i feel you, and totally I get having insecurities and whatnot (i have a few myself), but that can be resolved in therapy and a solid group of friends and family around you, thats the whole thing when it comes to building confidence and self-esteem. My point is for men in here to ease their mind a bit in dating and that confidence is a tool to meeting more women. Confidence speaks volumes and I think dudes in this thread forget that
confidence is a vital part of chasing women and relationships, often times it can nullify your insecurities and to not see them shortcomings anymore.
I also understand that not every dude has access to therapy, friends or family but things like this thread can also be a tool to learn and build confidence (thanks to critique from dudes in here and giving resolutions) but often times nikkas jump to bullying (which ive noticed nikkas do all this year lol) and then dudes curse out this group and come back months later asking for help again
think if folks can be a bit less chippy and come from a learning perspective, this thread could be more helpful imo