im from chicagoBreh/creh.....man what is the matter with you
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Brandsdale
Big Yella
seek therapy breh. Seriously, not even trolling
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Brandsdale
Big Yella
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
huh??
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Also, this is maybe too academic for the convo, but in 2019 I read this "landmark" study in book form, like anthropological approach-- it's called Sexual Citizens, about sexuality/sex/dating at Columbia University and it was really insightful, but I went back and read it again about 2 months ago, and there was one part that stood out the most:
the degree to which (stress) and sexual shame is at the heart of why drunk sex is so common.
and having spent years in the bar and club scenes, sober, or any where really, I saw this up close, putting the academic reading on it made it so much easier to understand. Lots of men and women I know equally share in this. Just the way we view sex. on a practical level, I know some women who have really sexy instagrams, look good in person, but they need like 11 drinks to actually become sexual.
and I think for men this follows a somewhat similar pattern. and to tie this to the club scene/college, this is why binge drinking is such an essential part of the process for most people. Because for years I have said, why clubs? why bottle service? why all this artifice for what's really going on
but like most things it serves an essential role.
the degree to which (stress) and sexual shame is at the heart of why drunk sex is so common.
and having spent years in the bar and club scenes, sober, or any where really, I saw this up close, putting the academic reading on it made it so much easier to understand. Lots of men and women I know equally share in this. Just the way we view sex. on a practical level, I know some women who have really sexy instagrams, look good in person, but they need like 11 drinks to actually become sexual.
and I think for men this follows a somewhat similar pattern. and to tie this to the club scene/college, this is why binge drinking is such an essential part of the process for most people. Because for years I have said, why clubs? why bottle service? why all this artifice for what's really going on
but like most things it serves an essential role.
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Iceson Beckford
Rich In Spirit.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
This dating thing is a numbers game.
On dating apps, I copy & paste a message to 25 women.10 women respond, then maybe 4-5 women are fully responsive & we have a videocall. If all goes well 2-3 women we have a date.I have smashed many women on dating apps using this formula.
Always keep your options open, if a woman is flakey, wants you to jump through hoops, etc fall back & find another woman.
On dating apps, I copy & paste a message to 25 women.10 women respond, then maybe 4-5 women are fully responsive & we have a videocall. If all goes well 2-3 women we have a date.I have smashed many women on dating apps using this formula.
Always keep your options open, if a woman is flakey, wants you to jump through hoops, etc fall back & find another woman.
skyrunner1
Superstar
This is why touch is an important part of date.. All that spending bread or things getting stretched out get cut short when you close that distance and put the ball in her court.. If she feeling you, its gonna be natural.. if not, you will know and can keep it moving..
Digital Omen
All Star
How you deal with #dogset women when you a neutron?
I'm Switzerland when it comes to dogs, cats, whatever. I don't like or dislike them. I'm like
I walk in like *pats pet on the head* oh that's your pet? ok cool you ready?
But this one chick I been cavorting with is a hardcore lifer #dogset
She has 2 dogs. Don't know (or care) what breed but they're fluffy white small dogs
She cooks their meals
They sleep in her bed
I stayed over last weekend and around 2 am one of them started woofing and she woke up and took it outside to pee
One of them straight up follows her like a bodyguard on some not letting her out of his sight
if she's in the kitchen, he's in the kitchen
We were showering and the damm dog was about to tear the bathroom door down. Having a meltdown and shyt.
I asked her what's the deal? she said she's had them over 10 years and it is what it is
The box is fire but I'm creeped out by the canine obsession
I'm Switzerland when it comes to dogs, cats, whatever. I don't like or dislike them. I'm like
I walk in like *pats pet on the head* oh that's your pet? ok cool you ready?
But this one chick I been cavorting with is a hardcore lifer #dogset
She has 2 dogs. Don't know (or care) what breed but they're fluffy white small dogs
She cooks their meals
They sleep in her bed
I stayed over last weekend and around 2 am one of them started woofing and she woke up and took it outside to pee
One of them straight up follows her like a bodyguard on some not letting her out of his sight
if she's in the kitchen, he's in the kitchen
We were showering and the damm dog was about to tear the bathroom door down. Having a meltdown and shyt.
I asked her what's the deal? she said she's had them over 10 years and it is what it is
The box is fire but I'm creeped out by the canine obsession
I'm definitely electron when it comes to women holding slaves for cuteness and affection.
Keeping a living thing around because she don't want to not feel lonely, she wants to nurture and take care of something? That's a sickness.
Lot of chicks get them because their friends or celebrities have them.
I realized that no broad is fine enough to deal with that type of mental illness.
4 billion women in the world, I need to raise my profile and sharpen my game to eliminate the insane.
How you deal with #dogset women when you a neutron?
I'm Switzerland when it comes to dogs, cats, whatever. I don't like or dislike them. I'm like
I walk in like *pats pet on the head* oh that's your pet? ok cool you ready?
But this one chick I been cavorting with is a hardcore lifer #dogset
She has 2 dogs. Don't know (or care) what breed but they're fluffy white small dogs
She cooks their meals
They sleep in her bed
I stayed over last weekend and around 2 am one of them started woofing and she woke up and took it outside to pee
One of them straight up follows her like a bodyguard on some not letting her out of his sight
if she's in the kitchen, he's in the kitchen
We were showering and the damm dog was about to tear the bathroom door down. Having a meltdown and shyt.
I asked her what's the deal? she said she's had them over 10 years and it is what it is
The box is fire but I'm creeped out by the canine obsession
Spend less time at her place, come over smash and be out and/or have her come over to your place for the same.