I’m 23 she 29
This better be a FWB and nothing more
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This better be a FWB and nothing more
RealAssanova
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That’s why more and more, especially nowadays, in person >>>>>
Whether its outside in the park, at the grocery store, in the mall, walking around your neighbourhood.
I look at it like…the more i approach in person and succeed…the more socially dominant i become.
Even if i fail…i still look at it as confidence building that will get me to the eventual point of just being smooth.
And that is very attractive.
Online dating imo doesn’t help achieve that.
There's too much resistance against offline/in person/real interactions these days.
It's not just dating. And honestly, it's not like I'm above it myself.
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Malik1time
What you looking at?
so ole girl I been dating for a month now… shawty told me she gonna go out last night.. im like
ok have fun…… around 11ish I send a text to be stay safe… got no response than today around 1pm I hit her saying haven’t Hurd form you since yesterday afternoon…. Her response is “ hey I’m at the mall wyd now”
Imma take this L and move on
I find that response disrespectful or maybe I’m tripping but nah that response is terrible I don’t even know how to respond to that bullshyt
ok have fun…… around 11ish I send a text to be stay safe… got no response than today around 1pm I hit her saying haven’t Hurd form you since yesterday afternoon…. Her response is “ hey I’m at the mall wyd now”Imma take this L and move on
I find that response disrespectful or maybe I’m tripping but nah that response is terrible
I don’t even know how to respond to that bullshytIs y'all exclusive?
Malik1time
What you looking at?
We only been dating for like a month, we had a brief conversation about that but she thinks I talk to other women cuz we still getting to know each other and it’s still so early even when I’m not
One part of me is like well we not together so I shouldn’t trip about her not texting me all she safe and not hitting me up in the morning.. I’m tired of always initiating with her
I’m thinking just taking a step back cuz I’m clearly doing a lot and the energy ain’t matching
This part hurts, but at least you see it.
lol we discussed this earlier. if she aint initiating after a couple rendezvous then you are an afterthought. its really that simple.
treat her as a fukkting or keep it moving.
either you never cross her mind, or you cross her mind and she decides youre not worth hitting up
whatever the case and reasons might be, the implications are negative. so, dont chase. there is a woman out there who will show you genuine interest
whatever the case and reasons might be, the implications are negative. so, dont chase. there is a woman out there who will show you genuine interest
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so ole girl I been dating for a month now… shawty told me she gonna go out last night.. im like
Imma take this L and move on
I find that response disrespectful or maybe I’m tripping but nah that response is terrible
People play a lot of games with texts. Sometimes not even intentional. Picture someone'e emotional currents, and how much it can change in a 12 hour or 2 hour period. Esp. with alcohol involved. Why not just address it directly? You will at least know whats up.
to me it kind of sounds like she is gauging your responses. and withholding. if she hit you that she was going out, that''s kind of an invite or no? an opening for you to meet up, or tell her come back to your spot after. and if you missed that, she may feel rejected. Valid or not not, that may be whats up.
BlaccSunrise
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For brehs who cold approach, is it just a numbers game? I've been cold approaching, getting numbers... but I'm wondering if I should stand and talk to them for like 10 minutes or do my usual, "Excuse me, I saw you, thought you were cute/etc and wanted to get to know you. You mind if I grab your number and we can talk later" I'm usually on the move anyway and don't wanna take all their time talking about nothin in the store
Even tho I'm getting numbers.... the texting be slow... should I go ahead and set something up? or get to know them a lil thru text/phone?
How yall play it?
Even tho I'm getting numbers.... the texting be slow... should I go ahead and set something up? or get to know them a lil thru text/phone?
How yall play it?
all depends on the depth and intensity of whatever connection you made, for me. what you said sounds a lot like me, in that kind of situation. but the talk about nothing is something I just bypass entirely.
Just Thursday, had a crazy intense eye contact moment with a gorgeous woman, held each others eyes for way too long--we were both walking right by each other, opposite direction, and I could have MAYBE done it. So, from where she was walking and what she was wearing, she was a lawyer or leaving an event at a law school. If I had under 3 minutes: established that I thought she was gorgeous. Established that she's a lawyer, and I'm interested in that profession, and have some knowledge of it. and then bring up somewhere we can go to eat, drink, whatever in the area, that she may have heard of, but not been to- and then follow up with that invite in text, so there's no 'getting to know you' or hows your day small talk.
skyrunner1
Superstar
Been a couple cold approach post in here lately..
In past I would say no but when I get on hot streaks I cant deny it probably is.. I been a shooter tho since I can remember
I will also say I go by vibe of interaction and go from there. Can be something quick and tend to lean that way more NOW but have also been in situations where we sit n talk for awhile (again depend on situation)
Best example, probably told story before but I have two seperate that both happen in mall. See a women, bad. She go in food court and I say Ima regret if I dont atleast get rejected. Pull up and say something like hey we should get to know eachother, could I sit and eat with you (she was already sitting with food) she asked where my food at? I said we could share her plate, she laughed and said nooooo but could join her. We sat and talked for a couple hours.
( I dont have the patience for this now)Another at mall was shopping, I came from like an early lunch and was tryna kill time and was already lit, cross paths and said can I shop with her, she was receptive, we talked for a bit and I said lets go to a bar and get to know each other. Sat at bar in grand luxe, it was a women bartender and I was bouncing/playing off both of them, that played out crazy same day with the one I met.
All that to say I play it shorter now but not nearly as short as you imply in post. I atleast say wassup, get a little convo, make an observation, (always keeping temperature in mind) tell a quick joke, better to leave early than stay to long is something I learned. But a quick 5 min convo cant hurt you atleast got to get some type of wave length there.
Also I let them know I want to talk on phone quick because its hard at beginning to get to know someone thru text. When I explain that they understand. Then when I call I say I hate talking on phone but want to make sure not crazy, Im not tryna create a bad precedence because ever since younger days I am a BEAST on the phone but I dont have time nowdays to be attached like that. Its such a strength tho in the beginning.