Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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the one thing I will say is always put the ball in her court. As in you are going to do what you have to do on your end, if she chooses to join then it is because she wants to. I say this because women LOVE making men out to be the bad guy. Everything she did she will say she did it because of you and then her fam and your fam looking at you crazy.

In this day and age you damn near have to build your world and then take on serious relationships AFTER. The days of a woman being with you on your journey imo are over. It's a gift and curse in the sense that often times we would hold off on risk just to make sure our girl was happy, and the curse is the road can be lonely and nikkas toss out logic once they are in need of female companionship and this tends to be what gets us messed up.
Facts at the bolded lol
My family good though.
Even after the decision I called my dad and he co-signed it. Cousin as well. Brother as well.


They completely understand where I’m coming from

One thing I’ll say about this girl is she will throw the ball back. And I don’t blame her. At the end of the day it’s my home, my country etc. so fukk it I’ll make the tough decision :manny:
 
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Facts at the bolded lol
My family good though
Even after the decision I called my dad and he co-signed it. Cousin as well


They completely understand where I’m coming from

One thing I’ll say about this girl is she will throw the ball back. And I don’t blame her. At the end of the day it’s my home, my country etc. so fukk it I’ll make the tough decision :manny:
you dodged a bullet, bringing chicks to this country never ends well. Keep they ass where they at and visit em every so often.

Assuming you African you should know how to manage secret families all over the world
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Lol yup
And yes I’m a Ghanaian breh
yeah keep her ass in the village man. Just have an American GF/Date in America with no kids, and have your wife and kids be Ghana outside of Accra and then just visit every few months.

West African women be on social media imitating the worst of the West so you better off getting a village girl, building a house and keeping her there and send ya kids to the top international school.
 

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yeah keep her ass in the village man. Just have an American GF/Date in America with no kids, and have your wife and kids be Ghana outside of Accra and then just visit every few months.

West African women be on social media imitating the worst of the West so you better off getting a village girl, building a house and keeping her there and send ya kids to the top international school.
yea Ghanaian and Nigerian women idolize Americans
at the end of the day we are in a globalized world, it dont matter where you get a chick from, they all the same
 

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Bruhs set up the coffee option all wrong. They should position it as a easy first meet up up to see how things click. Talking to a chick for weeks , showing interest and then saying coffee as a first date is a goof.

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The problem is once a female gives a "scouting report", a strategy should be in place of how to proceed further..which includes ramping pressure and/or falling back..

This goes for whatever endgame you trying to accomplish..(trickin/casual/relationship)

You can win being sloppy with some lonely female who just happy to get attention..

But if it's a female who actually has "suitors", sometimes precise execution is the deciding factor...

That "I'm the prize" High horse isn't gonna cut it when she has men in "orbit" that look better and make more...
 

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yea Ghanaian and Nigerian women idolize Americans
at the end of the day we are in a globalized world, it dont matter where you get a chick from, they all the same
What i will say though is that often an african woman raised in a two parent household in your country for example a person bornin america to nigerians , will better understand the relationship dynamic and know how to treat a man. My best gfs were both nigerian

Theres also just a bond/understanding given the cultural similarities
 
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