Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mister_DoItNice]

As a man, should you have everything in your hands as far as dates go? Say a chick wants to hangout on a certain day, do you text her telling her the time and such, or do you wait for her to text you?

You don't text. You call her and cement the details. Have a direction that you want the evening to go in before you call. Take the experience into your hands and set the pace.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Thanks, btw thanks n sorry to those I haven't replied to, fukking getting caught up in school bs.

 

[MikelArteta]

What's funny is those fat women proclaiming their husbands should love them no matter what would be on the next thing smoking if those men lost their ability to provide. There is no such thing as unconditional love. That's just some garbage concocted by the media, and jewelry stores. The closest thing to unconditional love is the relationship between a parent, and their child. That is, if the parent has raised that child. Love itself is very conditional and those women are foolish for thinking otherwise.

Man can love unconditionally

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[Mister_DoItNice]

Man can love unconditionally

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I disagree, but every man is entitled to his opinion. If you're talking about in the fatherly sense then yes.

 

[MikelArteta]

eh i think nope know that most man can love unconditionally but it only happens once and sadly more than often they end up getting screwed

 

[MikelArteta]

such delusional behavior. This thread blew up over the weekend.

sadly its the truth, just sign into pof and search say ages 29-33 every chick wants long term, ever chick is ready to "settle down", alot have kids and these wild expectations "a man to sweep me off my feet": "is he out there", "sick of a$$holes"



i always say in life for men and women you will have a few people in life who actually love you and care for you that have good morals you would want in a wife or a husband, the majority of us f it up and never get that opportunity again, especially women

women mistake guys who want to screw them with guys who actually care about them

 

[Wild self]

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wow a lot of these women want to have drama filled "love" in their lives. Drama that spreads like cancer to destroy all of society.

 

[MikelArteta]

wow a lot of these women want to have drama filled "love" in their lives. Drama that spreads like cancer to destroy all of society.

its sad breh its sad,

kevm3 said it best "its better to be a womans problem"

 

[Wild self]

I bet there's times he wants to walk out too, but because they have a kid it's not that easy and she knows this, hence why she's taking so many liberties. That shyt is extremely uncalled for. It's funny, because after my separation, when I've told people that I plan to remain celibate for a while and there's certain things I want to do with my life before I enter into another serious relationship like further my career and travel more, grow in knowledge, advance spiritually etc dudes are like while women always say shyt like "oh, but what if you meet a nice woman tomorrow are you just gonna turn her away" all defensively. It's almost as if they subconsciously feel threatened by the idea of any dude that wants to get his shyt together. There was another thread a while back with some posters saying single men who do them and remain bachelors are "selfish". That says it all.

Women hate the fact that men have the last laugh and party their lives away while they raise b*stard kids from bad boys all alone. When the script flips on them, shyt gets crazy for them and get mad when they are alone at 30 and beyond. Imagine a 20 something year old man driving in a luxury car, have a lot of money, and smashes women as he pleases? All they can do is instill shame and fear to these men and use labels like "you're gay for not wanting kids" or "You not a real man cause you refuse to take me out to a fancy dinner"

 

[Rocket Scientist]

only way id ever wife a single mom is if shes a widow like the dad died of natural causes or like in war or something.

the thing is women have a connection to their baby dads no matter how big of a jerk, a$$hole, loser he is, anytime he says he ":changes":, or comes around after being gone for months with a smile, the chemicals in her brain get the best of her, remember women don't think with logic, or think down the road, like a man would think hes a loser hes never gonna change dum ass, but a women will think "i love ihm, this time will be different":, like ive mentioned on here before my godson mom has gone back to her baby dad like ten times since their child was born and teh kid is only 3, every time dude cheats on her, months go back boom back together again rinse and repeat

im not saying all single moms are like that, but the stress aint worth it imo, hell just think of all the women you dated already in your life and none of them worked out right? so what makes you think a EVEN HARDER RELATIONSHIP to begin with will?


*Spin* Babymothers, do you still sleep with your child's father?

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See thats the thing. The reason why some of us on here had step fathers is because back in the day it was different. Back in the day families were BUILT. These days women are just looking for somebody to take care of their child.I dated (not seriously) 2 young women with children. BOTH times we grew apart and guess what the ywent back to the child's father. Any man who gets into a relationship with a young woman must ask himself this.....imagine being on a team where your practically the 4th OPTION and priority. If your a team player then great,but if not your definetely expendable and will always be the 1st one let go.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

What do you guys think of common-law marriages? or as you can say shacking up Also what do you guys think of young women who are married but dont wear rings? Both are these are rising trends.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

As a man, should you have everything in your hands as far as dates go? Say a chick wants to hangout on a certain day, do you text her telling her the time and such, or do you wait for her to text you?

Always be in control and have control of a situaton. Im not saying be a control freak,just always be a step ahead of her. But if babygirl wants to hang out on Wed. You TELL her the time and place.An aggressive woman is great,but dont let her LEAD you.Also NEVER EVER text a woman date details. Pick up the phone and call if she doesnt respond in say 48 hours DROP her.Also never wait on any woman who isnt your wife. Women will have you waiting for long periods of time if you let them.

 

[MikelArteta]

See thats the thing. The reason why some of us on here had step fathers is because back in the day it was different. Back in the day families were BUILT. These days women are just looking for somebody to take care of their child.I dated (not seriously) 2 young women with children. BOTH times we grew apart and guess what the ywent back to the child's father. Any man who gets into a relationship with a young woman must ask himself this.....imagine being on a team where your practically the 4th OPTION and priority. If your a team player then great,but if not your definetely expendable and will always be the 1st one let go.

its kind of messed up, if your dating a broad with a kid you'd rather the dad not bei n the picture but on the other side everyy child deserves his father

enjoy brehs, a baby mom will always go back to her baby father, until the day she loses when hes in a serious relationship and shes left bitter and alone


ah well

thing men need to realize

her job as single mother is to be a single mother, YOU ARE THE LAST OF HER PRIORITIES. You will spend days, hours, and thousands of dollars trying to help her out, but all WILL NOT BE APPRECIATED, ALL WILL VANISH. Don't be fooled by the word "thank you", because her actions will show you later the bitter reality that you just wasted all your blood and hard work for NOTHING. I mean it, NOTHING. Trust me a bad boy, or dead beat baby dad who did nothing for her will probably get more from her than you will ever get. Sad isn't it ? In the world of bad women it is a different reality, opposite to what you have learned. it is where the bad is good and the good is bad. The mean selfish prick is praised, thanked and loved, and the good man is shoved aside.


remember brehs

You are not loved for who you are, You are loved because you are needed.

when a lion takes over a pride his first order of business is to kill the cubs of the previous king.

are you the king of a jungle or some simp ass nikka?

You will have nothing to show for it. In the end when most men have their own children the work and effort is well worth it. The men did their best and raised a family, continued a line, get grandchildren etc. As a step-parent you have contributed as much but you have nothing. Nobody carries on your name and most men realize they are not even ever thanked for their sacrifice.

I know what I want, a family of my own. Kids of my own. I worked hard for that to be mine, and not to sacrifice all for the pleasures and lusts of a bad girl and her Bad boy exes.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Always be in control and have control of a situaton. Im not saying be a control freak,just always be a step ahead of her. But if babygirl wants to hang out on Wed. You TELL her the time and place.An aggressive woman is great,but dont let her LEAD you.Also NEVER EVER text a woman date details. Pick up the phone and call if she doesnt respond in say 48 hours DROP her.Also never wait on any woman who isnt your wife. Women will have you waiting for long periods of time if you let them.

Be the leader right. I'll make the call tonight and if she answers I'll set something up if not ill drop her out.

And I agree, my ex and I were together for 3 months, we broke up but would fight, see each other, etc, but I waited 2 years for shyt to workout while messing with other girls. Finally December time the bytch hit me up and we chatted the whole month and her ass wouldn't see me once, saying she was scared and uncomfortable, with my hoe ass being a hoe I let her do that shyt. I. Hit her up today cause I had a dream she got killed so I wanted to make sure she was ok and she tried to converse, use smiley faces and shyt. I just sat back, thought about the shyt I learned from this thread like I ain't Finna deal with this bytches shyt no more. I ain't gonna chase her 6/10 ass when I've pulled better. fukked up thing was I made our relationship, that's why I swear she stays trying to hit me up when she's in town with her dusty Muslim ass. fukk her I ain't chasing, I'll let it go and she can hmu, but she ain't getting nothing from my ass.

 

[MikelArteta]

Single mums turn to brothels and stripping

poor single moms

i always said to root out the problem of single motherhood in north america is to cut benefits and see how fast it stops, you need housing? do as they do in some eastern european countries a building filled with single oms