Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
I'm sorry breh, but I would've taken the unsuspecting head and the sex........THEN kicked her out my house after I bust
Nah, man. If you did that, you would have just taken another L because you still let the chick who broke your heart and threw you under the bus seduce you. The "it's just p*ssy breh" way of thinking just wouldn't cut it.
He would have won if he just told her to get dressed, leave the key there and get the hell out without even giving her the time of day. Outright rejecting her in disgust would have been the strongest ether, but he let himself down cos he lacked discipline and self respect, hence why she still has a hold over him despite having other dudes on the sides and brazenly rubbing it in his face.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
why in the hell would we have to change our rules for our women?See what i was talking about?
Reincar talked about Samson.
Samson had found "the one" (or at least that's what he thought...) then he amended his rule for her and look at where it led him...
NEVER break your rules for anyone. And NEVER change them because you want to keep a girl. Only change your rules after some soul searching if you truly reflected on yourself and figured out it's for the best. NEVER to keep someone cause that would be like selling your soul...
your rules should be like commandments not broken at all.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Nowhere in this thread have we advocated the manipulation of women. It's been the complete opposite. Women come in here with sweeping generalizations of what's going in here, without having a true grasp of what we're discussing. Of course we know all women aren't terrible people. If that were the case why even waste time with a thread like this? Improving yourself mentally, physically, and for some spiritually isn't game or manipulation. That's just nonsense.
rapdonttweet
Pro
You were complaining about a female coming in and asking about a dude's behavior. Answering her question was related to this thread because she was asking about male-female interaction. This is a thread for dealing with women. If you can't stand holding a conversation with an actual woman, you don't belong in this thread.
Scustin Trillberlake
Banned
Women shaming men for improving themselves and questioning the feminine imperative is nothing new. Lets keep it moving fellas.
yea i mean she never directly said she liked me but i could gauge that she did like me by her actions and things she said ...
what about her fb ? should i delete that ish or what ?
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Yeah, I guess I'm just ALWAYS trying to be considerate of a chicks feelings and that scares me away. Like I don't to want to mess around because I feel like they're all going to want a relationship out of me and after my first heartbreak I can't maintain one, even with friends I notice that I'll go MIA for months, just because I can't handle the attention and REALLY need to be alone and have my own time.
Yeah good idea. Lol I guess cute isn't a word that should be used to describe a man huh?
Damn, thank you for the advice.
I think with the approaching random women it makes things awkward, same with random women approaching you. If you're not interested in them sometimes it shows or you just fine off awkward, but how come if you come off awkward to women you don't find attractive or see anything in or don't have a bond with you're labeled as having no game n shyt.
rapdonttweet
Pro
Thinking like that is how you end up with nothing at all. No one can predict whether something will work out ahead of time. It takes dating someone to figure out whether you want a relationship with them. And it takes being in a serious relationship with someone to determine whether they are wifeable.
are you talking about when women approach you and you're not attracted to them? if so then the reason they label you that way is because they don't feel any connection with you. You see some women wold rather tell themselves that you have no game and that's why you didn't holla at them. They'd rather tell themselves that than face the possibility that MAYBE you just weren't feeling them that way...My advice as always is, don't even worry about what they're thinking. 3 out of 4 of them have delusions of grandeur or are straight up insane. trying to figure out why they think whatever they think is impossible and useless most of the times.
if you're talking about girls you're approaching, they might think you have no game because you didn't manage to set a vibe to make everyone comfortable. In that case she could be right. but at the same time, why even approach girls you don't find attractive or don't feel like you'd connect with?