Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

okay y'all

 

[Guvnor]

What made you think she needed closure?

Well we were on and again and of again for years. We didn't end on good terms and so I thought maybe it would be good to kind of end things on a good note and move forward letting the chapter be closed.

Like I said, I knew better but just hoped I was wrong here lol.

Thinking men and women are equal is how dudes get themselves screwed up lol. Women are their own classification so we cant put Adult Man standards on them because you are asking to be let down every time. You really shouldnt even deal with women and not expect to take on the emotional labor associated. Its why some cats rather be bachelors and just take the emotional labor in doses they can manage rather the burden of a relationship which in 2023 many cats are statting to feel isnt even worth it

That's fact! Sucks but that's how shyt is now a days. Too many of them are delusional or real pains to deal with.

 

[Guvnor]

Double post

 

[The ADD]

Well we were on and again and of again for years. We didn't end on good terms and so I thought maybe it would be good to kind of end things on a good note and move forward letting the chapter be closed.

Like I said, I knew better but just hoped I was wrong here lol.

That's fact! Sucks but that's how shyt is now a days. Too many of them are delusional or real pains to deal with.

Sounds like that was more for you than her

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Say you’ve been seeing a chick for 3 or 4 months and she starts getting distant/pulling back, would you bring it to her attention to see what’s up, mirror her energy until the relationship dies, or dead it completely?

This is in the scope of you looking for a relationship not a fwb situation.

My thought process is to bring it to their attention, give them an opportunity to correct their behavior and if nothing changes dead it. Maybe that’s a waste of time to do. I have friends who think otherwise.

What do you brehs think? What’s the consensus?

She found a new dude that she likes more. Leave her be

 

[Guvnor]

Sounds like that was more for you than her

In a way, just don't want her hitting me up months later trying to get back into the same cycle either. I've moved on which is part of the reason I wanted to close that door.

 

[The ADD]

In a way, just don't want her hitting me up month later trying to get back into the same cycle either. I've moved on which is part of the reason I wanted to close that door.

 

[blalienz]

double post/delete

 

[blalienz]

This is good. This is really good.

Now that you know that you are the problem, work on yourself. So many people never come to this realization where they gain self awareness enough to know that their habits are the problem and that change is necessary.

Start working on becoming the man you want to be.

Start right now.

thank u and everybody for your kind words/advice

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

whatever

 

[General Mills]

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I guess

 

[General Mills]

the hell even is that??

Fake Hippie/fake witchcraft, horoscope infused sheets that chicks hang on their walls

 

[Guvnor]

That or Tarot cards in most cases, they got social or mental issues most likely in my experience.

 

[The ADD]