Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

My interpals account is messing up and I just started talking to this hot black french girl

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

About females gaslighting. Great video

 

[International Playa]

I feel you bro. I have no problem being playful and teasing... grabbin ass, sayin dirty things in a woman's ear, but if a woman expresses to me that something i said or did....didn't sit well with her... i wouldn't laugh about it or call her sensitive unless she was bothered by every little thing I did or said. This was my first time ever addressing something with her. When trynna talk about it, I found her behavior dismissive and deflective. I think the bros in this thread are right.
As a man...if you don't like something and you address...i think it's the right thing to do.


Nothin much happened. She's not my GF. only been kickin it with her for a few weeks... I'm gonna assume she was being playful...idk it was 4:00am and she was a little tipsy but the fact that the next morning when she was completely sober and said, "Yeah i spit it on your ugly feet" was crossing the line IMO. I've never dealt with anything like this... and for me to bring it up then she laughs and says you're acting like a princess? im like WTF? is this gaslighting?
A man tries to point out some BS and it's dismissed. Yall are right though. I'm gonna let her go



facts. time to throw her away


you speakin facts bro. I'm like disrespect is based on how that person feels. But for her to flip it on me and be like "you're just being sensitive. I've done worse things to my exes and they were fine. Let me ask my friend if she finds this funny."
To me, I think most guys just let a lot of shyt slide and don't say anything so that they can keep the peace and keep some p*ssy around. Not me... I think she's gaslighting me. she keeps hitting me up asking if i
m ok and invites me to lunch and whatnot... but shytttt

your girl is funny. No disrespect

I'm guessing she is young with a bit of an edge to her. She got that humour/banter that could be easily mistaken for disrespect or gaslighting

 

[Apollo Creed]

your girl is funny. No disrespect

I'm guessing she is young with a bit of an edge to her. She got that humour/banter that could be easily mistaken for disrespect.

her humor is disrespectful. Aint shyt cute bout that.

 

[John Reena]

Females doing they manhood test on us apart of dating. Da minute she try to play u, u check her RIGHT then n there. After that, she def gone be like “Damn, this nikka stood up to me. He passed the test. He damn sure gonna protect me.” Don’t take it personal, it’s something in women DNA that make them want to test you. It’s like an instinct.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

My interpals account is messing up and I just started talking to this hot black french girl

It's back, and I got her to video call with me.

I take back what I said about black european women she was so fine I had to whip out my guitar

 

[MikelArteta]

Just scheduled second date for next week wed . I really enjoyed my time yesterday

Have a date tomorrow with this jamaican nurse
Saturday with this nigerian chick
Sunday I rest
Date on Monday with this romanian chick

I need to pause my hinge account this is getting insane


Dating in your 30's as a black man should be illegal

 

[VertigoKnight]

Was going to meet this Filipino chick this Friday in my hood, but my gut is telling me to bush.

Matched with her on Tinder last Sunday.

The chat has been pedestrian so far, she was talking a big game about how she was "an experience like no other"

so I rolled the dice and gave her my number earlier today. Told her to text me.

She didn't even acknowledge that when she replied. but asked what I had planned for tomorrow. I told her and still no reply.

I can already see an evening of trying to force conversation on the cards. I had another invite with a chick I already see. May take that up instead as I know she's a lot of fun.

 

[Spacejam23]

Was going to meet this Filipino chick this Friday in my hood, but my gut is telling me to bush.

Matched with her on Tinder last Sunday.

The chat has been pedestrian so far, she was talking a big game about how she was "an experience like no other"

so I rolled the dice and gave her my number earlier today. Told her to text me.

She didn't even acknowledge that when she replied. but asked what I had planned for tomorrow. I told her and still no reply.

I can already see an evening of trying to force conversation on the cards. I had another invite with a chick I already see. May take that up instead as I know she's a lot of fun.

Lol i matched woth pinay yesterday
On tinder as well
Suppose to meet up sunday
Cute but def not my type
Hella tats on her arms and chest

And told she gets bored easy
Red flag
Then asked to go on a tattoo date to pay for new tat
Said usally has situaltioships

Overall a bird brain not gonna pursre any more

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Going to meet up with this fine ass Jamaican woman tomorrow met her on this Couple speed dating app.

 

[Spacejam23]

Lol i matched woth pinay yesterday
On tinder as well
Suppose to meet up sunday
Cute but def not my type
Hella tats on her arms and chest

And told she gets bored easy
Red flag
Then asked to go on a tattoo date to pay for new tat
Said usally has situaltioships

Overall a bird brain not gonna pursre any more

This proved my point tinder is overall trash and in a dumpster fire probly wont be using this app anymore always matching with trash on here

Hinge is way better for not to many problems with that app and metbsome good woman on there

 

[Ohene]

Just scheduled second date for next week wed . I really enjoyed my time yesterday

Have a date tomorrow with this jamaican nurse
Saturday with this nigerian chick
Sunday I rest
Date on Monday with this romanian chick

I need to pause my hinge account this is getting insane


Dating in your 30's as a black man should be illegal

Send pics

 

[Astroslik]

Going to meet up with this fine ass Jamaican woman tomorrow met her on this Couple speed dating app.

What app is this

 

[Astroslik]

Aye fellas. would yall take this as disrespect? or am I being sensitive? a few things happened

Been seeing a chick...
1) I'm taking a shower... she brushes her teeth and then joins me but has mouthwash in her mouth. She intentionally spits it out on my feet in the shower. Then the next day is like "yeah I spit it on your ugly feet"

2) later that day she's walking 10-20 ft behind me for about an hour...

3) on her phone. To me, I think it's fine if you're on the phone... but just say "give me a min while I check this" instead she's on the phone and not even walking as I continue to walk.

I tell her these things and she starts laughing especially at the mouthwash...

Am i being sensitive? or would yall be cool with that?

Man..wtf. Respect yourself

 

[MikelArteta]

This proved my point tinder is overall trash and in a dumpster fire probly wont be using this app anymore always matching with trash on here

Hinge is way better for not to many problems with that app and metbsome good woman on there

I'd only use tinder if I'm travelling to like african countries as hinge is only in south africa but not other african countries.

Tinder in north america is