Seeking is the new tinder..I might just make an account lol
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Holybreh that dude wasn't lying over 4000 black women age 22-46
Cotdamn it’s over
@The Minister u were right when u said
Soft life=lite escort
Soft life=lite escort
Yeah its code language. Its a mix of escorting and wenchs. There was a period hoes were going to Italy/Spain/France/Portugal and getting ran by the broke dudes there and being mistaken for African prostitutes as part of the soft life shyt so now they back in the USA wearing costtmes tryna act like they house wives and using terms like alpha male and masculine traditional. Its all a shame.
Lotta those cases of chicks being found dead after tinder dates with old white men are these chicks thats why it gets swept under the rug and people stop caring
Hoes weearing pearls, posting tea party pics, fancy dinner pics, etc etc.
skyrunner1
Superstar
I have had post on this too, ALL that shyt comes from washed up hoes. They change up the name but its the same shyt, level up/soft life/ boss bytch/black girls in luxury/im a goddess ALL that shyt is gateway for prostitution/cumdumpster/sugar baby/sellin ass by another name, slight of hand type shyt. When I seen women blowing up sheraseven I knew it was the lost leading the lost.
They really out here tryna rebrand prostitution into something culturally acceptable, remember thinking sex tapes will be on IG by end of decade going into 2020. We didnt even finish the early part and OF has changed the game..
They banking on blue pill nikkas who misinterprt kevin samuels to cuff lol. If a chick is ACTUALLY traditional she doesnt make it past 23 unmarried. There is a reason 22-25 you going to weddings every few months if you are college educated.
A bytch who been working for years all of a sudden talking soft life and provider is a red flag lmfao its loke bytch how have you been survivng all these years and now need a provider?
These old white dudes run through these chicks
skyrunner1
Superstar
Mannn, the women who seem the most LOST are in that mid to late 30s, their actions dont even align with what they say they want and they just passing down terrible advice. When covid hit the amount of buzzer beaters I saw being done was CRAZY but mostly other communities. I think that was reason Kevin blew up, these women were tryna get info from ANYWHERE. Like the shyt KS was telling them was groundbreaking and they never heard before.
I remember a 28 yo woman telling me she was listening to Sheraseven and KS.
Did a search to see who shera was and multiple threads were on this site..
OnlyOneBoss
Superstar
Say brehs tap in tell me if I’m wrong but I think I came up on something.. might be old news tho idk
A real lowkey sign to push things forward with a a woman is to LET her catch you looking at her ass/chest. Not on some creep shyt tho
Like if y’all talking and it’s some cleavage take one or two quick lil peeks but don’t make it awkward and keep the convo moving like regular on a nonchalant tip
Or if her ass is easily visible for you look real quick but DONT STARE EVER. And look away right as she’s turning around or about to look at you.
It does two things
1) shows you have a baseline attraction to her (if she likes you might build her confidence around you)
2) establishes you’re not a complete creep and have some idea of manners/respect but you’re still a man
Note: this most likely only works if she thinks you’re attractive or has a liking towards you in the first place so
Tread lightly but I’ve never gotten a bad response from it.
A real lowkey sign to push things forward with a a woman is to LET her catch you looking at her ass/chest. Not on some creep shyt tho
Like if y’all talking and it’s some cleavage take one or two quick lil peeks but don’t make it awkward and keep the convo moving like regular on a nonchalant tip
Or if her ass is easily visible for you look real quick but DONT STARE EVER. And look away right as she’s turning around or about to look at you.
It does two things
1) shows you have a baseline attraction to her (if she likes you might build her confidence around you)
2) establishes you’re not a complete creep and have some idea of manners/respect but you’re still a man
Note: this most likely only works if she thinks you’re attractive or has a liking towards you in the first place so
Tread lightly but I’ve never gotten a bad response from it.
Mannn, the women who seem the most LOST are in that mid to late 30s, their actions dont even align with what they say they want and they just passing down terrible advice. When covid hit the amount of buzzer beaters I saw being done was CRAZY but mostly other communities. I think that was reason Kevin blew up, these women were tryna get info from ANYWHERE. Like the shyt KS was telling them was groundbreaking and they never heard before.
I remember a 28 yo woman telling me she was listening to Sheraseven and KS.
I think there were booms of breakups or outta nowhere covid relationships because folks were shook of being alone lol
Imo at this stage legal marriage in this country makes zero sense and the social media paper trail and shyt onlyfans/porn tube site digital footprint makes it haaaaaaard to ignore a chicks past and cuff too lol.
We got tools to do background searchers on chicks and whether its wild old tweets of hard core misandry or slut stuff these chicks have dug a hole where no sane dude will commit to them just FWB max
Exhibit A
Say brehs tap in tell me if I’m wrong but I think I came up on something.. might be old news tho idk
A real lowkey sign to push things forward with a a woman is to LET her catch you looking at her ass/chest. Not on some creep shyt tho
Like if y’all talking and it’s some cleavage take one or two quick lil peeks but don’t make it awkward and keep the convo moving like regular on a nonchalant tip
Or if her ass is easily visible for you look real quick but DONT STARE EVER. And look away right as she’s turning around or about to look at you.
It does two things
1) shows you have a baseline attraction to her (if she likes you might build her confidence around you)
2) establishes you’re not a complete creep and have some idea of manners/respect but you’re still a man
Note: this most likely only works if she thinks you’re attractive or has a liking towards you in the first place so
This is too much analyzing. If a woman not feeling you anything you do will come off creepy or weird.
skyrunner1
Superstar
Yea, I think we get to same conclusion with different routes. Like I see social media as a means for women to never truly lose contact with past flings. That is a big problem, lol.. Like I been invited to weddings with chicks I used to mess with. Im shaking the hand and I am on one side but I dont ever want to be the dude on other side but seeing it for what it is what can you do, cold world.
Even the parents looking at me like 
, Im like chilllll, Im here for the open bar and a lil mingling 
Yea, I think we get to same conclusion with different routes. Like I see social media as a means for women to never truly lose contact with past flings. That is a big problem, lol.. Like I been invited to weddings with chicks I used to mess with. Im shaking the hand and I am on one side but I dont ever want to be the dude on other side but seeing it for what it is what can you do, cold world.
Yeah just a few yrs ago dudes wanted chicks without SM but nowadays if a chick doesnt have a foot print it means she hiding something. This is the new world i guess. As a bacheleor its fine but for dudes who want kids then this shyt is bleek
Both of y'all are right, because the always game is contexual. Something works in one time, but won't work in another.
OnlyOneBoss is addressing the situation where dudes go on a date, but don't know how to get sexual without getting verbal.
Y'all won't believe this, but women are not good at reading emotions, reading social scenarios, when they're wombs/lives are at stake. And even when they do sense something, other parts of them think that they can control what the guy is gonna do, or control what they're gonna do...
He's hitting on the something don't talk about much - getting hoes ready to hook up is 90% NONVERBAL.
- Looking at the goods
- Licking the lips
- Tone of voice
- Volume
- Pace of speech
- Facial expresssions
- Pregnant Pauses
- Inadvertent touching
Meanwhile the dude a lot of these chicks get with AIN'T THAT SHARP. Most of these cats are whispering in a chick's ear that he got a hookah back at his place. She passing on dudes with more money, taller, more clout, more muscles, cause Ray Ray know how to communicate with the CAT, not talk to her brain.
Cheap Skates on here regularly talking about coffee dates, like putting a chick on caffeine, getting her to be super alert and mindful is gonna make him come off better... She banging despite his bad game, not because of it.
The other thing that isn't talked about much
1) Chicks often don't know how they feel about a dude until he puts the D in her face (metaphorically speaking?
. Sexing ol boy is not on her mind, until he puts her to the question. Females have some sort of "willful blindness" when it comes to men that are obviously trying to bang, until he makes it apparent. Playing dumb is how they skate off with a lot of brother's time, effort, and money.
To be fair, it's largely a survival mechanism, if she were to contemplate everything any man has done for her was to get in her pants - she'd lose her mind.
2) A lot of chicks like dudes that like them, because the dude likes her. Because Dude likes her, She automatically likes him, and wants to figure out how to keep him. She don't care at all, until he shows interest. And then she's all about him.
From behind enemy lines
So desperate for the title that we don't even bother to get to know him as a person.
I should get a diary for this rant (which will be all over the place), but my phone was within my reach, so. Why are so many of us in a "any man will do" type of mind frame? Are our standards really as low as "he looks good and he bought me dinner once"? Are we becoming as vapid and shallow as...
www.lipstickalley.com
^she was getting upvoted for this. (and of course they got their super-females on that sub, like we got Supermen on this one, trying shout her down)
The unsaid premise here is that these are guys that she spends time to go out on dates with. The fact that women find 99% of the men out there to be disgusting, not worth her time, means anytime any of us on are on a date - we're in the top 1% - she'll never admit it though...
WIA