Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Shameonyou

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I think we need to stear clear from the how to deal with women while in relationships to a lil different direction for a bit.

This for my real young cats that probably dont know whether a woman is interested, and somehow fukk around into the friend zone. Imma point out cues you should look for and actions women who are interested in you show. If any of these things occur, please understand she wants your cock.

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1. When she touches your leg (thighs) while sitting down and lets it linger before releasing her hand. Numerous times.
2. When she always lingers around your eyesight so you can see her (if you didnt talk to her that day)
3. When she always initiates conversation (dont always pick up the phone though)
4. When she likes absolutely every status you put up on facebook (thats extremely obvious and creepy)
5. When all her friends like you in terms of cordial. No woman deals with guys her friends dont like. None.
 

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6.when she looks at you like how the chic in my avi looks at you while you talking to her
7. when she touches your shoulder
8. This one only happens when she regrets turning you down: when she cockblocks you indirectly when she sees you with another woman..example?

you in a social setting, you see the chic that turned you down, she probably with her dude, or her lil social circle. Lets say back in the day you was her lapdog, always around her people. A couple months roll by you havent really vibed with her that much. So you doing your own thing dolo. Now when that happens, shes in her circle, she peeps you at that moment by yourself. She is in her mind thinking, "im better than this nikka".

Now all of a sudden, someone you known for a while pops up, shes just as bad as the shorty you was trying to get at before. You and her genuinely surprised you bump into each other. And all of a sudden, the other girl realizes shes lost that edge in her mind. THe only thing she had to validate her decision to turn you down. Its gone. Both of you at that moment amazingly realize that without even acknowledging each other, and thats where she automatically finds a way to "break the ice" with you THAT specific night.

When she does that, (when you see her coming your direction) try to move the convo between you and that other girl somewhere else (by leaving the party all together)....dont do it because you want payback. Do it so she can realize she aint shyt but a bytch with a p*ssy.
 

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never be scared to slap a hoe


or to tell a hoe that she's a hoe
 

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Honestly, I think a lot of dudes need to work on themselves before they even try to apply the wisdom in this thread.

Dudes need confidence. Learn to like, love, and appreciate yourself. Think about the man you want to be and become that man. Think about the way you want to be treated and treat other accordingly. Have clear and concise goals and stick to them. Use the principles in this thread to establish some moral about yourself when it comes to dealing with other people.

Don't allow the criticism of others to affect you personally. Don't let their opinions of you change your opinion of yourself. Confidence is always about knowing your strengths and weaknesses and being humble about both.

Less talk, more action. Words are to help people understand, but actions allow people to witness.

Don't tell people that you are a good looking fly brother, just be that good looking fly brother. Don't tell people that your money is long or that you are successful, just be that person. When you are truly confident, evidence of your self worth becomes natural. It radiates in every correspondence you have with others. Have you ever spoken with a CEO of a company? Without him even exerting his power, you can tell he is powerful just by how he communicates. Follow that example.
 

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Honestly, I think a lot of dudes need to work on themselves before they even try to apply the wisdom in this thread.

Dudes need confidence. Learn to like, love, and appreciate yourself. Think about the man you want to be and become that man. Think about the way you want to be treated and treat other accordingly. Have clear and concise goals and stick to them. Use the principles in this thread to establish some moral about yourself when it comes to dealing with other people.

Don't allow the criticism of others to affect you personally. Don't let their opinions of you change your opinion of yourself. Confidence is always about knowing your strengths and weaknesses and being humble about both.

Less talk, more action. Words are to help people understand, but actions allow people to witness.

Don't tell people that you are a good looking fly brother, just be that good looking fly brother. Don't tell people that your money is long or that you are successful, just be that person. When you are truly confident, evidence of your self worth becomes natural. It radiates in every correspondence you have with others. Have you ever spoken with a CEO of a company? Without him even exerting his power, you can tell he is powerful just by how he communicates. Follow that example.

Agrees with this entire post.
 

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Check out this post from CL:

A father - w4m - Strictly Platonic - 29

I am newly pregnant and the biological father does not want to be a part of it. I still want to have this baby, but I do not want to go through it alone. This is odd...but I thought maybe, just maybe, there are men out there who would like to be fathers but havent had the chance. I want a companion for the next many months to experience all the upcoming changes and miracles that are about to happen. There is more to this, which can be discussed privately. Please contact me if you are interested. Thank you!


This is absolutely sickening and unreal how narcissistic these American women are..
 

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My nikka Sharp droppin that PURO

Confidence and self esteem should be at the cornerstone, not just with women, but in all areas of one's life. But since women are the topic... 90% of the problems with the breezies all revert back to confidence. You got to have love for yourself. Acknowledge fly shyt about yourself that you've done or are doing. You're funny, you hit the gym, write poetry, etc. You're unique. Be you. Most cats cant step to women because they're self esteem is shaky. If you walk into a spot feelin yaself (not arrogant) you should feel like a chick is nutso for NOT giving you play becuase you KNOW in your heart you're a fly dude. And if you leave the spot without meeting anyone, it doesnt matter becuase you dont let women "dissing" you validate your game and who you are as a man. But that comes with experience, which begets confidence.

Most people dont really like themselves. Some people dont like being alone because deep down there's self hatred bubbling, so they HAVE to be with someone. And this usually sets them up for failure with women. "Why is this chick disrespecting me?" Well fam, you dont respect yourself, how could you expect her to? You allowed her to call you a hoe ass nikka. lol It kills me when I hear people get disrespected by their lady or some random broad. Let some random cat in the club call them a hoe ass nikka and they ready to grab the heat and merk that dude over it. But when their lady talk crazy to them at home or in public, they swallow it like bad medicine. All because they value the cooch over their self worth.

They weak get preyed on. Females know who to come at and not come at with that disrepect. I treat everyone with respect, male or female until I deem otherwise - and the females I meet can sense it. But females are naturally rebellious so sometimes they'll test you to see if you a lame. Dont be passive - check them and check them hard. The'll respect you for it. Trust me. I've dealt with females that show me respect and love and talk to the other lames they deal with RIDICULOUS. haha All because they lack confidence and integrity.

Holla
 

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