of my fukin life

NO SUCH THING AS AN OLD SCHOOL SUBMISSIVE MORAL CHICK THAT WOULD BE TALKING TO YOU ONLINE IT IS A TRAP nikka
:russ: :russ: :russ:

The legit ones which are a RARE MINORITY you would meet in person in places they do philanthropy or their hobby.
 

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Something that isn’t talked about enough is how lazy black women are

They will do everything in the book except simply go to the gym and find every excuse not to. It’s so unattractive

Black men need to stop sanctioning women who are overweight and calling them thick
 

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Something that isn’t talked about enough is how lazy black women are

They will do everything in the book except simply go to the gym and find every excuse not to. It’s so unattractive

Black men need to stop sanctioning women who are overweight and calling them thick
:lupe:
 

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Man I’m trying to get one more chance to talk to this chick at my gym. Long story short I was doing seated rows and she was next to me on the side of her own machine doing the same thing. She comes over to my area to workout next to me even though her area was empty and started talking to me. I froze up lowkey :snoop:

I’ll skip what happen the second time but I got to start a proper conversation when I see her today (hopefully).
spark a convo next time you see her

I would dead ass just tell her about being nervous. If you be honest about that I doubt she'd be turned off.

If she is, then fukk her and find a new gym baddie :manny:
 

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Something that isn’t talked about enough is how lazy black women are

They will do everything in the book except simply go to the gym and find every excuse not to. It’s so unattractive

Black men need to stop sanctioning women who are overweight and calling them thick

This sounds like a callback to the Mack Lessons era of Tariq :mjlol:
 
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