Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

What do brehs think of Bumble? Make an attractive profile, wait for women to message you first

 

[Apollo Creed]

What do brehs think of Bumble? Make an attractive profile, wait for women to message you first

women are socially awkward in general so "message first" is usually some weird shyt + they got 24 hrs to message after a match and lotta hoes use the apps passively so expect a lot of expirations too

 

[VertigoKnight]

Dudes can't be schooled, they just have to learn.

Over the years, I find if I'm having to deal with this sort of micro stuff, it means my macro is off.

I know many, if not most, girls enjoy my company, my presence, my conversation, etc.
That doesn't mean she's coming out the clothes cause I made a funny, but a chick hangs with your boy she enjoys her time.

So if chicks A,B,C are not into it like that (which is what this sounds like) - that means my pool is too small. I'm hitting on chicks with either low energy or probably low-to-medium interest. In the sort of text messaging/boring dates/busy schedule type females - low energy and low interest are the same. It's a little different in a club environment (because you can use externals to spark both energy and interest) - but if she's just living her boring life - work/school/home/social media - just shoot me.

Most definitely. There is only so much I can tell him. He has to go through certain things to learn. Get that real-world experience.

He definitely pursues chicks with low to medium interest though, and even with the medium-level chicks he can't escalate anything and close the deal.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Most definitely. There is only so much I can tell him. He has to go through certain things to learn. Get that real-world experience.

He definitely pursues chicks with low to medium interest though, and even with the medium-level chicks he can't escalate anything and close the deal.

And this is the issue. I feel if dudes stuck
To high interest chicks life would be easier. The experience is MUCH better and dudes who are capable of high volume chicks tend to not have these issues so its better dudes find their lane and maximize it.

The common issue is dudes dont like their lane (the chicks who show interest) or no chicks show
Interest (which is then a sign to self improve).

I rather deal with avg to cute chicks that like me more tjan i like them than chase a chick i gotta prove myself to lmfao. Aint nobody on this earth you should prove yourself to because then you always in a constant state of catch up

 

[Ahadi]

And this is the issue. I feel if dudes stuck
To high interest chicks life would be easier. The experience is MUCH better and dudes who are capable of high volume chicks tend to not have these issues so its better dudes find their lane and maximize it.

The common issue is dudes dont like their lane (the chicks who show interest) or no chicks show
Interest (which is then a sign to self improve).

I rather deal with avg to cute chicks that like me more tjan i like them than chase a chick i gotta prove myself to lmfao. Aint nobody on this earth you should prove yourself to because then you always in a constant state of catch up

!!!!!!!!!!!

Understanding interest levels is important. Stop giving energy to low interest women and pay attention to the high interest ones.

 

[Haliax]

I hope yall aint photoshopping holiday pics. Amelias algorithms can pick up on that.

 

[Apollo Creed]

!!!!!!!!!!!

Understanding interest levels is important. Stop giving energy to low interest women and pay attention to the high interest ones.

Even the sex is diff when a chick is into you more lmfao. The worst sex ever is with the so called “baddie” cause she used to dudes worshiping her this she doesnt even know how to have sex but more so just lay there.

And if you never dated “bad” chicks then you are unaware of the headache they are plus how insecure they are. They only good for hitting and quitting.

This why my philoshpy is keep ot simple, when you have to over think shyt you already down bad.

I feel if dudes figure out how to get around chicks who share common interest (lets be real most dudes DONT have hobbies this is why even finding a place for dates is a struggle for them), that conquers 70% of the issue.

If you are among people with common interest it makes convo much easier thus you can gauge vibes and not come off as a 2002 PUA tryna remember what yoh read in a book lol

 

[Organic Trees]

I failed the mission last night

Shorty in her early 20s been wanting to fuxk me for months. Finally told her to pull up. Ate the in different positions. Shorty was a waterfall the whole session. Forgot I didn’t have rubbers so I just said fuxk it. Slid in & couldn’t last more than 3 minutes. Several sessions

Got damn that shyt was amazing

I see why nikkas fuxk with younger hoes

 

[Ahadi]

Even the sex is diff when a chick is into you more lmfao. The worst sex ever is with the so called “baddie” cause she used to dudes worshiping her this she doesnt even know how to have sex but more so just lay there.

And if you never dated “bad” chicks then you are unaware of the headache they are plus how insecure they are. They only good for hitting and quitting.

This why my philoshpy is keep ot simple, when you have to over think shyt you already down bad.

I feel if dudes figure out how to get around chicks who share common interest (lets be real most dudes DONT have hobbies this is why even finding a place for dates is a struggle for them), that conquers 70% of the issue.

If you are among people with common interest it makes convo much easier thus you can gauge vibes and not come off as a 2002 PUA tryna remember what yoh read in a book lol

Also having your own hobbies invite the opportunity to teach them, and fully bring them into your world.

That’s why reading every day, doing a new activity every two weeks or however, many times a month just so you have something to talk about, and become not only more interesting, but resourceful and cultured.

You should never have to overthink anything. It should be a tennis match you as a guy should not be thinking - “it’s been 2 days should I text her?”

No, it should all be natural. Women are not inept, if they like you, they will put themselves in position with you.

 

[MikelArteta]

Third date we just had breakfast at this spot. Again she came to my area but she drove this time, we ate talked etc. and then the bill came and she paid

 

[Ohene]

Whewww glad i ended it with my now ex
fukk a sunk cost fallacy

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Whewww glad i ended it with my now ex
fukk a sunk cost fallacy

damn breh.. I thought you had a performance plan with her

 

[MikelArteta]

Whewww glad i ended it with my now ex
fukk a sunk cost fallacy

damn its really over?

Sacrebleu

 

[Apollo Creed]

Also having your own hobbies invite the opportunity to teach them, and fully bring them into your world.

That’s why reading every day, doing a new activity every two weeks or however, many times a month just so you have something to talk about, and become not only more interesting, but resourceful and cultured.

You should never have to overthink anything. It should be a tennis match you as a guy should not be thinking - “it’s been 2 days should I text her?”

No, it should all be natural. Women are not inept, if they like you, they will put themselves in position with you.

Exactly, i always say when you arent doing what YOU want to do you already lost the battle

 

[WIA20XX]

What do brehs think of Bumble? Make an attractive profile, wait for women to message you first

If you're getting success on the other apps, you'll get success here.

From what my people tell me, the chicks aren't more serious or motivated though.

The totality of the dating environment favors women - which only benefits men at the top - which makes women worse off....