RealCrownHeights
All Star
yea I’m more than happy with a refurbished authentic eBay Rolex for like 2 or 3gs.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Brandsdale
Big Yella
Im asking genuinely,
why is the price of her ring or your band that important?
Brandsdale
Big Yella
noticing more and more that:
your wedding and all the semantics >>>>>>>>>>your actual relationship
your wedding and all the semantics >>>>>>>>>>your actual relationship
^^^
RealCrownHeights
All Star
I could care less about how much the band cost for me, it holds less significance than the girl with the ring. I just always wanted a rolex. For her, we were discussing finances and I need to get her sizing anyway. So I said well I won't be going out much in October, just watching football and maybe task rabbit on the side to make some more bread, then the subject of how much the ring and wedding etc.
This kind of directly ties to the post you quoted. As women rise in life, they get pickier about who the want to relate with.
It’s all related.
Brandsdale
Big Yella
i get it.
Still not sure why the pricing of the ring was an important topic tho but im sure yall have reasons
buy what you want.
I bought a lab created diamond ring when I got engaged to my wife and it was under 1500 1ct solitaire
for the wedding band I spent like 100 dollars on a Moissanite ring off amazon
hell even my wedding band she was gonna spend all this money i just told her get me a 5 dollar one off shein and it's what I'm wearing
yup and pickings get slimmer and before they know it they almost 40 and single
I'm 39 and my wife is 31. My wife is humble and submissive and when she cared for me when i was sick was what made me look at her in a different light. I didn't care about no mba, no waterfront condo, no fancy car, no six figure job what alot of these women risers in life think are accomplishments to men. Nah I cared about how she treated me, how she listens to me.
chicks got that oakland a's payroll and holding out for that shohei ohtani 50/50 when that ish is rare as hell and let me tell you TIME FLIES. Feels like the other day I was 27 posting on the coli now I just turned 39 a few months ago
For men we are lucky that say even at 38, 39 you can still snag a 27, 28, 29, 30, 31 year old but for women you 35, 36 , 37, 38, 39 and yeah. I remember going out on a date when I was 37 with a chick who was 39. Literally first date and she's asking me if I want children, how long would we have to date before marriage etc. etc. , not saying all chicks are like that who are that age but yeah
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Great example. That's how you get threads like this which prove the examples mentioned
https://www.thecoli.com/threads/bes...-passport-worthy.1052145/page-2#post-53858350
The crawling simps who get absolutely no acknowledgement from this chick.
They have basically inflated her head to think she's important when all she is doing is mostly showing herself in various states of undress.
As I said in my post in that thread she pissed a lot of her male followers off yesterday as she revealed she had a BF usually she would have a ton of emoji replies from horny guys, today only 1 of those type of guys replied and that was to say he was unfollowing
So pathetic.
I make it a personal crusade to never inflate a woman's head
Brandsdale
Big Yella
slowly noticing how weddings and marriage proposals in the GTA be so unnecessary lmao
Buy a ring on clearance but give her the retail price.
read the Wall Street Journal and the Reddit post, some interesting things in both. Wanted to contribute this, based on last night and throw out another kind of debate point, so last night I was in a spot in TJ, it's a strip club but it is legal prostitution. and very very cheap. It's a famous place, and I know this scene well, rarely have gone as an adult, but roll with my boys sometimes while they do their thing, I just chill and watch the dancers, turn down girl after girl who approaches, which brings me to the point:
My boys are their own category, both can and do have no real issue meeting women, they are doing well financially, and all other things equal, well adjusted, in terms of looks, money. By most standards they are balling crazy hard. New 7 series, expensive watches. Businesses, properties.
so in this place, you see more women then you can imagine. From the crazy sculpted bodies of porn stars, 38DD, 40 inch ass, to the younger, natural ones, and everything in between. Probably over 100 women. Maybe 150. Essentially any one of them you can have sex with for $100 or $150. Model quality women, to the normal ones. So, there's this whole category of men from communities I know, who basically have given up on dating/sex/relationships. Mostly average looking, and above average/high to average incomes. Meaning they aren't broke or poor. They just go down there, sometimes 3X a week. You see them down there everytime.
and what happens is the sex workers/women, they work them. but it's kinda mutual. (my boys do this too) You have sex and establish some kind of communication, and then they keep seeing each other, next week, next month, whatever, they whatapp --on or off the clock, but mostly on. It becomes like a girlfriend of sorts, except obviously in this deeply transactional way. They say whats the point of dating if I can just come down here. This goes directly to the WSJ and other piece.
My homie and I were talking about it afterward, and they always wonder why I don't participate. and it's not for moral reasons, not really, and it's not the money, and he was saying well it's all the same. and I do truly understand skipping the pretense, also kind of struggled to really explain why it was different. but maybe if I need to explain it, there's too big a divide already. The best I can come up with this second, is a place like that streamlines everything into this very basically traditional system, with near zero barrier to entry but in that process loses, obscures, or blurs any real sense of intimacy, connection, or actual mutual desire.
My boys are their own category, both can and do have no real issue meeting women, they are doing well financially, and all other things equal, well adjusted, in terms of looks, money. By most standards they are balling crazy hard. New 7 series, expensive watches. Businesses, properties.
so in this place, you see more women then you can imagine. From the crazy sculpted bodies of porn stars, 38DD, 40 inch ass, to the younger, natural ones, and everything in between. Probably over 100 women. Maybe 150. Essentially any one of them you can have sex with for $100 or $150. Model quality women, to the normal ones. So, there's this whole category of men from communities I know, who basically have given up on dating/sex/relationships. Mostly average looking, and above average/high to average incomes. Meaning they aren't broke or poor. They just go down there, sometimes 3X a week. You see them down there everytime.
and what happens is the sex workers/women, they work them. but it's kinda mutual. (my boys do this too) You have sex and establish some kind of communication, and then they keep seeing each other, next week, next month, whatever, they whatapp --on or off the clock, but mostly on. It becomes like a girlfriend of sorts, except obviously in this deeply transactional way. They say whats the point of dating if I can just come down here. This goes directly to the WSJ and other piece.
My homie and I were talking about it afterward, and they always wonder why I don't participate. and it's not for moral reasons, not really, and it's not the money, and he was saying well it's all the same. and I do truly understand skipping the pretense, also kind of struggled to really explain why it was different. but maybe if I need to explain it, there's too big a divide already. The best I can come up with this second, is a place like that streamlines everything into this very basically traditional system, with near zero barrier to entry but in that process loses, obscures, or blurs any real sense of intimacy, connection, or actual mutual desire.
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Tommy Lee Jones
All Star
I used to mess with the stripper and I bagged her because I didn't treat her like a stripper. I met her through a mutual so it was a little different but she pretty much told me she liked me because I didn't treat her like a stripper.
Strip clubs and something like the place I described are almost exactly alike, but the difference is, you can 100% have sex with all the girls. And almost 100% are doing that. In a strip club, there's some that are down on the side, or guys game them up, but this is like:
imagine a catwalk/strip club, and any girl you look at it, you can have sex with for $100 or $160.