Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[duncanthetall]

what did you do to step up your game breh? stop caring? gave your number out to girls instead of asking for them?

Acting as if I known how fukking awesome I am instead of trying to find out what a female likes and tweaking myself to what she'd like. I act as if I'm the prize, like they say. As if I'm what she's aspiring to get, not the other way around. I went against the grain here and piped a chick I work with, but its just because after I had been adjusting and it was my first victory since changing my ways again.

I also stopped saying "I'm sorry." To everyone but like my mom and family. Females don't get that. I'm not going to apologize and let them hold that over me and make me feel like a bytch begging for their forgiveness. Most of the times I"m not sorry, and you're gonna know that and get ove rit. I act as if I'm just more of a fukking man and I don't give a fukk, for real. Its really all you've got to do. I've had like 3 chicks I know start acting different towards me just over the past 2 weeks, no shyt, son. I'm normally a pretty anxious person, and I don't like talking to females I don't really know or have any rapport with. But its just like...fukk that. What are they gonna do? Joke about me behind my back? In front of me? fukk I gotta be ashamed about son lol.

I feel like I just have nothing I am ashamed about in terms of how I act or what I say or do, and I behave in that way. Plus just little things that have been posted in this thread.

 

[MikelArteta]

like someone else mentioned don't compare yourself to her new man, ive done that in the past facebook, even got some of my girls to add that dirtbag nikka. point is who cares if he's a dirtbag, who cares if he treats her like garbage, and is cheatign and hitting her, it ain't your problem anymore, she chose him, don't think this new guy is better than you, women make horrible decisions we already know that

 

[James Carter]

at how this thread never ends. Salute to all of yall who dropped knowledge and helped guide us to being better men

 

[Steezy]

any of yall nikkas smutted out yall coworkers ?

i just got a job with the sexy ass chick and she was given ya boy mad play in the training room. got her number and made plans to head to the movies after work monday..

i plan to good that night

 

[duncanthetall]

any of yall nikkas smutted out yall coworkers ?

i just got a job with the sexy ass chick and she was given ya boy mad play in the training room. got her number and made plans to head to the movies after work monday..

i plan to good that night

I stay pipin co-workers. wherever i work. and i last worked at a gym before my current job, and brah. so many bad bytches. so many sexy older chicks workin on they fitness. signin them up for a membership and got to kno they whole life story. had one ex-wife milf. only the one time but LAWD. 2nd best sex of my life nikka

 

[MikelArteta]

Dont date co workers

 

[Sharp]

When a female you're dating starts talking about her ex, you have to nip that in the bud immediately. Whether it's good or bad things she's saying you have to let her know, "You're with me now and I don't want to hear a single thing about your ex from this point forward."

If you allow her to say the bad things about him to inflate your ego, you will end up always competing to be a better man to her than he was. You don't want to do that, you just want to be you. It's too much pressure and stress to live up to anybody else's standards.

No ex talk. In fact, don't even talk about your past relationships. If she asks, by default tell her, "I moved on with my life and I try not to talk about things are irrelevant." If she keeps prying after that, it is because she is insecure.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

This was a very interesting thread to read. I'm not part of the "dating" world, so I'm not familiar with the "games" that are needed to be played in order to always be a step ahead of the person you're playing.

I'm not sure if any of you are God conscious or follow a religion, but by judging the "dating" scene, it becomes more obvious why fornication is a sin & relationships can only truly blossom within the realms of marriage.

Most of you here are disregarding marriage.. saying you could never trust a woman. But that's because the side of the fence you're on there is no trust. From a young age you've been sleeping with women, to the point that you've taught yourself to de-tach from all emotions.. in order to satisfy your desires, whilst protecting your heart. In essence you've become like robots with little emotion, and as consequence learnt to objectify any woman that crosses your path. Similarly, many women are victims of society. They've been taught & encouraged to sell their bodies through vids/mags/movies, and encouraged to have sex to please a man. Society as a whole has created this disease. The only way to truly free yourself from this is to turn back to God.

I'm not here to preach, I'm just here to give a female's perspective.

 

[J_rock]

This was a very interesting thread to read. I'm not part of the "dating" world, so I'm not familiar with the "games" that are needed to be played in order to always be a step ahead of the person you're playing.

I'm not sure if any of you are God conscious or follow a religion, but by judging the "dating" scene, it becomes more obvious why fornication is a sin & relationships can only truly blossom within the realms of marriage.

Most of you here are disregarding marriage.. saying you could never trust a woman. But that's because the side of the fence you're on there is no trust. From a young age you've been drilling/sleeping with women, to the point that you've taught yourself to de-tach from all emotions.. in order to satisfy your desires, whilst protecting your heart. In essence you've become like robots with little emotion, and as consequence learnt to objectify any woman that crosses your path. Similarly, many women are victims of society. They've been taught & encouraged to sell their bodies through vids/mags/movies, and encouraged to have sex to get a guy to like them. Society as a whole has created this disease. The only way to truly free yourself from this is to turn back to God.

I'm not here to preach, I'm just here to give a female's perspective.

Ma'am, no disrespect, buit you've completely missed the message and point of this thread. I doubt you even read most of the posts in here before you commented. You are not coming from a female's perspective, you're coming from a religious dogma perspective. Kindly please take that bullshyt somewhere else or post something constructive to the thread. Thank you and have a nice day.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

Ma'am, no disrespect, buit you've completely missed the message and point of this thread. I doubt you even read most of the posts in here before you commented. You are not coming from a female's perspective, you're coming from a religious dogma perspective. Kindly please take that bullshyt somewhere else or post something constructive to the thread. Thank you and have a nice day.

I believe what I posted was constructive, sir.

I pointed out that the "manual" you guys have created is needed in your world because as society moves further away from God & morals, this is what's left. As a result, most of you are throwing away your morals, repressing your conscience, in order to satisfy your body's need.. leaving your soul to starve. But remember your body is only on earth for a temporary period.. & your soul is eternal.

If you don't believe in what I'm saying, feel free to disregard it, sir. I'm just here to preach the word... let others benefit.

Have a good day too!

 

[MikelArteta]

"If you had five dollars, and had to give somebody two-fifty, you'd be upset..."


http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=SniOXFhwIZ8

"Love and money does not mix"

 

[ThaBoyBam]

As far as sex goes. A women's lust is way stronger than ours. They can't really express their Desiree's like us due to social ridicule. Point I'm trying to make is...there's no reason to worry about shyt. fukk game and all that.

If you just want to fukk a chick. Tell her you want to fukk. Gotta be bold Brehs. Leave all that fairy tale romantic shyt to the ladies.

Play along if she's wifey material.

If a chick is wifey material, she WILL let you know. Can't really explain it, but you don't want to fukk that up.

 

[Rich Spirit]

When a female you're dating starts talking about her ex, you have to nip that in the bud immediately. Whether it's good or bad things she's saying you have to let her know, "You're with me now and I don't want to hear a single thing about your ex from this point forward."

If you allow her to say the bad things about him to inflate your ego, you will end up always competing to be a better man to her than he was. You don't want to do that, you just want to be you. It's too much pressure and stress to live up to anybody else's standards.

No ex talk. In fact, don't even talk about your past relationships. If she asks, by default tell her, "I moved on with my life and I try not to talk about things are irrelevant." If she keeps prying after that, it is because she is insecure.

I had a experience with this last year, dealt with this chick that talked about her ex and the thing is that although they wasn't together anymore, she was still getting some dikk from him

 

[Sharp]

A majority of chicks are emotionally unstable right after they break up with their boyfriends. This can last up to months. No matter how nice or great of a female she appears to be, you can't wife her. Her moods will change constantly and it will take months before her emotions stabilize and you see who she really is. Beware of emotional cripples who are looking for attention and comfort due to a bad break-up.

If a chicks talks about her ex without you bringing the topic up (and you shouldn't be doing that anyway), she still has baggage.

Don't allow yourself to be anybody's rebound. Don't deal with projects and case studies... (bout to drop some science on this)

 

[Sharp]

A Case Study is a woman who has emotional problems due to previous relationships. You spend a majority of your energy and strength trying to understand her and correct her. You end up having to fix what years of dealing with the wrong brothers have done to her mentality. Our experiences mold our personalities and perceptions. If she has been with unfaithful lovers in the past, trust will definitely be an issue for her in the future. Her number one priority is protecting her feelings and keeping her sanity, which ironically makes her appear crazy.

Case studies are likely to take cues from the past and attack you based on them. So in essence, you are being punished for what the previous brother has done to her.