I feel once you become the best version of yourself you will soon see what your "level" is when it comes to women.
And I disagree with this idea of "build it and they will come".
It does not work in practice.
You can work out, dress well, have money in your pocket, but then its still your job to run up on these hoes and bump your gums.
Lotta cats don't even speak to a broad unless they detect "choosing signals".
Meanwhile, cats that are clearly NOT the best versions of themselves slay Hood Rats and PhD's, septum ring chicks and Church Girls.
IMO, men are not like women- they can't just "be" and then somehow attract what they want
Men must DO.
If you have the look, the steez, all the better. But pretty boys still gotta rap.
But if you know what you're doing - things can happen that would not happen.
It's 2 ways of looking at the issue - neither side is right.
Do the Least (how little can you do? Do you even need to shower?)
Do the Most (There's no upper bound, but when do you get diminishing returns?)
But I tell cats that aren't getting their needs met to opt for things that gets them in action, rather than inaction or just reaction.
To bring it back down to IG - cat not using social media is not taking part in the culture that everyone else is.
MOST Hoes, especially the young ones are really not checking for a cat that's an "independent" thinker.
And if you can't deal with the typical questions
- Where do you live?
- What do you do for work?
- What kinda car you drive?
- Where are your friends?
- What's your IG?
This is all basic, first 5 minutes of the conversation stuff.
Cats that are all dodgy about this and that - lose most chicks and end up dealing with chicks that DGAF about the basics.