The longer you stay single, you get even less connected to your married friends
I don’t even get invited out with these nikkas anymore (prob cause I don’t have a chic to double date with)
Just sad to think about cause it’s harder to also make friends as you get older unless they from work or sum. It’s kinda better to find someone I feel
I don't exactly feel like this, but understand the sentiments....I was "third wheel" for a lot of my friendships, but to me, that's cool. That's me. Also, upper classes have a lot of gender/traditional enforcements, but it's really
most enforced in the middle/upper/lower class. Because what's considered normal is considered safe and therefore valid.
a few years ago one of my boys from high school, whose wife also went to high school with us, he goes, "now we can all go have dinner, you are finally in a relationship"
and I'm like,
this is why you don't invite me bro?! - lol -The three of us from high school would have an easier convo than a couples dinner-- but there is an institutionalized kind of thing, with two men and two women. Boys talk and girls talk.
and the concept of being a "couple" means you do paired activities. which to me, all connects to me aversion to most of that.