Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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MikelArteta said:
The thing about these apps is the high these women get. You can be an average looking chick sign up and have hundreds of dudes elevating you calling you beautiful and this and that, wanting to take you out and once you get a sniff of all that attention, random dates being picky as hell knowing there is someone else you can try . These chicks will never be satisfied. That's why you can delete your account sign up 6 months from now and run into the same 80% of women.

It's like them chicks making money on onlyfans etc. they ain't going to stop and delete their accounts and go get a reg job where they gotta work 40 hrs a week because they tasted that sweet nectar of easy $$.
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so I read an interesting piece, which kind of put into more academic language part of what you are describing and part of what I was trying to explain to myself last week, it wasn't about apps specifically but tell me this isn't right on

People are comforted by being in touch with a lot of people -carefully kept at bay. We can't get enough of one another if we can use technology to keep one another at distances we can control: not too close, not too far. Texting and emailing lets us present the self we want to be.

and this is from 2012. so that person saw the all as far back as then. which is fukking wild to me. This is something I can see other people doing in my everyday life. Women specifically. but men too.
 
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sometimes I go on this high end escort site when I am bored I never call them. tell me why I see this bytch on the escort site who is on hinge and she says she is a real estate agent. even uses one of the photos from eros on her hinge profile and the same name on eros. shyt is crazy.
 
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Saw another EROS escort again walking her dog in our neighborhood, early in the morning. We both looked at each other funny for a second, if I had a minute more, I would have said something. She was only burned out because she has an insane BBL, but without makeup, you couldn't tell, but her hips and BBL gave it away.
 
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re'up said:
read a book this year which talked about a generation, lets just say 20-40, and how we deal with conflict, mostly people are so conflict averse, that they cut and run at ANY sign of a conflict. Which means blocking someone, ghosting them, deleting them, whatever. Not because of any real harmful issue, but ANY perceived difference. This is a social media effect, where you follow/unfollow, block/allow access.

Communication has changed, it will vary person to person, but this is the new 'normal', for whatever our old frame of reference was, 2006, 1999, 2009.
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Whats the name of that book. Always looking for new reading materials
 
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Whats the name of that book. Always looking for new reading materials
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Run through a lot of this material, but pretty sure this was from Sheila Limine Hanging Out 2023

one of the concepts was that conflict resolution has stalled or diminished, esp. in 20-40 age because of how reactionary people become with social media.

The idea is basically that lets say 25 years ago, our closest friends, as kids, we would spend hours and hours with, just hanging out. There would often be conflicts, in the playground, the basketball court, sleeping over, but they would be resolved, and the bond between friends would deepen. You would learn to resolve conflict. Because that time was there to do that. You wouldn't just be able to block them or unfollow or whatever.

The way people interact and engage now, a lot of it is through screen interactions. And quicker, more structured meet ups. For drinks, for happy hour, for dinner, whatever. I think you can see a lot of this in how people interact currently.
 
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re'up said:
Run through a lot of this material, but pretty sure this was from Sheila Limine Hanging Out 2023

one of the concepts was that conflict resolution has stalled or diminished, esp. in 20-40 age because of how reactionary people become with social media.

The idea is basically that lets say 25 years ago, our closest friends, as kids, we would spend hours and hours with, just hanging out. There would often be conflicts, in the playground, the basketball court, sleeping over, but they would be resolved, and the bond between friends would deepen. You would learn to resolve conflict. Because that time was there to do that. You wouldn't just be able to block them or unfollow or whatever.

The way people interact and engage now, a lot of it is through screen interactions. And quicker, more structured meet ups. For drinks, for happy hour, for dinner, whatever. I think you can see a lot of this in how people interact currently.
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For sure just ordered it. You got any other book recommendations?
 
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