im just saying in general men need to vet women we shouldn't be open to doing this and that on the first date before you even meet. if she's not down with something lowkey or doesn't understand this then she's probably not a good women and just wants to go on dates. After a few dates I don't mind going out somewhere downtown and all that.
IDK what city you in but if the weather is warm usually there is a ton of outdoor free shyt for spring/summer in most major cities. I`d keep it to stuff like that.