thanks breh
not trying to pry I just find the whole thing fascinating
Honestly it's crazy and most people don't believe when I tell em
I never ever planned on getting married number 1. I've been through it all, failed engagement, ex using my brother in law (whose a pastor) to officiate her wedding, women telling me I'm as cold as stone etc. but yeah they just weren't the one and we thank God!!
Number 2 I waa into this other girl and went on like 5 dates with her but I was always doing all the work and literally right before I left for my trip I said nah I'm done
Number 3
I've been to like 50 plus countries in my life and met people in each and everyone but never dated anyone oetc.
Number 4 till this day I said if I never got sick it would have prob gone nowhere.
She barely knew me and I was deathly ill bed ridden, every few minutes I'd be crawling to the toilet and just water would come out of me. Didn't eat for three days yet she stayed with me through it all. Wiped my dirty bum and all
Which led for me inviting her to join me on my Kenya and Rwanda trip
I keep telling people it's only God my main goal was to go to Rwanda but because of the East Africa visa you get 3 countries in one I went to Uganda. And thar changed the whole trajectory of my life.
When my 84 year old grandma travelled 32 hrs for my white wedding my wife met her and bowed and gave her flowers
I was like
And after my parents and grandma spent two weeks here when they told me yeah you made the right choice. It's the heart I had to take my dad to the hospital down here and it was literally a day before our white wedding my wife had alot to do, hair, makeup, appointments etc. but she was like nah and stayed with all day while he has tests run. And just ended up doing her hair and makeup herself on our wedding little things like that
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