Facts at the bolded lolthe one thing I will say is always put the ball in her court. As in you are going to do what you have to do on your end, if she chooses to join then it is because she wants to. I say this because women LOVE making men out to be the bad guy. Everything she did she will say she did it because of you and then her fam and your fam looking at you crazy.
In this day and age you damn near have to build your world and then take on serious relationships AFTER. The days of a woman being with you on your journey imo are over. It's a gift and curse in the sense that often times we would hold off on risk just to make sure our girl was happy, and the curse is the road can be lonely and nikkas toss out logic once they are in need of female companionship and this tends to be what gets us messed up.
My family good though.
Even after the decision I called my dad and he co-signed it. Cousin as well. Brother as well.
They completely understand where I’m coming from
One thing I’ll say about this girl is she will throw the ball back. And I don’t blame her. At the end of the day it’s my home, my country etc. so fukk it I’ll make the tough decision
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