Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Cory MBA]

lol i had to check myself. u dont know when ur doing it. thats why i applaud what kevm3 is saying. see, you can emit confidence through only a few ways.

the way you talk
the way you move
and most importantly the LOOK on your face

to talk confidently, move nonchalantly, and have all that show up on your face (without it being faked), you have to have something going. something about u must be on point.

maybe u have a giant bank account that u know most people dont have. maybe u got a b1g d1ck. maybe ur dressed to kill. maybe u know u got 5 different dimes in ur phone u can hit up any time. these are facts that only u know and they are facts that will gracefully carry u across the veiled glances cast upon u by the eyes u dont see.

when u look at a girl, what is ur look saying? is it saying:

"oooo please please look at me so our eyes can connect"
"please please i'm begging u just smile at me"
"ooo my god u got a phat ass i wish i can fucck it"

what is ur look saying?

ur look should be saying something like:

"i'm sizing u up to see if u got what i want" ===>

Truth....Approach looking like this....

 

[TRUEST]

Truth....Approach looking like this....

that's the original gif i was looking for but couldn't find it lol.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

That Miss Delaware Teen who resigned because of the porn video is having simps flying in on twitter for her


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@Melissa_M_King Be strong, life has a funny way of working out. Kim K made it and now is one of the most powerful women in the US. #Support

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The fukked up thing is that @Melissa_M_King is still going to be more successful than half the girls talking **** on her lol

You know, i'm not gonna turn this into a race sitchayshun... but why do white males feel so compelled to save a heaux?

What's going on in their minds? The demise of the contemporary female psyche and its deconstructingly damaging mindset (and not to mentioned, one of the official Gems Thread buzz word: "entitlement") is strictly correllated to the responses and actions of these cacs that, essentially... CONDONE; SLUT HOE SLORE SKANK BIMBO JEZZEBEL FLOOSIE-ASS BEHAVIOR!!!


Of course, aforementioned isn't confined to strictly one race or another, there are guilty sets in every group. But thing is that it's so prevalent in the white culture.

The way these guys were nurtured and conditioned by their parents from their adolescence (the prime and critical "learning years"), it's so - forgiving!!!

SHiits all fun and social media games until it hits home.


"Yeah, she may have fukked on camera before being able to drink... but don't blame her. It's the camera man that rolled the film! Jesus, society always acts like it lives without the median and mode - just straight MEAN!"


And you wonder why more than 50 percent of their marriages end in divorce... the trail always gets traced back to a husband who let his leash off the dog.


That bytch.





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[Shameonyou]

I'm wondering if any of yall can help me out in a situation

At the end of last year I met this chick in the library at school. I've been noticing her and she was definitely giving me the eye and shyt, I bytched out a few times but got some balls and spit my game and got her number. She's a mad good girl, she doesn't drink or smoke, doesn't party and is very smart, she works part time also.

Anyways we would text everyday, we went out on our first date during the semester break, just a walk in the park and some coffee after, it was great, like 4 hours, had a good time and when we were sitting on a bench i went in for a kiss and we madeout, then kissed goodnight after. Our 2nd date was a little before the new semester started and it was also very good, held hands and shyt .we'd still text after, she would text me first a lot. Then the first week of school we met up whenever we had time, i'd walk her to class and we'd kiss goodbye then talk later.

Then one time she texted me saying something along the lines that the feeling isn't there anymore (right after we met up for like an hour and i walked her to class). I was mad confused and tight that she told me in text. She felt bad for doing it through text so ignored her for a day then i gave in cause she wanted to meet me in person to tell me. so we met up and talked about it, she suggested being friends but i was like nah, then we ended up hooking up. so i was just confused.(mind u she's a v so idk if she wants to be a fwb) so then ignored her again for a few days and she suggested to meet up cause she wanted to give me something she bought me prior. i was like okay and met up again, i went in for a kiss but it lasted a few seconds then she pushed me back saying 'this is what u want right'.. so now i'm just mad confused. at this point i was thirsting still tryna kiss her and i asked her out again smh...

so at this point i ignored her for like almost a week then she hit me up on some pety shyt, which i don't want.. and that's it.. I haven't seen her or talked her for about 2 weeks. I kind of want to ask her on a date again but i have no idea what she's thinking, i'd rather ask in person. If i want to i can see her cause i know when her classes are and could just 'run into her or w/e' I don't know, what yall think of this ?

there's this other girl i got my eye on now in school too

dont speak to her ever again.....she is the man in the situation and you turned into the woman.

one thing you and many more men need to realize is that yall gotta control your emotions. If you feeling her alot, keep it to yourself until you can gauge the same amount of interest level from her. Women are like the matador and you are the bull. They lure you to chase them, then when you do, they move to the side and let you crash into a brick wall.

Always make her bring up the relationship direction. Always make her want more of YOUR time, Always make HER wonder whether you are into her or not. Not the other way around.

look for more direct women, and mature women from now on.

 

[CASHAPP]

You know, i'm not gonna turn this into a race sitchayshun... but why do white males feel so compelled to save a heaux?

What's going on in their minds? The demise of the contemporary female psyche and its deconstructingly damaging mindset (and not to mentioned, one of the official Gems Thread buzz word: "entitlement") is strictly correllated to the responses and actions of these cacs that, essentially... CONDONE; SLUT HOE SLORE SKANK BIMBO JEZZEBEL FLOOSIE-ASS BEHAVIOR!!!


Of course, aforementioned isn't confined to strictly one race or another, there are guilty sets in every group. But thing is that it's so prevalent in the white culture.

The way these guys were nurtured and conditioned by their parents from their adolescence (the prime and critical "learning years"), it's so - forgiving!!!

SHiits all fun and social media games until it hits home.


"Yeah, she may have fukked on camera before being able to drink... but don't blame her. It's the camera man that rolled the film! Jesus, society always acts like it lives without the median and mode - just straight MEAN!"


And you wonder why more than 50 percent of their marriages end in divorce... the trail always gets traced back to a husband who let his leash off the dog.


That bytch.





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Your right it is extremely prevalant in white culture in both cases whether a young white male or an elder one. I really do not understand why, it gets out of hand.

That whole "Thailand sex scene" is a perfect example. It ends up being a stereotypical white guy with belly rolls holding a harlot's hand like its romantic. They can't separate that you are literally just $ to her and don't see just to fukk them and leave.

You see documentaries like that and 9 times out of 10 it is a white guy talking about how "nicer and submissive" she is and how she is such an honorable woman. When the fact that she is a whore is telling you already all you need to know about her.



Lets not forget about that lame we discussed in the previous pages who allowed a woman who left him for another man to come back in his home and discuss getting back together because she gave him head in the shower..

"it was WICKED!!!"

This needs to stop seriously

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

This sh*t is crazy bruh.

The last girl I talked to, the first time we met at a bar, she was talking bad about all teh women in there who were wearing the tops that show their bra strp on the shoulder. It's something that to me, is not even slutty....but she felt the need to show me how she didnt dress like that. being that I didnt know her at the time, I was impressed somewhat.

Then several weeks later, we went out again, and now she's wearing a top wearing you can see her bra straps. I was like

Not only that, but she checked out every song I suggested/said I liked and everything else I told hr to do. And she never drank when I was around either.

They do all that to gain ur complete trust.

I went to Kenya as part of a school trip during a summer of college


this girl i was just kinda joking with, pokin fun at her and shyt from time to time, but I guess over time she was starting to catch feelings. I don't think she had the greatest reputation at school and she spent a lot of time convincing me that she wasn't a 'party girl' or this and that.

even though I didn't ask for any explanations or even really cared at the time

we hooked up a little bit toward the end of the trip, and she was texting me and talking to me a lot when we first got back. we were in different places so over time that fizzled out in terms of having shyt to talk about and it was whatever, that happens


but i get back to school, and she out all the time which is fine but it just goes to show. don't shyt really change, they just kinda tell you what they think they want you to hear.


funny thing is I was out damn near every weekend of college she got it in her head i was a decent good guy, which I am, that maybe she had to act different around to get me more 'comfortable'


long run i can see its the same shyt yall have dealt with. i don't like posting stories, but i'd rather some fellas see pattern-recognition.

it wasnt even a blame her thing, we just fell out of touch so it is what it is. i'm not bashing anyone on here

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

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[TheFemalePerspective]

Do you ever feel like by playing games you lose good women? If you think about it, your game will only attract weak-minded females. An intelligent female will quickly see your behaviour as manipulative. Only a young female falls for the mysterious, unpredictable, pretending to be constantly busy.. kind of man lol.

By following these rules/playing these games, you will definitely find females, but they will all be WEAK individuals who are co-dependent. Do you really think somebody you can manipulate is a strong person? Maybe for some of you, that is what makes you happy. Maybe for some of you, the idea of never losing power/being hurt is more important. But what you fail to understand is a strong relationship is one that interdependent. I could go on and get all religious but i'll leave it there.

I don't think everything said here is non-sense because it's teaching you to never make somebody your world because when you do that, you will crash and fall. You can love someone without making them your be all and end all. And you can demand respect, but make sure you give respect too & reply back/call the one you care about.

Also, how tiring is it to always have your game face on? Don't you want somebody who can care for you when you are at your weakest? I know most of you would never cry? I'm not a big fan of crying myself, but I think there's something beautiful about someone who sees your eyes tear up, they don't say anything, except give you a hug.

If you have to constantly manipulate a woman's mind to keep her around.. let her go. There's a woman who will like you just for who you are. No games involved. I know it's hard to find someone like that, but trust me you will. We're all like a jigsaw puzzle and we try to make pieces fit. If the piece doesn't fit, then God didn't make her for you. You'll find the right piece.. one day. Until then, treat women kindly because Karma is a.......

 

[CASHAPP]

^Not to be Mr Negative, but here we go again with another Phoenix Knightly. With all due respect to Female Perspective, after that situation, I really cannot take posts other than from our fellow males in here seriously.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

^Not to be Mr Negative, but here we go again with another Phoenix Knightly. With all due respect to Female Perspective, after that situation, I really cannot take posts other than from our fellow males in here seriously.

I'm unaware of that situation? Did she turn out not to be a real female?

 

[CASHAPP]

I'm unaware of that situation? Did she turn out not to be a real female?

No after all the BS posts she made on here about how she is a loyal female and everything, about a week ago or so, she added the picture of the member "illadope" into her avatar and they both were going back and forth in a thread joking about it. How they spend so much time on tinychat talking and everything.

And there was no mention of the man she claimed is due to be deployed to Afghanistan(if that was ever true).

As we all expected, in the thread, she started to get sarcastic and started talking about how she hopes God forgives her for her "sins on the internet" and basically making a joke of the entire situation.

 

[CASHAPP]

@TheFemalePerspective

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/91732-phoenix-knightly-got-illadope-her-avy.html

^The thing that annoys me the most is if you check a post exchange we had in this thread in Valentines Day, she started wishing all the guys in this thread a happy valentines day and said she hopes we have a good day,etc, and half jokingly, half seriously I responded "Is this a trap", and then she responded back saying "Lol no its not a trap"

And then obviously days later, we see her stanning for a forum member instead of the man that she claimed she was with. Now maybe your a different case @TheFemalePerspective because your pictures are not all over the website, but I think certain guys in here including myself are a bit more skeptical after all of that.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

@TheFemalePerspective

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/91732-phoenix-knightly-got-illadope-her-avy.html

^The thing that annoys me the most is if you check a post exchange we had in this thread in Valentines Day, she started wishing all the guys in this thread a happy valentines day and said she hopes we have a good day,etc, and half jokingly, half seriously I responded "Is this a trap", and then she responded back saying "Lol no its not a trap"

And then obviously days later, we see her stanning for a forum member instead of the man that she claimed she was with. Now maybe your a different case @TheFemalePerspective because your pictures are not all over the website, but I think certain guys in here including myself are a bit more skeptical after all of that.

Ohh ok, I see your point lol. Well I mean everything I say on this forum. I'm not here to deceive anyone & I'm not here to meet anyone. I log on from time to time to honestly give a female's perspective. I think sometimes you men are so wrapped in each other's experiences/points of views, that you forget not all women are the type you have met. My point was to only remind men that once you meet that lady.. throw your games/rules out the door, otherwise you will live to regret it. There's nothing more beautiful than a relationship built on honesty, integrity, and pure love.

 

[TRUEST]

i really dont want this thread to turn into a thread where females start to chime in, in droves. to those of yall addressing the females and whatever nonsense behavior u're questioning them on, please do it via PMs. cause some of us simply do not give a sh1t about the female population on this board. we have no interest in trying to mack to them or whatever. so please keep this in pms.

 

[sixsixtwo]

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