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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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You are upset because I disgraced you in another thread. Please, don't soil this thread with your animosity.
Rocket Scientist
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Rocket Scientist
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So my 1st date went well.Ol girl was looking like Kenya Moore and Meagan Stallion put together. She 5'11 so she stands out. Im 6'2. Went for lunch I made sure that bill wasnt gonna be high 
. She really feeling me.She a keeper but just going day by day.
. She really feeling me.She a keeper but just going day by day.
I overheard this girl telling another girl I was beautiful this morning. As a former uglygang member idk how to feel about it
It's hard to accept this new perception of me. I used to get called ugly and got "ewwwww" ed everyday. Now I get eye contact and up and down gazes
None of this shyt matters. I used to crave validation. Now that I have too much I feel very conflicted
It's hard to accept this new perception of me. I used to get called ugly and got "ewwwww" ed everyday. Now I get eye contact and up and down gazes
None of this shyt matters. I used to crave validation. Now that I have too much I feel very conflicted
africngiant
All Star
do y’all have any cues when going out alone to not look like a weirdo
@A Pimp Named Slickback, one of the best compliments I ever got was from an extremely attractive women: "the best thing about you is (despite your looks) you have no ego", obviously, I do have an ego, even one I need to watch, (some ego is healthy) but, what she was saying is that I am not arrogant, and don't crave validation or entitlement.
@africngiant
so I had to catch this, because I roll solo like 80% of the time, traveled to other countries, ate 22 course meals by myself, go to movies alone, I have done it all alone.
Here's the thing, you won't really look like a weirdo. That's all in your head. And mostly, women will be intrigued. The key is to have confidence, and BE confident. I'll take a fukking novel to a high end spot, and read at the bar, order a meal. Obviously, not like at LIV or something. But, I'll roll to a club solo, in LA or Spain, and women will just come up and talk to you. Was in LA at The Conrad hotel, rooftop spot, had like a three hour dinner, oysters, salad, appetizers, burger, dessert, waiting for the last train, and the extremely fine hostess, was flirting, "You look like you know how to treat yourself, I need to do that more often". Obviously, these are pretty exclusive spots, it's not like having a drink at the local bar, but the concept is the same. Had a long afternoon at a spot in Bel Air, and every single woman in there looked hard at me, and two even struck up convos. Was reading my book, chilling, having a meal by myself. "You must be waiting for your wife"
Sit alone at a bar, and don't drink too much, don't talk too much to the staff, unless they are feeling you, and people will get it. And respect it, and probably even envy it. Dress well. Be comfortable in your own skin. If someone can master this, it just unlocks a whole world. There is no more "I need someone to be with me". Hope this gives the idea to lose the fear of looking like a weirdo.
@africngiant
so I had to catch this, because I roll solo like 80% of the time, traveled to other countries, ate 22 course meals by myself, go to movies alone, I have done it all alone.
Here's the thing, you won't really look like a weirdo. That's all in your head. And mostly, women will be intrigued. The key is to have confidence, and BE confident. I'll take a fukking novel to a high end spot, and read at the bar, order a meal. Obviously, not like at LIV or something. But, I'll roll to a club solo, in LA or Spain, and women will just come up and talk to you. Was in LA at The Conrad hotel, rooftop spot, had like a three hour dinner, oysters, salad, appetizers, burger, dessert, waiting for the last train, and the extremely fine hostess, was flirting, "You look like you know how to treat yourself, I need to do that more often". Obviously, these are pretty exclusive spots, it's not like having a drink at the local bar, but the concept is the same. Had a long afternoon at a spot in Bel Air, and every single woman in there looked hard at me, and two even struck up convos. Was reading my book, chilling, having a meal by myself. "You must be waiting for your wife"
Sit alone at a bar, and don't drink too much, don't talk too much to the staff, unless they are feeling you, and people will get it. And respect it, and probably even envy it. Dress well. Be comfortable in your own skin. If someone can master this, it just unlocks a whole world. There is no more "I need someone to be with me". Hope this gives the idea to lose the fear of looking like a weirdo.
Facts I'm an empath and I always get called humble, great guy, old soul, wise, cool, shyt like that
I'm at a point where I'm all of these things plus I don't seek validation anymore. So I'm an empath with healthy self esteem which is a game changer. Been working on myself for 6 months now. Not hoeing I'm talking making money, working out, getting closer to God reading books, self reflection. That's a must. Not for women either strictly for self
How she a keeper but you going day by daySo my 1st date went well.Ol girl was looking like Kenya Moore and Meagan Stallion put together. She 5'11 so she stands out. Im 6'2. Went for lunch I made sure that bill wasnt gonna be high
Lmfaoooo nikka dont get finessed please
Do things You Actually want to do
Brandsdale
Big Yella
Wear AirPods so you feel less awkward
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Very few people will notice you, most people are worried about their own insecurities to notice you.
I go to many concerts by myself as some of my friends aren't in to the same music or artists that I enjoy. I also travel by myself a lot as some of my friends don't like to travel outside the country or they got too many responsibilities to travel.
Master small talk & the world will be your oyster. A small greet could spark a conversation that could lead to a friendship/relationship or network opportunities.
My closest homeboys I met him while at events rolling dolo. I used to bump in to him in the gym & different club events around the city, just give each other head nods, respect & kept it moving. Till one day we decided to go to an event together then we been homeboys ever since. He's good with the ladies & have been wingman to him a few times
So my 1st date went well.Ol girl was looking like Kenya Moore and Meagan Stallion put together. She 5'11 so she stands out. Im 6'2. Went for lunch I made sure that bill wasnt gonna be high
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
[/QUOTENikka you stay following me in majority of my posts,be replying with smilies if you have an issue with me use some words b . I said what I said.Ol serious azz nikka
I love rolling by myself.
I set the tone, I can dictate the speed of the convo, the next move, etc.
When you’re with ppl you have to rely on chemistry, they’re extensions of you. So if someone says something dumb or moves in an outrageous fashion, it falls on you. Even if you look the “best” they look at you as lower value because you associated with them,
You just be yourself and have fun.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
No doubt thats the best way.