skyrunner1
Superstar
To answer @OnlyOneBoss post, I think that is very particular technique and maybe unique to few dudes who can pull that off (seen it done and probably done it myself when I have gotten that greenlight) but cant be generalized because most dudes cant pull that off, lol. BUT I agree that as a dude you have to make them see you as a sexual being and not just there for whatever platonic reason they can cook up in their heads.Both of y'all are right, because the always game is contexual. Something works in one time, but won't work in another.
OnlyOneBoss is addressing the situation where dudes go on a date, but don't know how to get sexual without getting verbal.
Y'all won't believe this, but women are not good at reading emotions, reading social scenarios, when they're wombs/lives are at stake. And even when they do sense something, other parts of them think that they can control what the guy is gonna do, or control what they're gonna do...
He's hitting on the something don't talk about much - getting hoes ready to hook up is 90% NONVERBAL.
Lot of cats, especially cats online, want to talk about the slick stuff the say, and how little they can spend to get some
- Looking at the goods
- Licking the lips
- Tone of voice
- Volume
- Pace of speech
- Facial expresssions
- Pregnant Pauses
- Inadvertent touching
Meanwhile the dude a lot of these chicks get with AIN'T THAT SHARP. Most of these cats are whispering in a chick's ear that he got a hookah back at his place. She passing on dudes with more money, taller, more clout, more muscles, cause Ray Ray know how to communicate with the CAT, not talk to her brain.
Cheap Skates on here regularly talking about coffee dates, like putting a chick on caffeine, getting her to be super alert and mindful is gonna make him come off better... She banging despite his bad game, not because of it.
The other thing that isn't talked about much
1) Chicks often don't know how they feel about a dude until he puts the D in her face (metaphorically speaking?.
Sexing ol boy is not on her mind, until he puts her to the question. Females have some sort of "willful blindness" when it comes to men that are obviously trying to bang, until he makes it apparent. Playing dumb is how they skate off with a lot of brother's time, effort, and money.
To be fair, it's largely a survival mechanism, if she were to contemplate everything any man has done for her was to get in her pants - she'd lose her mind.
2) A lot of chicks like dudes that like them, because the dude likes her. Because Dude likes her, She automatically likes him, and wants to figure out how to keep him. She don't care at all, until he shows interest. And then she's all about him.
From behind enemy lines
So desperate for the title that we don't even bother to get to know him as a person.
I should get a diary for this rant (which will be all over the place), but my phone was within my reach, so. Why are so many of us in a "any man will do" type of mind frame? Are our standards really as low as "he looks good and he bought me dinner once"? Are we becoming as vapid and shallow as...www.lipstickalley.com
^she was getting upvoted for this. (and of course they got their super-females on that sub, like we got Supermen on this one, trying shout her down)
The unsaid premise here is that these are guys that she spends time to go out on dates with. The fact that women find 99% of the men out there to be disgusting, not worth her time, means anytime any of us on are on a date - we're in the top 1% - she'll never admit it though...
WIA
To keep it simpleI would think is the touch barrier, seen it mentioned but nothing drove it home better than working clubs and being in presence of dancers and they tryna seduce you quickly to "buy a dance." Breaking that touch barrier is gonna make you make a decision like "dont touch me, I am not interested" or you are and you decide to be seduced out your pockets. Even being inebriated you realize what was going on and what it triggers on flip side.
I have seen dudes say on here they dont want to be used for food dates and such. Breaking touch barrier early eliminates all of that. If someone has no interest in you, they wont be interested in your touch. Full stop. Sitting next to in booth, something small like that with increased proximity will let you know whats up. If she is into you, you will know. If not, you will get the idea also.
