Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Petite & Feisty
Sophisticated Ignorance
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28 days?One thing cats need to do is have a short memory.If a woman goes awol over 2 days...im already moved on to the next one. Women will throw the "Im busy" excuse...but there is only so much busy in the world.Ok here is the chart
1 text w/no reply from her= Move on. Save your texts and time.
No voicemails because She has caller id,she know you called.Plus voicemails will be played back to her friends in case things go awry.
If you get a # from a female,call within 24 hours because women act like they have short memory.They forgot what the last pair of shoes were they bought,then they will forget you.
Save the conversation.Always leave them hanging.If you dont have the mystery element,then they are bored.
1 text w/no reply from her= Move on. Save your texts and time.
No voicemails because She has caller id,she know you called.Plus voicemails will be played back to her friends in case things go awry.
If you get a # from a female,call within 24 hours because women act like they have short memory.They forgot what the last pair of shoes were they bought,then they will forget you.
Save the conversation.Always leave them hanging.If you dont have the mystery element,then they are bored.
Exactly, more than a week without contact is easily her doing something she shouldn't be doing or her having little to no interest in you. It just shows she has little to no concern for you. Nobody is that busy that in this world of mass communication that they can't take a minute to send a message to let you know how they are doing. I remember when dealing with women and they were really into me, they'd even put their family on hold or talk to me while their family was around. They never happened to be 'too busy'. The 'too busy' thing came up when we were about to break up.
Let me tell you what 'too busy' REALLY is. It's her being interested in another guy but wanting to put herself in a position to keep you hanging around in case he doesn't work out. If it DOES work out with him, she'll hit you with the 'we need to talk' ordeal and say how she wasn't getting what she needed, etc... If it doesn't, all of a sudden she will become unbusy, but when she comes back, she won't be as available or into the relationship as before... she'll start disappearing more and more often. In this situation, what you do is you simply tell her, "look babygirl, I'm going to let you focus on whatever you have to do over there, but I'm moving on." Give her the boot and keep it pushing. Don't let these women play chess with you, keeping you as a back-up.
Let me tell you what 'too busy' REALLY is. It's her being interested in another guy but wanting to put herself in a position to keep you hanging around in case he doesn't work out. If it DOES work out with him, she'll hit you with the 'we need to talk' ordeal and say how she wasn't getting what she needed, etc... If it doesn't, all of a sudden she will become unbusy, but when she comes back, she won't be as available or into the relationship as before... she'll start disappearing more and more often. In this situation, what you do is you simply tell her, "look babygirl, I'm going to let you focus on whatever you have to do over there, but I'm moving on." Give her the boot and keep it pushing. Don't let these women play chess with you, keeping you as a back-up.
This thread demonstrates some of the things we were talking about to a tee:
Never let a female charge you and stop worrying about offending women
http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/17866-told-pof-bit-ch-i-aint-feeding-her-she-went-off.html
A female that is lightweight mad is better than one that is bored.
Never let a female charge you and stop worrying about offending women
http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/17866-told-pof-bit-ch-i-aint-feeding-her-she-went-off.html
A female that is lightweight mad is better than one that is bored.
One tip to all you cats should learn is when to get out of the game. It's not often, but if you run into that one broad that you know is legit and got her mind right, leave all the hood rats and jump off alones. One dime with her head on straight is worth more than a 10 hood rats who'll let you bust off in em for a blunt and some peach ciroq.
but if it's 11 hood rats
bruh this IS THE MAIN ISSUE
nikkas don't know when to get out of the game
fukkn different bytches is the drug game 100%
I seriously need somebody to intelligently explain how they were able to walk away from the game
was it by choice? or did you go out like Brett Favre???
Coast'in
Rookie
Brehs, I was thinkin of droppin some game like this to this chick that works in the post office at my alma mater.
**Walks up to the desk**
Me: Dudes probably try all kind of creative ways to talk to you. So, I am just gon' do this
**Writes name on piece of paper and gives it to her**
Me: If you call...Cool. If you don't...Still Cool
**Walks away and doesn't look back**
Tryin to be on some
mysterious stuff.
**Walks up to the desk**
Me: Dudes probably try all kind of creative ways to talk to you. So, I am just gon' do this
**Writes name on piece of paper and gives it to her**
Me: If you call...Cool. If you don't...Still Cool
**Walks away and doesn't look back**
Tryin to be on some
mysterious stuff.
Captain Crunch
Veteran
Brehs, I was thinkin of droppin some game like this to this chick that works in the post office at my alma mater.
**Walks up to the desk**
Me: Dudes probably try all kind of creative ways to talk to you. So, I am just gon' do this
**Writes name on piece of paper and gives it to her**
Me: If you call...Cool. If you don't...Still Cool
**Walks away and doesn't look back**
Tryin to be on some
Don't think about what you're going to say, just say off the cuff.
Go up to her, and say the first thing that comes to mind and exchange numbers.
Best believe, a chick knows within 5 or so seconds if she want to fukk w/ you or not, so it really doesn't matter what you say, just put that bid in.
One of the mistakes a lot of men make is thinking they got to go and say something fly to a woman... trying to talk to a woman like pimpin ken with some ol witty rhyming. That kind of stuff turns off women more than anything. If you just keep it simple, you will have a much higher chance of success. When you're getting at woman, don't outwardly verbalize that you were trying to distinguish yourself from other men. It shows you were thinking too much. You did well with keeping it simple though. Also, leave out the 'if you call me cool, if you don't cool." It makes you look like you lack confidence or you don't really care about her, like you're preconditioning yourself in case she doesn't call. Mentally, it's fine to think that, but don't verbalize it.
With women, being natural is where it's at. You can simply say something like, "I'm not going to lie, something about you intrigues me. I'd definitely like to get to know you better. I don't have much time, so here's my number. call me if you're interested." Then walk off.
With women, being natural is where it's at. You can simply say something like, "I'm not going to lie, something about you intrigues me. I'd definitely like to get to know you better. I don't have much time, so here's my number. call me if you're interested." Then walk off.
It's just you feeling so at home with the woman you are interacting with and her reciprocating that you decide it's time for me to settle in.
Coast'in
Rookie
Good look bruh! Just trying to refine my approach a lil
The Message
Lex with tv sets the minimum
My pops told me this when I was nine. haha This is truth tho. She already got you sized up and in her mind has already decided to give you the kooch. All you have to do is NOT MESS IT UP. Just put it on autopilot and make it do what it do.
True, if a woman is feeling you, then she will be intrigued by anything that you say that is coherent and makes sense. At the same token, trying to convince a woman that isn't feeling you to get with you is a waste of time at best.
It hurts my soul when I see dudes still trying to kick it to a female after she shut him down. I know some people say keep swinging until you hit something. Well I say only swing at pitches you know you have a good chance of hitting.
If you talk to every chick you see, you will look like a savage and lose value. Don't be the dude to talk to every chick that passes you by. The next girl that's about to walk by probably done see you in action and wants no part of it.
Be selective and exclusive. Learn the signs that women give when they're feeling you (body language, tone, things they say). That should give you an indication on whether to go for the kill. You will eventually get to the point where you can have a conversation with a woman and tell if she's interested in you.
What I like to do is to meet a chick and converse with her casually and flirt to see if she's receptive. If she is receptive then I go for the kill. If she's not, then I quickly say "well nice meeting you", save face and move on to the next one.
Using this technique, I must admit that for every 10 females I approach, I have bagged 8.
It hurts my soul when I see dudes still trying to kick it to a female after she shut him down. I know some people say keep swinging until you hit something. Well I say only swing at pitches you know you have a good chance of hitting.
If you talk to every chick you see, you will look like a savage and lose value. Don't be the dude to talk to every chick that passes you by. The next girl that's about to walk by probably done see you in action and wants no part of it.
Be selective and exclusive. Learn the signs that women give when they're feeling you (body language, tone, things they say). That should give you an indication on whether to go for the kill. You will eventually get to the point where you can have a conversation with a woman and tell if she's interested in you.
What I like to do is to meet a chick and converse with her casually and flirt to see if she's receptive. If she is receptive then I go for the kill. If she's not, then I quickly say "well nice meeting you", save face and move on to the next one.
Using this technique, I must admit that for every 10 females I approach, I have bagged 8.
iMajor
MartinLouisTheKingJr
Girls are like busses. Miss 1? The next 1 coming
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